Social Anxiety Solutions - your journey to social confidence!

In this Episode... The most common question people have when they hear about EFT Tapping is...   "Can I use tapping to overcome Social Anxiety on my own?"   And if you are also one of the people who wants to know the answer, then go listen to the full podcast episode now!    PS Social Confidence Club 4.0 will be open for registration in mid-Feb 2023 (for one week only).    Do you want to make sure...

In this Episode... Are you feeling bothered when someone gets angry at you? Are you experiencing strong feelings of shame and embarrassment when someone makes his/her voice loud? Do you feel overwhelmed when someone looks angry at you? These are the emotions that Anonymous felt before the tapping session with Sebastiaan began. They worked and tapped around this issue, together with the members of...

In this Episode... If you are new to tapping...or not, one question always pops into your mind - especially when we have triggering situations that need tapping.   How often do I tap? When should I tap? Where should I tap?   And in one of Sebastiaan's videos, Jose asked a similar question that goes like this:    "Seb, I started tapping about 2 weeks ago, is there any recommendations for how often...

New environment. New people to work with. I mean...honestly speaking, just the thought of it can be anxiety triggering, even for people who don't suffer from Social Anxiety" You might think: "How will I introduce myself?" "How can I adjust to this new environment?" And in this episode, hear Claudia's win as she shares that by working through her social anxiety issues, together with the support of...

"How long does it take for blushing to dissipate using tapping?" This is the question that Sebastiaan will be talking about in this video. PS Social Confidence Club 4.0 will be open for registration in mid Feb 2023 (for one week only). Wanna make sure you don't miss it? Sign up for the early announcement list. Not only will you be the first to know when we open the doors, you also get two of the m...

What does it feel like to have a tapping session with Seb? How will it help you understand your feelings much better? And how will it help you process your emotions, moving forward? In this episode, Juha will be sharing her 2-week progress report after her tapping session in front of the Social Confidence Club. Not only did she dig deep to process her childhood trauma, but her anxiety dropped sign...

Wouldn't it be nice to wake up feeling confident and at ease about your upcoming event? The feeling of joy and excitement knowing that you'll have fun socializing, without thinking about your past anxiety. In this episode, Sebastiaan will be talking what effortless social ease is, and also what it isn't. Enjoy! Go here for the show notes page. __________________________________________ Do you feel...

There comes a time when we really have to get out of our box and interact with other people. And if you are suffering from Social Anxiety, this can be a big threat. Your symptoms will slowly show up until you are frozen in the situation. That feeling is not fun. And that feeling might force you to stop interacting, and you just want to go home. But with tapping, you can overcome this fear. And in...

Let's talk about the Social Anxiety Stigma. When you tell people that you have Social Anxiety, are you worried that they will judge you? People who suffer from Social Anxiety doesn't want to let other people know about it. They might have an impression of "I'm a weirdo, I'm weak and pathetic, they won't respect and value me, they will pity me" But not all people think that way. Sometimes, it is yo...

How have you been feeling lately? Are you feeling low? Have you been remembering all the painful memories from the past? Have you been beating yourself up because of an upcoming event? How do you plan to deal with that? In today's episode, hear Victoria as she tapped into her childhood memories (such as feelings of rejection, shame, and judgment), did some resistance clearing work, and noticed a s...

Do you want to be inspired on your journey to social confidence? Have you been asking yourself if you can overcome your social anxiety? Did something happen recently that made you feel down on your journey to social ease? If you answered yes to all these questions, stay tuned! In this episode, Sebastiaan will be reading out 12 quotes from the experts who incorporated EFT Tapping into their practic...

Trying out new things can be really stressful. It can make you really nervous and anxious all the same time. And when you are in this kind of situation, the feeling of being anxious is not a joke. This is how it started with Valle. But with the support from the Social Confidence Club, we reminded him of all the things he had learned and applied them to his situation... ...and bit by bit, his anxie...

