The Angry Therapist Podcast

In the second episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa discusses various codependent tendencies and behaviors. She provides a laundry list of codependent tendencies, explains how these behaviors stem from a fear of losing attachment and a lack of trust in oneself and others, and emphasizes the importance of personal accountability and the need to develop a solid sense of self in order to overco...

In the first episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa Bennett discusses the concept of codependency and explains that codependency is not limited to romantic relationships but extends to all types of relationships. She explores the connection between codependency and attachment, provides a quiz to help participants assess their own codependent tendencies, and more. Follow Vanessa on Instagram H...

In the second part of the Origin Story & Life Concepts series, John discusses three key concepts for personal growth and transformation: pulling from your solid self, returning what doesn't belong to you, and connecting to parts of yourself that you have disconnected with. He shares personal anecdotes and examples to illustrate these concepts, and emphasizes the importance of taking action and exe...

In the first part of the Origin Story & Life Concepts Series, John shares his personal journey of rebuilding his life after divorce and how he found his authentic self. He discusses the importance of living in solid self, emphasizes the need to listen to one's authentic voice to build a solid life container, and talks about the challenges and consequences of choosing to be true to oneself. Follow...

Today, John talks about the practice of being present, the importance of setting intentions, and integrating these practices into daily life. He also discusses the power of unseen forces, reconditioning your nervous system, and the importance of injecting hope. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John talks about the transformative power of relationships. He explores different stages of personal development, the lessons learned from past relationships, the importance of self-reflection and growth within relationships, as well as the healing potential they offer. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adc...

Today, John does a deep dive on the importance of friendships in relationships. He talks about how fulfilling certain needs in friendships are essential, and emphasizes that there's so much more to life than just our romantic relationships. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John does a deep dive on how the miracle of love lies in the process of working through activation, trauma, and honest conversations. He talks about the importance of seeking partners who can help us heal our wounds, the ability to create a safe space and hold capacity for others, and how healing is a byproduct of working through our issues and repairing ruptures. Follow John on Instagram H...

Today, John emphasizes the importance of giving yourself permission to revisit past events with exes, so you can gain new insights and perspectives. He also encourages listeners to be compassionate towards their past selves and to provide the support and understanding they needed but didn't receive at the time. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad ch...

Today, John explores the topic of the nervous system reset and its impact on our overall well-being and relationships with Jessica Maguire. They delve into the role of relationships in regulating our nervous system, how our attachment styles can influence who we choose to love, the concept of corrective experiences and how they can help rewire the nervous system. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find...

Today, John talks about how millennials are facing unique challenges due to their desire for a different life than their parents. He talks about how millennials are breaking old blueprints, investing in themselves through therapy, and have the courage and willingness to defy societal expectations that reshape the definition of adulthood. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE...

Today, John shares how his mantra shifted from 'who's coming with me?' to 'where am I going?' and the impact it had on his mindset and behavior. He also emphasizes the importance of focusing on personal growth and purpose, rather than solely searching for love. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

John does a deep dive on the four attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant. He also talks about how understanding our own attachment style, and that of our partner and others, is crucial for fostering healthier relationships and more. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John, Vanessa, and Taune explore the idea of sourcing safety within ourselves and how it affects our relationships and overall well-being. They also emphasize how building a sanctuary within is a lifelong journey that requires compassion, curiosity, and a willingness to explore our experiences, and much more. Use the discount code SANCTUARY to get $200 off of Vanessa and Tune's upcoming ret...

Today, John and Meredith explore the connection between food and wellness, as well as the importance of home-cooked meals. They discuss the role of food in their lives and the connection between food and culture, and explore the emotional and nostalgic aspects of food, as well as the importance of self-care and conscious eating. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn mor...

Today, John discusses the importance of seeing life through new lenses and the need for inner journeys to gain new perspectives. He also explores the idea of success, the impact of relationships and community on personal growth, and how to trust oneself and dream big. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John reflects on the relationship he has with his mother and the dynamics that exist between them. He discusses the challenges of evolving and growing with family members and old friends, and the resistance that can arise when trying to create new tracks in these relationships. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices...

Today, John reflects on his personal journey and the sacrifices his parents made as immigrants. He shares stories of their hard work, determination, challenges, setbacks, and emphasizes the importance of embracing and sharing our own stories. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John gives advice to a listener who is torn between wanting to get her family, but lacking sexual desire for her ex-husband. He explores the concept of customization in relationships and the importance of prioritizing self-connection before seeking a partner, the need to question old relationship models and create ones that feel honest, and more. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more...

Today, John does a deep dive on marriage and explains how it has evolved and transformed, influenced by religion, societal norms, and the concept of romantic love. He talks about how marriage should be about creating a partnership that is based on choice, growth, mutual respect, and more. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastcho...

Today, John gives advice on how to emotionally prepare to leave a long-term relationship. He emphasizes the importance of building a better relationship with yourself, and creating a program or structure for yourself during this transition, including having a support system, engaging in somatic experiences, setting goals, and more. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn...

Today, John discusses the importance of looking at past memories through different lenses to gain a more accurate understanding. He also answers two listeners questions: how to know if you've done enough healing to be in a relationship? And how to accept that you and your partner may not be right for each other? Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad c...

Today, ​​John shares his personal journey of being single and finding his authentic self after going through a divorce. He emphasizes the importance of connecting to one's solid self, living a life that feels honest, the significance of having a sense of purpose before entering another relationship, and more. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choi...

Today, John shares 15 non-generic tips on how to be happy while being single which includes: creating a personal sanctuary, learning to enjoy solitude, practicing random acts of kindness, developing a daily ritual, engaging in a creative project, and much more. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John answers three relationship questions: how do you know if a past relationship is worth revisiting? What holds someone back in a new relationship after a divorce? And how to deal with feeling insecure about a partner's past relationship? He discusses the need for self-work, healing after a divorce to avoid repeating unhealthy patterns in new relationships, and more. Follow John on Instag...