The Cliteral Truth Podcast

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we explore why intentional pursuit is a powerful amplifier of desire. As an extension of Foreplay All Day™ , the chase builds anticipation, deepens erotic tension, and reminds us that great sex doesn’t begin in the bedroom—it begins in how we engage each other throughout the day. We talk about feminine and masculine dynamics, dominance and submission, and how—in o...

Send us Fan Mail Sexual guilt and shame don’t come out of nowhere—they’re learned, internalized, and often carried quietly for decades. In this episode, we each share our own personal journeys with sexual guilt and shame, where it came from, how it showed up in our lives, and what it took to begin reclaiming our personal power. This is an honest, grounded conversation about unlearning what never b...

Send us Fan Mail What happens to your confidence, connection, and pleasure if your penis isn’t the center of the experience? In this episode, we challenge the myth that great sex starts—and ends—with erections. We talk candidly about erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, and the fragile way many men tie their sexual identity to what their body can (or can’t) do in the moment. This conversatio...

Send us Fan Mail Sexual guilt and sexual shame quietly shape how we date, desire, and connect—often without us realizing it. In this episode, we unpack where sexual shame comes from, how guilt gets wired into our bodies and beliefs, and why so many people struggle to feel safe, confident, and present in their sexuality. We explore the cultural, religious, and relational conditioning that teaches u...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we talk about the real benefits of dating multiple people—without shame, secrecy, or chaos. Not because you’re afraid of commitment, but because comparison creates clarity. When you’re only seeing one person, it’s easy to project, fantasize, or settle into dynamics that feel fine simply because you don’t know what else is possible. We unpack how dating multiple pe...

Send us Fan Mail This rule is designed for people who can’t separate intimacy from sex, who get attached too fast, or who end up confusing sexual chemistry for emotional compatibility.  The 5 Date Rule™ simply means: No sex until date five. Why five? Because those first few dates tell you who someone really is when they’re not trying to fast-track you into bed. Players bail. Emotionally unavailabl...

Send us Fan Mail In Part 2 of Staying in Good Sexual Shape, we share the actual actions and daily habits that keep you sexually optimized. Because "good sexual shape" isn’t about looking good naked—it’s about how your body performs, responds, engorges, contracts, lasts, recovers, and sustains pleasure. **Also, Join us for the 7 Bridges Webinar Series beginning February 4, 2026. 

Send us Fan Mail A 2025 survey of U.S. adults found about 28% say they’ve had at least one intimate or romantic relationship with an AI chatbot. A Harvard Business School case notes that by 2023, Replika (an app featuring a chatbot that acts as a virtual friend, mentor, or romantic partner) had around 10 million users , and roughly 40% of those who used its “partner” mode described the relationshi...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s get real: It’s not that there aren’t any high-quality, emotionally available, next-level men out there—it’s that too many amazing women are stuck entertaining the wrong ones. In this episode, we unpack why so many women keep enabling low-level behavior from men who aren't even trying. Spoiler: It’s not because they want to—it’s often because they don’t believe they can...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we’re turning up the heat. We open up about what turns us on—from the words we say and the sounds we hear to the sensations we feel and even what we wear. We talk about kinks, lingerie (yes, guys, you too), and the power of curiosity when it comes to sexual exploration. We invite you to slow down and ask yourself: What really turns me on? You might be surprised by...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we’re going way back—to puberty. That awkward, confusing, and wildly transformative time when our bodies, hormones, and desires started to come online. We open up about our own journeys through sexual awakening—our first experiences with masturbation, curiosity about our changing bodies, and how those early moments shaped our adult sexuality. We discuss how pubert...

Send us Fan Mail Let’s be real—some people say they’re looking for a relationship when what they really want is sex. And that’s okay. In this episode, we break down the stigma around simply wanting to meet your sexual needs without pretending it’s something deeper. We talk about how honesty—both with yourself and your partners—creates freedom, not shame. Whether you’re exploring hookups, fuck budd...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we call out the excuses, the pills, and the misplaced blame around erectile dysfunction. ED has become the go-to explanation for men’s sexual underperformance—but what if most of it isn’t physical at all? Ryan makes the case that if you can ever get it up, you can always get it up. The real issue isn’t below the belt—it’s in your head. We unpack how overthinking,...

