The Kinky Tavern

CW: brief mention of abuse/sexual assault and their consensual roleplay counterparts Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assis...

CW: mental health, rejection, brief mention of SI Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma...

CW: slavery, sexual violence, fantasy violence Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or...

Episode Summary: This week, we’re getting back to basics and Breaking Down B.D.S.M as a term! What does BDSM mean? What does it stand for? There’s definitely more to it and much more misinformation out there about it than you might think! Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr to cover the abbreviation and its definitions and nuances in this episode of The Kinky Tavern Podcast! A Big Thank You to our...

Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is something we’ve never done before on The Kinky Tavern Podcast: Reddit reactions! Join us on the Reddit Rainbow as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr react to stories from subreddits such as r/AITAH, r/sextips, r/bdsm, and r/NSFW_Switch_Community. We’ll read the post and give our perspectives, ideas, and advice based on our experience and...

TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to re...

Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is all about Medical Play! Join us as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr delve into the captivating world of kink known as medical play. From exploring the psychological depths of role-playing medical scenarios to discovering how everyday medical equipment can be repurposed for pleasure, this episode will open your eyes to an intriguing real...

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Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down to talk about their experiences at Southwest Master slave Conference 2023! We discuss the diversity, the accessibility, the general vibe, and so much more! Join us this week to hear about this Colorado con! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positive review of the information with...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are back with  Lady Katerina, to finish up our conversation on Sacred Tobacco and get to know the Lady herself! Lady Katerina sits with us to talk about sacred tobacco, its role in her life and in her leather journey. You’ll learn what the Kinky Bibliophile herself suggests as the best books to start with BDSM and kink.  Reso...

TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to re...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen get the chance to talk with the marelous Moxie Minion, mentor to our very own Lord Allen! Moxie has been a mentee and a mentor, making her doubly qualified to join in on this episode about Mentorship in Leather! Both Lord Allen and Moxie talk about their mentorship experiences and ethics! We discuss the ins and outs of mentor...

TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to re...

TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some possibly triggering language. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesita...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Marquis Rekkr, and Lord Allen are covering boundaries! Boundaries are so important both in the kink realm and in the rest of the world. In this episode, we’ll talk about what a boundary is and is not, what types of boundaries you can consider, and how to find and set your own personal boundaries. We’ll also discuss what kinds of negative responses you mig...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are finally joined once again by the incomparable Lord Allen! First off, we have a correction for our needleplay episode, courtesy of Princess Rara of The Pink Kink Podcast and The Pink Kink Institute! We also discuss our opinions on educators and being open to corrections and learning new things! Then we dive into the CHAOS that The Kinky Tavern...

TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to re...

TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to re...

TW: Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma or mental health, please don’t hesitate to re...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down to talk about Role Play! How do you do it? How do you talk about it? How do you decide who is playing what role? Why would you even want to role play? We’ll discuss these burning questions and more, even giving a TON of examples for your own imaginative pleasure. Links from episode: https://www.everydayhealth.com/sex...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are sitting down to talk about Orgasm Control! Orgasm control is an umbrella term which covers orgasm torture, denial, delay and the ever popular, edging. We discuss what these kinks are, how they’re practiced, a few methods, the risks you oughta take into account. Join us in this episode to learn about orgasm control! Links from episode: 5 Thing...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are sitting down with Lady Gidget, the producer of Midwest Leather Kink Alliance, a contest weekend in November 2023 which will be hosting the Midwest Person of Leather and Midwest Power Exchange titles! Throughout the weekend, there will be opportunities to go back to the basics and learn the most important, foundational concepts of...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are starting season 3 off with a more serious topic: the Covid-19 Pandemic. For the last 3 years (almost 4, can you believe it?!), the world has been reeling from and reacting to the consequences of the Covid-19 Pandemic. When it hit, the most fun parts of our lives were the first to be affected, including for many of us, kink. The t...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy, Pup Rekkr, and Lord Allen are talking about Sounding in kink and BDSM. What is it? Can it be done safely? Why would you want to engage in this kink? Tune in to learn and hear our perspectives discussed! We also wrap up the episode with our update from Southwest Master/slave Contest weekend and let you know where you can find Lord Allen themself coming soon on...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx. Dizzy and Pup Rekkr are talking about Solo Play or Self Play in kink and BDSM. This can be as simple as masturbation or go far beyond! Tune in to learn what the solo and self play umbrella covers, the dangers specific to this kind of play, how to mitigate risk as much as possible. We also, as per usual, give you tips that we’ve found through personal experience and...