The Feminist Dating Show

In this episode, Lily shares the ONE question that will revolutionize how you vet potential partners, ensuring you never waste time on lackluster dates and conversations again. Grab your notepad because this episode isn't just about strategy - it's a journey into reclaiming control of your dating narrative and steering towards the relationships you truly desire. Links: ✨ Order Lily's book, "Thank...

In this week's episode of the Date Brazen Podcast-- Episode Spotlight: "How can I stop being lazy in my dating life?", I'm teaching you exactly what you need to do instead of falling for the productivity myth. (which will lead to better outcomes for your dating life!)   What you'll learn in the episode:   ✨ How to ditch the idea that "doing more" will get you better results in dating. ✨ How to d...

In this episode, I walk you through my Blessing and Releasing strategy: a powerful step-by-step method to let go of the wrong people and make space for the right ones. Because holding on to what isn't meant for you? That's keeping you from what is.   Here's what you'll learn: ✨ How to identify who to bless and release (and why it's essential). ✨ The mindset shift that will help you actually move...

In this episode, I break down exactly how to start dating with confidence, self-care, and intention.-- especially if you've never dated before!   You'll get a step-by-step guide to move past fear, own your desires, and create a joyful dating life on your terms.   Here's what you'll walk away with: ✨ How to start dating from a place of power (not pressure). ✨ Why your thoughts are not always fact...

If you've ever been told you're too picky or need to be more open , this episode is for you. Your preferences aren't the problem—they're the key to dating with more joy and ease. I break down how to define your essence-based preferences so you can stop wasting time on the wrong people and start attracting the right ones.   ✨ Get free "Create Your Essence Based Preferences Guide" HERE ✨ Order my...

This week, I'm joined by the brilliant Brandon Kyle Goodman—writer, actor, and sexual wellness advocate—to talk about breaking free from shame, embracing curiosity, and giving yourself radical permission to be messy in your self-discovery. If dating has ever made you feel like you need to "get it right" before putting yourself out there, this episode is your permission slip to do it your way .  ...

If you've ever hesitated to put yourself out there because  what if they say no? , this episode of the  Date Brazen Podcast  is for you. ​ We're flipping the script on outdated dating rules that keep you passive and stuck. Instead of waiting, I'm teaching you how to  co-create the dating life you want, how to shoot your shot like a boss, and actually enjoy the process  (yes, really). ​ Here's what...

Dating can feel like a rollercoaster of emotions—excitement, hope, fear, and sometimes, pure panic. In this episode, we're tackling the fear that keeps so many incredible people stuck on the sidelines. If you've ever thought, What if I get rejected? What if I say the wrong thing? What if I'm not enough? —this one's for you.   I'll walk you through how to move through dating fear with self-compassi...

In this week's Date Brazen Podcast episode, Flirting 101: My 3-Step Process to Flirt, Know If Someone's Into You, and Ask Them Out with Ease , I'm breaking down my 3 step process to exactly how to flirt, know if someone's into you, and ask them out with ease.   Here's the deal: 💡 Flirting is a learnable skill. 💡 Awkwardness? It's just a sign you're human (not a dealbreaker). 💡 With 10 seconds o...

Today on The Date Brazen Podcast, I'm talking to Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu-- dating and relationship experts and co-hosts of Dateable , one of the top podcasts on modern relationships, featured by The New York Times , HuffPost , and Oprah Daily .   Tune into this episode to hear- Understanding your dating archetype can help you navigate relationships better. How to use their quiz in the Dateable...

In this episode of the Date Brazen podcast, Lily unpacks her favorite piece of dating advice: You can't say the wrong thing to the right person. This 15 minute episode will free you from so much anxiety and worry in your dating life, so you have more time and energy to shoot your shot with confidence. Takeaways Dating is a microcosm of your hopes and fears. Self-care in dating enhances your qualit...

Enjoy this ep spotlight!  This episode is brought to you by my free, live SHOOT YOUR SHOT CHALLENGE: From "late bloomer" to confident dater in 5 days ✨ Links: Get Lily's Book, Thank You More Please  HERE .   Follow Lily on  Instagram  and  Tiktok .   Subscribe to Lily's Youtube channel  HERE . 

