Silent Grief Podcast

Can something so devastating as child loss ever have a purpose? On this episode of The Silent Grief Podcast, we grapple with this deeply personal question. We share our honest thoughts on finding meaning in the midst of sorrow, exploring the possibility of growth and transformation within the depths of grief. A conversation for those seeking solace and understanding. Find us on Facebook: https://w...

Holiday grief is when we feel heavy grief around the holidays. This is so, so common for parents who have lost children. The holidays can be a dreaded time because all the laughter and celebration is a constant reminder that our child is no longer with us, and they are no longer here to celebrate with us. A time of year that once was full of joy can become a time that is depressing and sad.  We wa...

Grief hits us hard when we lose a child. There are lasting effects and with grief comes confusion and LOTS of unknowns. We can experience shock, denial, anger, and even begging for our child to come back. This is all part of processing grief. It's vital that we work through these different processes and have someone willing to hold our hand. The hardest thing in life is losing a child. We need to...

When the holidays come this time of year there are reminders EVERYWHERE that the season is upon us. Christmas decorations start being displayed in October in most stores. We are hard pressed to not find reminders all around us. People are celebrating and those joyful signs for others can be quite triggering for those of us who have lost a child.  The holiday cheer ehances a stark contrast between...

The holiday season is often a time of joy, gratitude, and togetherness. But for parents who have lost a child, this season can be a painful reminder of their absence. In this podcast, we delve into the complex emotions experienced by grieving parents during the holidays. We explore how they navigate the challenges of maintaining hope and finding gratitude amidst their sorrow. Join us as we talk ab...

We all know it's coming, but we rarely talk about it. Death, the ultimate taboo, is a subject shrouded in silence and fear. But what if confronting this inevitable part of life could actually bring healing? Join us on a journey to explore the power of honest conversation about death. We'll delve into the emotional, spiritual, and practical aspects of mortality, and uncover the transformative poten...

Death, a topic often shrouded in taboo, is an inevitable part of life. Yet, we rarely discuss it openly. In this episode, we dive deep into the uncomfortable, yet essential conversation about death and dying. Join us as we explore: The Stigma Surrounding Death: Why do we avoid talking about it? The Power of Open Dialogue: How honest conversations can bring comfort and closure. Cultural and Spiritu...

Holiday Heartache delves into the emotional complexities of navigating the holiday season after the loss of a child. Join us as we explore the heart-wrenching decisions families face, the conflicting emotions they experience, and the strategies for finding peace during this challenging time. Parents often wonder whether they should celebrate the holidays or not without their child. Whether you're...

This podcast is a safe space for parents who have experienced the devastating loss of a child. Join us as we explore healthy ways to grieve, cope with grief, and find hope in the darkest of times. Through heartfelt conversations, we will talk about differnt ways to manage grief that remains as a constant in the lives of parents who have lost a child. Together, we'll navigate the complex journey of...

Losing a child is one of life's most profound tragedies. In this episode, we explore the power of words to provide comfort and support during this difficult time. Join us as we discuss helpful phrases that people can say to grieving parents to offer solace and understanding. We'll delve into the importance of empathy, active listening, and avoiding clichés. Whether you're a grieving parent seeking...

Have you ever lost someone close to you and felt overwhelmed by the well-meaning but hurtful things people say? In this episode, we dive deep into five common phrases that can unintentionally cause more pain than comfort. Join us as we explore the impact of these words and discuss how to offer genuine support to those grieving. Together, let's create a more compassionate and understanding world. N...

In this poignant episode, we delve into the complexities of grief and the search for meaning when a child is lost. We share the challenges of finding peace in the absence of a happy ending. We explore themes of hope, resilence, and the power of connection as we seek to understand how individuals find strength and purpose when there isn't a happy ending to our sorrrow.  Find us on Facebook: https:/...

A lot of us are taught to keep our emotions in check; to stuff it down and just deal with it. And many of us do this when we lose a child. We keep our thoughts to ourselves, stuffing down the grief as it wells up within us. Is this OK to do? Or will this eventually catch up to us? What is the best way to manage grief? Find out in this episode.  Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SilentG...

Every loss is unique. Your child was unique. You are unique. Your relationship with each other was certainly unique. And so were the circumstances that led to your child losing his or her life. Because of this, the way you grieve will be unique too. And that's OK. There is never a one-size-fits-all approach to grief.  Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport https://www.fac...

Let's face it--most jobs offer a few days off at best when we lose a loved one. It's no different when we lose a child. Very few jobs offer any substantial time off for bereavement. The reality is that, if we don't show up we risk losing our job. Oftentimes we find ourselves unable to focus at work. Our job performance suffers because what we desperately need it time off to grieve.  In this episod...

When we lose a child, that is far from our only loss. We typically lose close friendships, too. There are 100 different reasons why that can happen but the reality is that it DOES happen. So what do we do when we lose friendships? How do we cope? How do we find new friendships? Can we restore our old freindships? These are all things that we discuss in this episode.  Find us on Facebook: https://w...

After we lose a child, everything changes. Relationships that once were healthy and strong can especially be strained. Grief changes us. There is no question about that. But do we need to start all over again? What do we need to rebuild so that relationships can fourish again after we lose a child? We discuss problems that couples face in this episode and how they can re-establish those relationsh...

Anger is recognized as one of the stages of grief. But when anger comes, we often feel bad about ourselves. We can feel guilt and shame for feeling anger. That anger can be directed at doctors, family, friends, or even our child who lost their life. Anger has many different ways it manifests and we need to be prepared when it comes. In this episode, we talk about coming face to face with our anger...

What do we experience when we are facing the reality of loss? Certainly our mind, body, and spirit react to grief. We often get forgetful, tired, depressed, and can experience chronic health issues. We also question why God could allow the death of a child. These are all things that we wrestle with. In this episode we talk about what those experiences can look like. If you've experienced fatigue,...

When the reality of losing a child finally sinks in, it really stinks. Lots of things start to happen in your life and it can seem like your whole world is starting to shatter all over again. In this episode we talk about some of the things that can happen when we are plunged back into this reality stage.  Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport https://www.facebook.com/ji...

Once the shock of losing a child begins to fade we find ourselves grappling with the reality that our child is really gone for good and nothing we can do will bring our child back. As we enter this reality, life begins to get very tough again. In this episode we talk about what you might expect in this stage of reality and how to manage the deep sense of loss.  Find us on Facebook: https://www.fac...

After we lose a child and the dust settles, it can feel like nobody cares. Their lives go back to normal while our world is completely shattered. In this episode we talk about healthy vs unrealistic expectations that we can place on our friends after we lose a child. Oftentimes it's not that people don't care, it's that they don't have the bandwidth to help us to the degree that we might need at t...

We all ask the question after a child dies: "Where are my friends?" There is a three month period where friends are present but after three months they seem to all go away. Why is that? Is there something wrong with us? These are questions we answer in this episode. Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SilentGriefSupport https://www.facebook.com/jimmyhintonauthor And Twitter: https://twit...

The pain of losing a child is indescribable. Most people truly don't understand until it happens to them. In this episode, we share how to manage the pain of losing a child. It's the most difficult thing imaginable, is common, and yet not many people are openly talking about the pain of childloss. Today we want to change that and talk about hope in the midst of suffering.  Find us on Facebook: htt...

When we lose a child we quickly fall into the valley of grief. But the question is, should we quickly climb our way out of the valley? Nobody wants to stay in a perpetual state of grief. So what is the answer? Do we get counseling and try to reduce the weight of grief as quickly as possible? Do we endure the grief for a season?  Find out in this episode. We talk about doing what is right for YOU....