The Feminist Dating Show

Today's podcast episode is a coaching session with Michelle. She's in her 50s, divorced after a 24-year marriage, and getting back into dating after being with one person her whole adult life. In this raw and powerful coaching session, we unpack the overwhelm of dating apps, the anxiety of being "naive," and the pressure late bloomers feel to already know how dating is supposed to work. Michelle s...

In this very first live coaching session on The Date Brazen podcast, you'll meet Ellie—an amazing, big-hearted late bloomer who's never had a romantic relationship, and who thought dating was something she missed the memo on. Sound familiar? Together in this episode we explore: Why Ellie stayed on multiple 4-hour dates she didn't even want to be on How to process feeling behind in your dating life...

Does the idea of making the first move in dating make you feel awkward AF ? You're not alone. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how to shoot your shot as a late bloomer—without spiraling into self-doubt or waiting for someone else to make the first move. You'll learn: ✅ The mindset shifts that make it easier to take bold action in dating ✅ Why making the first move 100% of the time is a...

If you've ever feared that you're not attractive or desirable because it's never happened before , this episode is a must-listen.   Lily breaks down the internalized fears many late bloomers carry—and how to reframe those thoughts with compassion, context, and confidence using her signature ACK mindset tool (Acknowledge, Compassion, Kind Reframe). You'll also get a powerful challenge to reconnect...

If flirting feels awkward, forced, or like a foreign language—especially because you feel "behind" in dating—this episode is your new playbook. Lily breaks down her step-by-step approach to flirting IRL with courage and ease. You'll learn how to strike up a conversation, gauge interest, and shoot your shot—without spiraling or second-guessing yourself. 📺 Want the visual breakdown? Watch it on You...

Are you a late bloomer wondering, "How the hell do I even start dating?" In this episode, Lily breaks down the exact 6-step roadmap to go from anxious and avoidant to confident and aligned in your love life. You'll learn how to drop shame, claim your essence-based preferences, use dating apps with boundaries, and build your IRL dating strategy—messy and awkward and powerful.   Here's how to work w...

In this kickoff to the Late Bloomer Series , Lily gets real about how to tell a date you've never been in a relationship—without spiraling, oversharing, or self-abandoning. If you've ever felt behind in love, this episode will help you embrace your story, communicate with confidence, and stop making your dating history mean something it doesn't.   ✨ Grab Lily's book Thank You, More Please + get t...

Are you tired of living for everyone else's expectations... and ready to step into your own dang spotlight? 🎬✨ In this behind-the-scenes episode, I'm sharing practical tools to stop people-pleasing for good — and start building the stupidly joyful, self-trusting, main-character life you're meant for. Inside this episode: What people-pleasing really is (it's deeper than being "too nice") Why rele...

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In this episode, we're diving deep into Main Character Energy — what it is, why it matters, and how to start building it (even if you're shy, introverted, or feeling wildly behind). You'll learn: - Why Main Character Energy is even more important in unstable times - The three essential skills at the heart of a Main Character Life - The truth about people-pleasing, perfectionism, and "best friend i...

She Moved Abroad, Quit Her Job & Took Her Life Back: Jackie's Main Character Energy Story Burned out, stuck, and shrinking herself to stay safe—Jackie thought joy was out of reach. In this powerful episode, she shares how she went from emotional exhaustion to building a joy-filled life abroad with purpose, friendship, and bold-ass moves. If you're craving your own main character energy moment, thi...

In this episode, Lily shares the ONE question that will revolutionize how you vet potential partners, ensuring you never waste time on lackluster dates and conversations again. Grab your notepad because this episode isn't just about strategy - it's a journey into reclaiming control of your dating narrative and steering towards the relationships you truly desire. Links: ✨ Order Lily's book, "Thank...

In this week's episode of the Date Brazen Podcast-- Episode Spotlight: "How can I stop being lazy in my dating life?", I'm teaching you exactly what you need to do instead of falling for the productivity myth. (which will lead to better outcomes for your dating life!)   What you'll learn in the episode:   ✨ How to ditch the idea that "doing more" will get you better results in dating. ✨ How to d...