In this episode of the Date Brazen podcast, Lily engages with Susan Hyatt, a master certified life coach, bestselling author, and TEDx speaker. They discuss Susan's mission to empower women through her Bear process, which emphasizes self-care, body wisdom, and breaking free from diet culture. The conversation explores the importance of creating a thriving environment, embracing pleasure, setting b...

We're taking a break for the holidays (coming back Jan 7th, 2025) so enjoy this ep spotlight!  This episode is brought to you by my free, on-demand training:  3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a "Late Bloomer" - RSVP HERE ✨ Are you feeling like a "late bloomer" in your dating life? In this Episode Spotlight of the Date Brazen Podcast, Lily busts nine myths commonly believed by "late bloomer...

In this episode of the Date Brazen podcast, Lily outlines a comprehensive seven-step dating plan for 2025, aimed at helping listeners create a joyful and fulfilling dating life. The plan emphasizes the importance of claiming desires, understanding essence-based preferences, and utilizing qualifying questions to find the right partner. Lily also discusses the significance of in-person dating, build...

In this episode, Lily addresses the feelings of loneliness that can arise during the holiday season, especially for singles. She provides a three-step framework to help listeners navigate their emotions, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and acknowledging feelings, finding comfort and belonging, and choosing accessible positive thoughts. The conversation encourages self-compassion and resi...

Stressed about your dating life (and nosy questions) during the holidays? This episode is for you.  Yes, it's that time of year—when relatives turn the holiday dinner table into a Q&A about your dating life. Lily is sharing how to respond to every nosy question from relatives - that you don't want to answer!  This is your guide to handling intrusive questions with confidence while staying grounded...

Ready to stop emotional outsourcing and start owning your worth in dating and beyond? If you've ever struggled with perfectionism, people-pleasing, or the exhausting cycle of codependency, this episode will feel like a deep exhale. Lily invites her brilliant friend and colleague, Victoria Albina, to explore what it takes to recognize the patterns that no longer serve you and break free from them—s...

I'm diving into how to care for yourself when life feels heavy. If you're feeling drained or disappointed post-election—or really, after any tough experience—I'm here with a simple but powerful framework to help you reclaim your energy. In this episode, I'll guide you through the SOFT practice: Self-compassion, Owning your needs, Feeling your feelings, and Thoughts, not facts. I'll share practical...

We're airing a popular episode about claiming your essence-based preferences. Lily takes you through what essence-based preferences are, how they can transform your dating life, how to know if you're being too rigid, and how to create them for yourself. This is a juicy episode you'll want to come back to again and again! Hot-takes and How-tos from this episode: How do you know if you're being too...

"Should I give them another chance, or should I 'just know' if they're right?" Hot take: The whole slow burn vs. spark debate might be keeping you from finding a meaningful connection. This episode challenges the idea that a romantic connection needs to fit neatly into a "slow burn" or "spark" to be worth pursuing. In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ The pros and cons of Slow Burn vs. Spark—and why...

How do you date with intention and authenticity during an election season? You're in luck! Lily is back with a special episode all about dating during the election. She explores how to navigate the heightened political climate with a boundaried, agency-filled plan to attract people who truly align with your values.  Lily also shares tips on crafting a profile that reflects your values, managing to...

Playing the sidekick in your own life? Not it. Step into your power, claim your main character identity and start making bold moves today. Why not you? Lily is dishing all about main character energy—what it is, what happens when you're not living in it, and how to level up and claim your spotlight. We've all been there—shrinking our desires because we fear being "too much" or worried about reject...

Ready to crush it and take your dreams to the next level? This episode is ALL about that! We're diving into Laura's epic journey of leveling up her life, how she tapped into her MCE (yep, Major Character Energy), and broke down her big dreams into totally doable, bite-sized steps. And guess what? It worked! You'll walk away feeling fired up, knowing that what you want is not only possible—it's pra...

Ready to stop playing small and start living big? This week, Mastermind client Katie shares how she embraced main character energy, stepped out of her comfort zone, and began living a joyful AF life!  From ditching self-doubt to creating a social life that lights her up, Katie talks about the bold moves she made—like taking a sabbatical and going on solo adventures. It wasn't easy, but she trusted...