The Kinky Tavern

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are talking about Rewards and Punishments in kink and BDSM. Have you ever heard the phrase “the carrot or the stick?” The carrot is typically seen as the reward in the phrase and the stick, the punishment. Knowing several littles and masochists who would argue this pretty hard, I have to disagree that it’s that simple. However, rewar...

TW: fear, abuse Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are talking about Fear Play!! What are you afraid of? Would you benefit from facing any of those fears in a controlled, safe way? Even in the vanilla world, people play with their fear. In this episode, we will talk about what fear play is, why it’s attractive, how to negotiate a fear play scene, and tips on how to ge...

TW: ableism, abuse Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are, once again, discussing an issue near and dear to their hearts, Accessibility in Kink Spaces! This is part 2 where we talk about disability in dungeons and dynamics. If you are a person with a disability, a leader in the community, someone who loves someone with a disability, or just as a human wanting to find...

TW: ableism Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are discussing an issue near and dear to their hearts, Accessibility in Kink Spaces! If you are a leader in the community, as someone who loves someone with a disability, or just as a human wanting to find ways to make interactions with disabled humans more positive, this episode is for you! We will talk about the things...

Trigger Warning: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering topics of abuse and sexual assault. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us next week! If you are experiencing a domestic violence emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with domestic violence please call the National Domestic Vio...

Trigger Warning: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering topics of abuse and sexual assault. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us next week! If you are experiencing a domestic violence emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with domestic violence please call the National Domestic Vio...

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr discuss Consent Theories! Ever heard of those acronyms SSC? Maybe the Three C’s? RACK? PRICK? BORK? That alphabet soup makes up some of the consent theories which have been outlined and discussed at large in the BDSM and kink public. We’re going to tear these acronyms and theories apart and give our opinions on the problems and positives of each one we cover. The...

Trigger Warning: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering topics of abuse and sexual assault. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us next week! If you are experiencing a domestic violence emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with domestic violence please call the National Domestic Vio...

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s (until their power went out) talk about Fire Play! You’ve heard the old saying, if you play with fire, you’re going to get burnt. Well, this isn’t entirely untrue! In this episode, our hosts attempt to balance between sharing how to mitigate risk and be safe while avoiding instructing our listeners on Fire Play (because this podcast does NOT teach...

This week, we are releasing part 2 of Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s conversation with Sir Luke and His victor! Sir Luke and His victor are a Master/slave couple out of the southeast United States who teach about transformative authority and control imbalance relationship dynamics. In this episode, we talk about a number of things, including consent, relationships, dynamics, and so much mo...

This week, we are releasing part 2 of Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s conversation with Sir Luke and His victor! Sir Luke and His victor are a Master/slave couple out of the southeast United States who teach about transformative authority and control imbalance relationship dynamics In this episode, we talk about a number of things, including consent, relationships, dynamics, and so much mor...

This week, we are releasing part 2 of Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen’s conversation with Lady Veronika Kestrel aka Auntie V from Episode 80! Lady Veronika Kestrel is a Pro Dominatrix, kink educator, and creator of Kestrel Industries, a really fun community based on a “collaborative art project and fictional universe in which people turn others into dolls…consensually of course!” With 15 year...

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with producer of Colorado Leather Fest, slave xiaoyi and Ma’am Gaire, the Social Media Director of the conference! Colorado Leather Fest was founded in 2015 and is a weekend event “honoring past, current, and future titleholders in a variety of paths” and “building community, having fun, laughing, crying, sharing, learning, and understanding...

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with Lady Veronika Kestrel aka Auntie V, a Pro Dominatrix, kink educator, and creator of Kestrel Industries, a really fun community based on a “collaborative art project and fictional universe in which people turn others into dolls…consensually of course!” With 15 years in the lifestyle, Lady Veronika has climbed the social and professional...

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with our friend Master Devyn Stone! In this episode, we discuss his no way out dynamic with his property, Guan Xuan and how that dynamic works for them. We also discuss THRIVE and Pragmatically Kinking. Devyn is the founder of Pragmatically Kinking, a group which utilizes classes, discussion, and other types of education to “discuss the prac...

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi to talk about the Crossroads Annex of the Carter Johnson Library and Collection! If you’ve never heard about the Carter Johnson Library and Collection, you’re in for one hell of a treat! This first half of the interview will cover who Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi are and how they came to work with CJLC....

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen sit down with Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi to talk about the Crossroads Annex of the Carter Johnson Library and Collection! If you’ve never heard about the Carter Johnson Library and Collection, you’re in for one hell of a treat! This first half of the interview will cover who Master Dennis and slave xiaoyi are and how they came to work with CJLC....

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen spill the tea on tea service in kink and bdsm! Where did it come from? Why would people include it in their dynamics and play? How does it fit into the rest of the world of kink? Learn the basics with us in this first episode of what I’m sure will become many on Tea Service! Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server( https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY ),...

Trigger Warning : Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering abuse and domestic violence situations. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us next week for an episode with our friend Devyn Stone! If you are experiencing a domestic violence emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with domesti...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen get down with the Discourse and Disorder of Safewords. What are they? Are they always effective? Are there options other than the traditional safeword? In this episode, we talk about how to keep yourself safe using safewords AND plain language in-scene and in dynamics! Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server( https://tr.ee/AQ...

This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr talk about sensation play! Sensation play is an umbrella term which also includes sensory deprivation. These types of play can be used to torture, titilate, tease, and more! Tune in to hear more information on what kinds of sensation play you can partake in and examples of how to do so. Thank you for your questions: PhoenixSM Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Disc...

This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen discuss the expectations of both leaders and members in the kink community. What are the responsibilities that each role holds? What makes a leader? Should leaders be held to a certain standard? What might those standards be? Join us for our examination of this topic! Kinky Social Opportunity: In our Discord server( https://tr.ee/AQzGuhdsrY ), we are...

TRIGGER WARNING:  In this episode we are talking about our own religious experiences including trauma, deconstruction, healing, etc. Of course, we are speaking only of our own experiences; we are not speaking of all Christians or all religions. If this kind of content will trigger you or upset you, please go ahead and come back next week for a talk on leadership and the expectations and respo...

This week Rekkr and Mx. Dizzy talk about Auralism and what all entails with this kink. We apologize for this episode being so short this week we simply couldn't find much on the subject. We discuss different ways you can explore Auralism and other things to think about when dealing with this kink. 

This week, Mx. Dizzy is back on the mic with Lord Allen and Pup Rekkr as they discuss Pet Peeves and Pawsitive Perceptions of the Kink Community at Large. Join us for a sensual episode 69 as we talk about things that rub us the wrong way in the community and why! We’re spillin that spicy tea! Support Allen with the costs of their wreck: CashApp: Allensworld111 Support our friend Magic: Instagram:...