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I want to spice up our routine sex life. It’s good, and it’s gets the job done, but I want to add something else. How do I speak up about this when there’s the fear my spouse may think I’m a pervert? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Language Eroticism The importance […] The post Episode 63: My spouse may think I’m perverted first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Anxiety is all around us. It also gets in the way of many things both in and out of the bedroom. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being in the moment Focus on the journey Breathe in and out __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) […] The post Episode 62: Getting in the zone for lovers first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

There are times when one of you is turned on and raring to go … and at the exact same time your spouse is so far from that place. What can you do during these times? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: High desire, low desire Be you in your relationship __________ […] The post Episode 61: I’m raring to go, she’s not first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Help! I don’t find my spouse physically attractive. Can I bring up the idea of plastic surgery for them? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: What you control Upping your own attraction Use the power of the system __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or […] The post Episode 60: Physical Attraction Issues first appeared on Sexy Marriage...

Sex is a topic filled with anxiety, especially when you’re talking about it with your kids. But, it’s vital that parents talk about it with them. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: It’s important to be calm It’s an ongoing conversation – not just one “talk” How to offer up your values […] The post Episode 59: How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio...

What happens when you do all the “right” things for your marriage (and spouse) yet the results you’re looking for don’t follow? It’s enough to make you crazy. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Information paralyzation Operating from the best in yourself Let go of attachment to an outcome __________ Got a question? […] The post Episode 58: Am I crazy? first appeared on Sexy Marria...

Eroticism is something some people fear. At the very least, it carries with it some levels of discomfort … that’s what makes it erotic. So how can you up the eroticism in your life? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being present Taking risks Sex On Sundays __________ Got a question? Let […] The post Episode 57: Thoughts For The Erotically Challenged first appeared on Sexy Marria...

We’ve done shows where we discuss high desire and low desire differences. But what about when one spouse simply can’t get in to sex and that puts the other spouse in the state of having to do “work” to make sex happen? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: High and Low desire […] The post Episode 56: When sex is work first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Pain from out past can easily impact our present. Especially in sex. Sexual pain, shame, guilt and frustration can dramatically decrease our present encounters with the one we love. But there’s hope – you can retroactively take care of the past – in the present. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Reframing […] The post Episode 55: Past pain impacting present pleasure first appeare...

Ever had times when worry and anxiety derailed your sex life? What about when worry destroys any hope of reaching climax or even the ability to perform? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Simple steps to be present Self soothing Reframing what’s happening between you __________ Got a question? Let us know […] The post Episode 54: Performance anxiety first appeared on Sexy Marriage...

I’m struggling in my marriage, should I give up? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Be honest Speak up Fight for it! __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 53: Help for those hurting first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

There are both givers and takers in life. And sex. Sometimes, it’s the same person. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being a giver or taker Honesty Authenticity __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below […] The post Episode 52: Givers and takers first appe...

The basic question is this: Can men and women be friends? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Importance of boundaries Differences between men and women __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 51: Can men and women be friends first appear...

Is there any advice you guys have for those who are engaged or dating? What about the other end of the spectrum and thoughts for those of us experiencing sexual issue due to aging? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: How far is too far? Connecting more than physically The elegance of […] The post Episode 50: Thoughts for the young and old first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Our inbox filled up over the past couple of weeks. In this episode it’s all about answering your questions. Show topics: How can I get my spouse to listen to the show? How to up the frequency Arousal disorders __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us […] The post Episode 49: Q&A Potpourri first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Stress. It’s everywhere. What impact does stress have on sex? Marriage? And how can we stay connected in the midst of chronic stress? That’s what we discuss in this episode. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 48: Stress and sex first appeared on Sex...

There are many passionate people. There are also many sexually frustrated people. What happens when this is the same person? That’s what we discuss in this episode. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 47: Passionate, but sexually frustrated first app...

There will always be a high desire and a low desire when it comes to sex (actually with every topic). Typically, the high desire spouse is the husband while the low desire spouse is the wife. But what about when this is reversed? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: Is there something […] The post Episode 46: High desire wife, low desire husband first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radi...

Life involves change. And no where does change impact us more than in our body image/self image. So how do you handle it when you’ve added a few pounds or gravity has taken over and your image takes a hit in your own mind? And what about when this happens to your spouse? That’s what […] The post Episode 45: Self Image and Sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Oral sex. It can be a great part of foreplay, or even the main event. But what about when one spouse wants it and the other doesn’t? Or when you’re repulsed by the idea or act? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: Challenge your assumptions Change is a slow process Power __________ […] The post Episode 44: When Your Spouse Won’t Go Down first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Editor’s Note: There’s an issue with the master audio of this show – the last couple of minutes are missing. Sorry for this issue. Our last show discussed the idea of changing things up in order to create some spice – but does that mean if you have a functional routine in sex (and life) […] The post Episode 43: Does routine mean boring? first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

We all fall into routines. And many people struggle with the do what worked last time philosophy. But what do you do when all of this combines into being boring in bed? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: The importance of changing things Make a move If you’re boring in bed, you’re likely […] The post Episode 42: Help, my spouse says I’m boring first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radi...

There is one thing that drives all our lives. One thing that draws lines in the sand and boundaries for what we’ll tolerate. Integrity. Put another way, living according to “what you hold dear.” That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: The value of values How integrity and sex fit together Passion __________ Got a […] The post Episode 41: How Integrity Can Improve Sex first appeared on...

There are inevitable ebbs and flows in marriage. It is also possible that the relationship can evolve to where you’re more like roommates than lovers. So how do you move from roommates to lovers again? That’s what we discuss in this episode. Show topics: High desire and low desire The role of masculinity and femininity __________ Got […] The post Episode 40: Moving From Roommates to Lovers Again f...

In this episode we answer a listener email. How do you address lingering guilt feelings regarding sex. Plus, masturbation – right or wrong? Enjoy. __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 39: Dealing with guilt about sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Ra...