The Angry Therapist Podcast

Today, John discusses the impact of parental relationships on self-worth and emotional development, emphasizing the importance of nurturing oneself in ways that may have been lacking in childhood. He dives into practical strategies for self-compassion, identifying emotional needs, transforming negative self-talk, and regulating emotions through body awareness. You can pre-order John's new book, Br...

Today, John explores the profound impact of breakups on personal growth and self-discovery. He emphasizes that breakups serve as a mirror, reflecting our emotional patterns and unresolved wounds, and encourages listeners to view breakups as transformative opportunities for growth. You can pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s new Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow...

Today, John explores the misconceptions surrounding heartbreak and breakups, emphasizing that our hearts do not break but stretch, allowing for personal growth and resilience. He also discusses the importance of understanding the pain of heartbreak, the necessity of coping mechanisms, the journey of self-discovery that follows a breakup, and much more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpo...

Today, John reflects on his experiences as a parent and the generational differences in parenting styles. He emphasizes the importance of perspective in understanding one's life journey, the need to pull back to see the bigger picture, and how self-reflection can lead to emotional well-being. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John's Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow...

John talks about how wisdom is derived from lived experiences and how seeking new experiences can lead to personal growth and transformation. He emphasizes how by focusing on corrective experiences, individuals can challenge false beliefs and expand their understanding of love, relationships, and life itself. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s Single. On Purpos...

Today, John explores the transformative power of breakups. He also encourages listeners to reframe their narratives around breakups, viewing them as invitations to evolve into better versions of themselves, and to lean into the discomfort of pain, so one can learn valuable lessons and shed limiting beliefs leading to a more fulfilling future. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE J...

Today, John shares a series of poignant poems that delve into themes of creativity, personal growth, love, and relationships. He also explores how breakups can lead to breakthroughs, the ongoing journey of self-discovery, and the evolving nature of love. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choice...

Today, John recounts the excitement of having a free day, the mishap with his motorcycle keys, and the subsequent challenges he faced. He emphasizes the value of accepting life's unpredictability, recognizing personal growth in how we respond to setbacks, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Jump into John’s Single. On Purpose app HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find...

Today, John discusses the concept of 'Fuck It Friday,’and emphasizes the importance of taking time for oneself without guilt, exploring the balance between self-love and self-indulgence. He also talks about the practice of gratitude, encouraging listeners to reflect on unique aspects of their lives they appreciate, and his new book, Break Up On Purpose. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purp...

Today, John challenges the traditional fairy tale narrative of love and relationships, arguing that the myth of 'happily ever after' is unrealistic and damaging. He discusses the importance of commitment, self-reflection, resilience in relationships, and emphasizes that real love requires effort, growth, and the willingness to navigate struggles together. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Pu...

John shares his personal journey regarding sex, intimacy, early experiences, the shame he felt, and what he's learned from them. He also introduces the concept of co-creating intimacy with partners, emphasizing the importance of communication, mutual pleasure, adaptability in sexual relationships, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find ou...

Today, John discusses the emotional complexities involved in breakups, including the concept of secondary loss and the importance of understanding one's emotional responses. He also explores the transformative potential of breakups, emphasizing that they can serve as catalysts for personal growth and self-discovery. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HER...

Today, John discusses how most of our definitions of love are shaped by external influences leading to a disconnection from our true selves. He also explains how redefining our definitions, through personal experiences and emotional intelligence, will help advocate for a more authentic understanding of love and relationships in our lives. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follo...

Today, John reflects on his upbringing in a family restaurant, exploring themes of generational trauma, cultural identity, and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding one's parents' backgrounds, so they can shift towards a more empathetic and responsive approach in the current generation. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HER...

Today, John explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of a client's story. He highlights common struggles couples face, and encourages them to co-create their relationship dynamics by moving away from traditional roles to find what works best for them. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about yo...

Today, John discusses the emotional turmoil of losing not just a marriage but the life he envisioned, and how this experience led him to a path of self-discovery and personal growth. He also emphasizes the importance of understanding different types of breakups, how they require tailored approaches to healing, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram...

Today, John shares his reflections on gratitude, storytelling, and fitness. He emphasizes the importance of practicing gratitude, embracing one's life story, and discusses how his past experiences, including his divorce, have shaped his current perspective and practices. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more abo...

Today, John Kim reflects on the importance of authenticity in content creation that was inspired by Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard. He also dives into self-reflection regarding his own discipline, the significance of emotional intelligence, and the need for regular self-check-ins to ensure personal growth and alignment with one's values. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow J...

Today, John reflects on childhood experiences, significant life events, and the impact of first impressions, while also discussing themes of sexual curiosity and shame. He also emphasizes the importance of exploring moments without judgment, how courage is often needed in difficult situations, and more. Pre-order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose, HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out mo...

Today, John talks about a recent experience at a coffee shop that triggered him. He explores navigating defensiveness in relationships, the importance of personal accountability, and the concept of situationships. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares his experience of a day falling apart and provides steps to cope with such situations. He emphasizes the importance of allowing oneself to feel the frustration and anger, reframe the situation, and find a positive mindset. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares a client’s story about a woman, who after a long, unfulfilling marriage, finds herself drawn to a man from her past. As she navigates her feelings for him, she grapples with the reality of her emotional needs, the fantasy she has built around him, and how the experience became a catalyst for her personal growth and healing. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John...

Today, John talks about his first experience using MDMA. He reflects on the emotional and physical effects of it, the highs and lows of his experiences, including the aftermath of using MDMA and the potential therapeutic benefits of psychedelics. Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today, John shares a profound spiritual experience he had while driving to an event, triggered by a podcast discussion about bullying and masculinity. He reflects on his own experiences with bullying, the emotional weight of inaction, the desire to understand physical conflict, and more.  Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastcho...

In the final episode of The Codependency Series, Vanessa explores the difference between caretaking and caregiving. She discusses the repression of feelings, needs, and wants, and the challenge of knowing and expressing them. She also delves into the fear of loss of attachment, the need for control in relationships, addresses manipulative behavior, weak boundaries, poor communication, and more. Fo...