The Feminist Dating Show

In this workshop, I'm going to give you my playbook to ditch the dating app and start meeting awesome people in-person! The tickets are donation based, and 100% of the proceeds go to local abortion funds in the U.S.  Get your ticket right HERE! Thursday, Sept 8th, 2022 6pm EST See you there! 

Today we are throwing it back to Episode Four of the Date Brazen Podcast. Why? Because it's all about in-person dating. The episode featured a coaching session with Date Brazen client, Amelia, who didn't want to use dating apps anymore. Sound familiar? We thought so and that is why we decided to re-air it!  Lily and Amelia talk about how to start dating in person, what that might look and feel lik...

This week's episode is all about feelings. Lily talks about how you can feel your way through any of your feelings, why it's important to do so, and how it is going to change your life, especially your love life. This episode is a practical guide for feeling your emotions, even the hard ones. Our hope is that this episode will shift the relationship you have with yourself in a juicy way. Some hot...

Today we are bringing you a dating app ask me anything episode! Lily is going to share all of her dating app hot-takes with you. This episode was inspired by a survey posted on her Instagram account (@datebrazen). She received over 300 responses with your questions and thoughts about all things dating.  We hope you enjoy the episode! Some of the questions answered include:   "It seems impossible t...

Lily is bringing you another AMA (ask me anything) episode this week! The Date Brazen community has grown by thousands over the last month with members joining us from TikTok and Instagram. Lily loves hearing from everyone!  She is taking the time to answer more of your questions about mindset work and your dating life.  The intention of Date Brazen is to provide tools for change and encouragement...

The Queer Confidence Coach Alex Ray (he/she/they)  joins Lily on the podcast this week! We are obsessed with what Alex is putting out into the world and excited to share the conversation. Lily talks to Alex about how LGBTQ+ individuals can create their own universe complete with confidence and freedom; and can step into their next powerful phase of life. Join us for this amazing episode!  Hot-take...

I'm answering all your questions in this AMA Questions like:  - Is it intuition or fear? - Do I DM a guy I met last year?? - How to approach people IRL - How to create Qualifying and Disqualifying questions. All will be answered in this episode:)

We are getting vulnerable on the podcast this week. Dr. Juliana Hauser returns to the show to talk more about sexual agency.  After Dr. Juliana's last podcast appearance, Lily participated in Revealed, Juliana's program about sexual agency in a community setting. This episode is an opportunity to be in the room while Lily talks to her coach about what it was like to dive deep into the experience o...

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We've been talking a lot about main character energy around here. What is it? Having main character energy means taking center stage in your life, owning what you want, and asking for it out loud. This week client Emily is on the show to share how she embodied the spirit of main character energy when she went through a Date Brazen program and shares how she was able to master self-worth in all are...

This week, Date Brazen client Jenny is on the podcast. Jenny embodies main character's energy in a beautiful way. In this episode, she shares what it felt like to bet on herself (and her dating life), embrace self-trust, and practice self-compassion. We hope you are loving the stories from women who are taking massive courageous action to become the center of their permission-filled, self-trust-fu...

This week, we are continuing the podcast series which showcases women who are embodying their main character energy. Last week we heard from Maggie and this time, we welcome Kate and Julianne to the show. They share how they stepped into their best, "Hell, yes!" and learned to practice radical self-trust.  If you've listened to the podcast recently, you know there are big shifts happening here at...

This week kicks off our new series on the podcast of amazing folks who've worked with Lily and who are embodying their main character energy. You're going to hear more about how these women are giving themselves permission to have what they want and take massive courageous action.  Today's episode is all about Maddie's main character energy journey. We worked together last year. She shares how she...

Vulnerability alert! This week I am sharing some big, exciting news with y'all. In fact, I am taking lessons from the work I do with my clients and applying them to my professional life. I am showing up, being courageous, and trusting that this next path for Date Brazen is the right one. Yes, I said next path ! Listen to this episode to hear about the big shift that is coming and what harnessing y...

This week we are talking about how to create a pleasure-filled sex life with or without a partner. Joining me in this episode is pleasure expert Danielle Savory. Danielle weaves together her background in neuroscience, her expertise in mindfulness, and her skills as a coach to help women rewire their brains, connect with their bodies, and take an empowered approach to their sexuality.  Join us for...

This week's episode has been in the works since early 2020! In March of that same year, Chris and I started watching Love on the Spectrum, a Netflix series that follows young adults on the autism spectrum, who explore the unpredictable world of dating and its unique challenges. I quickly recognized how beautifully crafted the series was and how much we can learn from it. So, I invited Jodi Rodgers...

Fina Antwine and I are going deep on all things self-care, how to embody your desires, how to trust your body, and step into your sacred power. If you are available for this powerful as hell conversation, listen in because it will impact your day for the better.  Fila Antwine is an emotional wellness coach with expertise in teaching you how to master self-care while creating healthy relationships...

I am excited to be sharing one of my favorite episodes to date; on boundaries! Boundaries are one of the most important tools (besides self-compassion) that you have, in your dating arsenal. In this episode, I share a boundary starter pack and explain why it may be hard for you to declare your boundaries, and offer a strategy that will help you get started. SHOW NOTES: https://www.datebrazen.com/b...

Have you ever wondered if your life could be different without alcohol? This week, alcohol-free lifestyle expert, Amanda Kuda, joins me for a conversation about elective sobriety and sober dating. Amanda helps ambitious women design alcohol-free lives they are in love with. Whether you are sober-curious or already sober-free, this episode is for you.  Amanda says that "Everything can change in you...

If you have decided you only want to date one person at a time, but aren't sure how to go about it - this episode is for you! Today, I am talking all about how to navigate dating multiple people at once, dating one person at a time, how to know what is right for you, and how to express your wants and needs to a potential partner. This episode is an invitation to give yourself permission to want wh...

This week I am talking about the concept of competition in your dating life. I'll be sharing how to move from a competitive mindset to a party mindset. Of course , it's hard NOT to think of dating as a competition..., especially when being in a relationship represents "moving forward" into a new stage in life. However, I am here to remind you that's a patriarchal narrative that no longer serves yo...

Going from single-hood to being partnered can be quite a transition. It can leave you feeling a mixture of emotions, introduce you to new experiences, and uncover new (and old) insecurities. Gorgeous friend, that's okay! This week, Modern Marriage Mentor, Maggie Reyes, joins me to discuss how to build the love life you desire, get comfortable with moving from independence to interdependence, and s...

Are you currently in a situationship? You are 'kind-of' seeing someone but there is no commitment and no talk about the future. Why do you keep falling into situationships and what can you do about it?  Therapist Dontea' Mitchell-Hunter joins me for a discussion about how to practice self-love and worthiness in and out of relationships. Dontea' Mitchell-Hunter is a self-worth therapist that helps...

Pleasure. Money. Dating. That is what we are talking about on the Date Brazen podcast this week! Serena Hicks teaches coaches how to make, have, and move BIG Happy Money ™ as a Love-leading revolution in this world. She joins me for a discussion about love, relationships, and the money mindset.  Together we talk about moving from a scarcity mindset, which sounds something like, "There aren't enoug...

Today we are going to be talking about the word "should". Specifically, what it means if you are shoulding yourself, how it's affecting your dating life, and how to start choosing an easier path forward.  I should let it go. I should have figured this out by now. I shouldn't care so much. I should just push a little harder. "Should" thoughts such as these are so insidious. Tune in to hear how to s...