The Kinky Tavern

Content Warning: Please be advised that this episode contains discussions of trauma , trauma-informed kink practices , emotional regulation , dissociation , triggers , and healing processes that may be sensitive or potentially distressing for some listeners.  If you are not in a place to handle this kind of content right now, please prioritize your well-being and feel free to join us for a future...

Episode 141 - The Ever Evolving Evolution of THRIVE & Pragmatically Kinking with Master Devyn Stone Description- In this episode we sit down once again with Master Devyn Stone to discuss THRIVE con, a virtual by donation con focusing on the above the neck aspects of kink and bdsm. We go in depth on how classes are reviewed and chosen to be a part of the con. A lot of factors go into selecting...

Episode 139 - Can you hear me now? - Navigating the kink world while deaf with EtoileDC Episode Description:   In this episode Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr talk with Meredith, known as EtoileDC in virtual spaces, a deaf human and a kink and sexuality educator based in Washington DC, who has been teaching since 2016 and has presented across the United States. Despite the difficulties, obvious and...

Content Warning:   Please be advised that this episode contains discussions of BDSM, kink, sexuality, impact play, sacred touch, boundaries, and personal sexual experiences. If you’re not in a place to handle this content right now, please prioritize your well-being and join us for a future episode. If you are in crisis, contact local emergency numbers or resources, call the National Suicide Preve...

Content Warning: Please be advised that this episode contains discussions of potentially sensitive topics, including trauma, emotional distress, and body image issues.  If you're not in a place to handle this content right now, please prioritize your well-being and join us for a future episode. If you are in crisis, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988, or text HOME to 741741 to...

Content Warning: This episode explores themes of dollification , objectification , and body image . Some descriptions of scene experiences , safety practices , and identity exploration may be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. Viewer discretion is advised. If you are not in a mental or emotional space to engage with these topics, please prioritize your well-being and revisit when ready. T...

Content Warning: Please be advised that this episode contains discussions of trauma , trauma-informed kink practices , emotional regulation , dissociation , triggers , and healing processes that may be sensitive or potentially distressing for some listeners.  If you are not in a place to handle this kind of content right now, please prioritize your well-being and feel free to join us for a future...

Content Warning: This episode contains discussions related to disability, mental health, spirituality, race, and queer identities that may be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. Please prioritize your well-being and seek support if needed. Episode Description: In this candid and insightful episode, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr sit down with Snake (they/them), 2024 Scissortail and Midwest...

Content Warning: This episode discusses fear play , trauma responses , and both physical and psychological scare tactics that may be unsettling or triggering. Viewer discretion is advised. If you're not in a mental state to handle this content, please prioritize your well-being and join us later.  If you're experiencing a mental health emergency, call 911 or contact resources like the Nati...

Content Warning: Please be advised that this episode contains discussions of disability, medical trauma, mental health, spirituality, race, and queer identity that may be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. The conversation also covers topics related to BDSM, kink practices, consent, and aftercare .  If you are not in a place to handle this kind of content right now, please prioritize your...

CW: trauma play, mental health Please be advised that this episode contains discussions of BDSM, kink, trauma, and mental health topics that may be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of content right now, please prioritize your well-being and feel free to join us for a future episode. If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please c...

CW: weight loss, weight loss surgery, medical trauma, eating disorders, anorexia Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assist...

CW: transphobia, homophobia, living in the world as someone in the LGBTQPIA2S+ community  Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help...

Episode Summary: In the realms of kink and BDSM, we talk about Power Exchange a lot, but what does that actually mean? Does it realistically cover the transaction happening within your dynamic? This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr are sitting down with our good friend, Master Devyn Stone to talk about their ideas on Power Exchange and how the term Authority Transfer fits their desires and dyn...

CW: marijuana and it’s use within kink and sex Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assistance with your struggles in trauma...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr discuss the idea and practice of Training in the kink and BDSM world.  We delve deeper into the complexities of power dynamics, consent negotiations, and skill development within kink and BDSM. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner seeking new insights or a curious enthusiast eager to expand your understanding, join us as we navigate...

Episode Summary: This week, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr are sitting down with our good friend, Master Devyn Stone to talk about the exciting educational opportunities coming up! Devyn is the founder of Pragmatically Kinking, an organization which offers virtual classes, panels, and presentations up to 6 times every month covering topics about kink, BDSM, Leather, the psychology thereof and dyna...

Episode Summary: This week, we’re talking about Messy Play! Sploshing, WAM, Wet and Messy; whatever you call it, getting down and dirty as a kink ccan be lots of fun! Join us this week as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr talk about messy play! What is it? How does it show up in the world? Why are people interested in it? How can one participate? What kinds of substances can be used? This episode an...

Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is something we enjoyed doing last time and got good feedback on The Kinky Tavern Podcast: Reddit reactions! Join us on the Reddit Rainbow as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr react to stories from subreddits such as r/AITAH, r/sextips, r/bdsm, and r/NSFW_Switch_Community. We’ll read the post and give our perspectives, ideas, and advice bas...

Episode Summary: Get ready, because this week's episode is something we enjoyed doing last time and got good feedback on The Kinky Tavern Podcast: Reddit reactions! Join us on the Reddit Rainbow as Mx. Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr react to stories from subreddits such as r/AITAH, r/sextips, r/bdsm, and r/NSFW_Switch_Community. We’ll read the post and give our perspectives, ideas, and advice bas...

Episode Summary: Today’s episode is full of Switchy Shenanigans as the two switchy hosts, Mx Dizzy and Marquis Pup Rekkr sit down with switchy friend Neko (they/them), and their chaotic and understanding partner, Silence (he/him). With the mission of giving a bit of a deeper perspective on switches, we gathered in this quasi-panel to discuss daily life, emotions, communication, and so much more in...

CW: highly gendered language and ideology, conservative politics and the harm it does, racism, misogyny, homophobia, transphobia Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more triggering content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emerg...

CW: brief mention of abuse/sexual assault and their consensual roleplay counterparts Today’s episode, by the nature of its topic, will be covering some more graphic content. If you are not in a place to handle this kind of discussion right now, please take care of yourself and join us for our next episode! If you are experiencing a mental health emergency please call 911. If you need help or assis...

Episode Summary: Today we are finally covering a hugely popular and even titular topic within BDSM, rope! We’re bringing in our friend Hope Lythi, a rope educator, bottom, and service top! She shares with us a ton of information from the ins and outs of the rope community to correcting misconceptions about the practice of rope! Resources for this episode (not necessarily a recommendation or positi...

Episode Summary: Have you ever been curious about how dynamics work? Have you ever wondered about our dynamic? This week, we are discussing just that! What exactly is a dynamic? A role? What can a contract look like? How does this work in real life?  Join Mx Dizzy and Pup Marquis Rekkr as they discuss all of this and more as well as share their own opinions and experiences with contracts and dynam...