How long does it take to overcome my social anxiety? In today's episode, Sebastiaan will be answering this question. He will also be giving his insights about what to focus on, on your journey to social ease, as well as the 4 ways to measure your progress. If you want to watch the coaching episodes that Sebastiaan talked about in this video, you can go to this link. Enjoy! ________________________...

As Sebastiaan repeatedly says: "A win is a win! Celebrate it!" This phrase has been hard to interpret by many as they don't see the progress that they are making. But what is progress and how can you measure it? In this episode, hear Becca as she celebrates the internal transformation that she had felt. A moment where she felt that all the negative limitations and beliefs she had before, turned in...

Is tapping enough to beat social anxiety? This is the question that I got in one of my videos. And in this episode, not only will I be answering that questions, I will also be giving you insights as to how the power of tapping can really help you overcome your social anxiety. Go here for the show notes page. __________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do yo...

How can I freely speak? How do I get rid of this lump in my throat? How do I unstifled myself? These are the questions that Sebastiaan recently got. And in this episode, Sebastiaan will be giving you a bit of perspective and one quick fix to help you with this problem. If you want to make some progress right now already, I suggest checking out this video: https://youtu.be/wb4w2XIGv8M where you tap...

Every person has their own boundaries and limits. Either when it comes to work, personal space, or even relationship. For people with social anxiety, keeping up with these is not as easy as for others. It might be too hard for them to say No. It might be too hard for them to keep up with the conversations. It might be too hard for them to stay as positive, and jolly especially when they are being...

What will do you if you have not had specific traumas but you are dealing with social anxiety? Last week, Sebastiaan made a video entitled "HEAL TRAUMA TO BEAT SOCIAL ANXIETY" And one specific question caught Seb's eyes. Here's the question: Thank you for this helpful video, many coaches have confirmed that we should work on the root cause of the problem or the trauma, but in my case I don't remem...

Do you have a fear of meeting new people? Meeting new people has been a big problem for a lot of people. There is worry, fear, and negative thinking about what could happen prior to meeting that new person. However, for people who suffers from social anxiety, this event is dreadful. Meeting new people is a challenge. A challenge where you have to encounter symptoms such as having sweaty palms, sha...

Disclaimer: No Copywrite infringement. We do not own the video clip by Bessel van der Kolk. If you want to watch the full video of his interview, check out this link: https://youtu.be/0jio1T1p5pU The are numerous studies that link the correlation between childhood traumatic experiences to having severe social anxiety. And this is not just a drama that other people might think, it is the TRAUMA tha...

There are lots of 'what if' situations, especially when we are clouded with emotions such as shame, nervousness, embarrassment, fear, etc. What if that person hates the way I talk? What if I embarrass myself in front of other people? What if I can't deliver myself well? What if I can't come across a certain situation? These what if's are the result of the negative emotions that we are feeling. And...

Have you ever felt tired and stuck in being socially anxious? Have you felt that being socially at ease is risky? Have you ever felt that there is so much pressure and expectations from you to be socially confident? If you answered yes to all the questions, then that is the result of your subconscious resistance. And in this episode, hear Ali's comment as he shares how one by one, he is chipping a...

Why do I keep blushing?   What do I have to do to overcome it completely?   In today's episode, Sebastiaan will be answering this specific question posted in one of his videos:   "I've recently discovered that the blushing was my main problem after 1 year of tapping. And I made insane progress in just 1 session. The next day, I felt almost completely free, but I felt a bit vulnerable and I believe...

Is your childhood baggage holding you back? Ever wondered how it feels to finally release this? In this episode, Tania shared how watching and tapping along with someone's else coaching session helped her release her childhood baggage even more. She was referring to our "Neutralize Your Shame and Fear of Embarrassment Coaching Series" program. You can learn more about this program by going to: htt...

Most people that start with tapping are obsessively focused on trying to get rid of their social anxiety and reach social confidence They want to feel at ease socially They want to be able to speak their mind They want to get away from this problem as quickly as possible And that makes sense! However, when you've been suffering from social anxiety, then it's going to take some time to get rid of t...