Send us Fan Mail Ever notice how first-time sex feels amazing ? We all know someone who swears their first time with every new partner is mind-blowing. But here’s the thing—first-time sex is almost always good. The bar is low, the oxytocin is high, and the brain is drunk on novelty. In this episode, we share a real-life story of someone who keeps getting hooked after the first night and uncover wh...

Send us Fan Mail They call it the love hormone for a reason. In this episode, we explore the oxytocin effect—how this powerful neurochemical shapes your connection, trust, bonding, and even post-sex emotions. Ryan and Lexie unpack why oxytocin hits differently for women and men, why it can make some people attach too quickly (or not at all), and how to build a relationship that honors this chemist...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we cover dom and sub energy. Outside of sex, feminine and masculine energy needs to be fluid and balanced within each partner to keep relationships thriving. But inside the bedroom, polarity—dom/sub dynamics—is best for compatibility.

Send us Fan Mail Your sexual health isn’t just about the here and now—it’s about staying vibrant, connected, and fulfilled throughout every stage of life. In this episode, we talk about what it takes to stay in good sexual shape well into your later years. We talk openly about the impact of menopause, testosterone loss, and the changes that come with aging—and more importantly, what you can do abo...

Send us Fan Mail Foreplay doesn’t start when you touch each other—it starts the moment your last sex session ends. In this episode, we explore how Foreplay All Day™ shows up in real life. From lingering kisses in the morning to playful texts during the day, to the small choices we make in how we show up for each other, we share real-world examples that keep the spark alive long before sex is even...

Send us Fan Mail Who really controls our sexuality—and why? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on how patriarchy shapes sexual norms, gender expectations, and even the stories we tell ourselves about desire and pleasure. From double standards in sexual freedom to the policing of women’s bodies, we explore the hidden systems that dictate what’s deemed acceptable.  We also dive into how these...

Send us Fan Mail Why do some people—without trying—pull attention like a gravitational force, while others, just as beautiful, go unnoticed? In this episode, we dive into the intangible but unmistakable energy of sex appeal. We’re not talking about push-up bras, six-packs, or thirst traps. We’re talking about the vibe—the body language, the presence, the openness, the subtle energetic “yes” that i...

Send us Fan Mail A grown-ass woman being shamed in public for what she's wearing...  This episode is a full-on truth bomb about how society polices bodies, labels sexual energy as “inappropriate,” and completely misses the point. We dive into the difference between sexualization and oversexualization, and how context, consent, and control write the script. Lexie shares her experience, and Rya...

Send us Fan Mail How do you keep the fire burning when you’ve been with the same person for years—or even decades? In this episode, we dive into Esther Perel’s wisdom on sustaining passion in long-term relationships. We reveal the three things erotic couples do for keeping desire alive and explore how to apply them in real life (yes, even when life feels more like carpools and deadlines than candl...

Send us Fan Mail You’ve seen it. You’ve probably lived it. The classic relationship/sex trope—where women seem desperate for a relationship and men seem desperate for sex—playing out in real time. In this episode, we share two fresh, real-world examples we just witnessed that had us shaking our heads. We break down how these default drives lead people to skip the critical steps (like our 7 Bridges...

Send us Fan Mail Why is it totally normal for men to walk around shirtless—but women get censored, scolded, or even arrested for the same thing? In this episode, we chat about the double standard around the human chest. We all have nipples—so why are some considered scandalous while others are just...there? We unpack the roots of breast sexualization, how it varies across cultures, countries, and...

Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we discuss the real culprits behind low libido in women: the crushing weight of the mental load, hormonal shifts and body changes (including menopause), and the long-lasting impact of sexual trauma, abuse, and rape. We also explore the lover/mother trope, a common scenario where women act as caregivers to their male partners while simultaneously losing attraction...