In this episode, I walk you through my Blessing and Releasing strategy: a powerful step-by-step method to let go of the wrong people and make space for the right ones. Because holding on to what isn't meant for you? That's keeping you from what is.   Here's what you'll learn: ✨ How to identify who to bless and release (and why it's essential). ✨ The mindset shift that will help you actually move...

In this episode, I break down exactly how to start dating with confidence, self-care, and intention.-- especially if you've never dated before!   You'll get a step-by-step guide to move past fear, own your desires, and create a joyful dating life on your terms.   Here's what you'll walk away with: ✨ How to start dating from a place of power (not pressure). ✨ Why your thoughts are not always fact...

If you've ever been told you're too picky or need to be more open , this episode is for you. Your preferences aren't the problem—they're the key to dating with more joy and ease. I break down how to define your essence-based preferences so you can stop wasting time on the wrong people and start attracting the right ones.   ✨ Get free "Create Your Essence Based Preferences Guide" HERE ✨ Order my...

This week, I'm joined by the brilliant Brandon Kyle Goodman—writer, actor, and sexual wellness advocate—to talk about breaking free from shame, embracing curiosity, and giving yourself radical permission to be messy in your self-discovery. If dating has ever made you feel like you need to "get it right" before putting yourself out there, this episode is your permission slip to do it your way .  ...

If you've ever hesitated to put yourself out there because  what if they say no? , this episode of the  Date Brazen Podcast  is for you. ​ We're flipping the script on outdated dating rules that keep you passive and stuck. Instead of waiting, I'm teaching you how to  co-create the dating life you want, how to shoot your shot like a boss, and actually enjoy the process  (yes, really). ​ Here's what...

Dating can feel like a rollercoaster of emotions—excitement, hope, fear, and sometimes, pure panic. In this episode, we're tackling the fear that keeps so many incredible people stuck on the sidelines. If you've ever thought, What if I get rejected? What if I say the wrong thing? What if I'm not enough? —this one's for you.   I'll walk you through how to move through dating fear with self-compassi...

In this week's Date Brazen Podcast episode, Flirting 101: My 3-Step Process to Flirt, Know If Someone's Into You, and Ask Them Out with Ease , I'm breaking down my 3 step process to exactly how to flirt, know if someone's into you, and ask them out with ease.   Here's the deal: 💡 Flirting is a learnable skill. 💡 Awkwardness? It's just a sign you're human (not a dealbreaker). 💡 With 10 seconds o...

Today on The Date Brazen Podcast, I'm talking to Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu-- dating and relationship experts and co-hosts of Dateable , one of the top podcasts on modern relationships, featured by The New York Times , HuffPost , and Oprah Daily .   Tune into this episode to hear- Understanding your dating archetype can help you navigate relationships better. How to use their quiz in the Dateable...

In this episode of the Date Brazen podcast, Lily unpacks her favorite piece of dating advice: You can't say the wrong thing to the right person. This 15 minute episode will free you from so much anxiety and worry in your dating life, so you have more time and energy to shoot your shot with confidence. Takeaways Dating is a microcosm of your hopes and fears. Self-care in dating enhances your qualit...

Enjoy this ep spotlight!  This episode is brought to you by my free, live SHOOT YOUR SHOT CHALLENGE: From "late bloomer" to confident dater in 5 days ✨ Links: Get Lily's Book, Thank You More Please  HERE .   Follow Lily on  Instagram  and  Tiktok .   Subscribe to Lily's Youtube channel  HERE . 

In this episode of the Date Brazen podcast, Lily engages with Susan Hyatt, a master certified life coach, bestselling author, and TEDx speaker. They discuss Susan's mission to empower women through her Bear process, which emphasizes self-care, body wisdom, and breaking free from diet culture. The conversation explores the importance of creating a thriving environment, embracing pleasure, setting b...

We're taking a break for the holidays (coming back Jan 7th, 2025) so enjoy this ep spotlight!  This episode is brought to you by my free, on-demand training:  3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a "Late Bloomer" - RSVP HERE ✨ Are you feeling like a "late bloomer" in your dating life? In this Episode Spotlight of the Date Brazen Podcast, Lily busts nine myths commonly believed by "late bloomer...