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Many times, the only thing in our way to creating what we really want in life, marriage, and sex is ourselves. More specifically, our beliefs. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Self limiting beliefs What’s true Tips to overcome our beliefs that hurt us __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. […] The post Episode 88: Self limiting beliefs first appear...

Kissing is a big part of physical intimacy, for many people. But not everyone. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Gridlock Speaking up even if it hurts __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 87: My spouse doesn’t like to kiss first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

A system is something that is co-created. And our role in the creation of things can be something we don’t easily notice. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What happens in relationship is co-created What’s your contribution Taking responsibility for yourself __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy […] The post Episode 86: Your role fir...

A popular book in the marriage world is Dr. Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages. While it’s helped a lot of people, we have a slightly different take. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What are the love languages What else is going on? __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen […] The post Episode 85: Love Languages first appeared on Sexy Marriag...

Our self-image really does affect our life. Especially our sex life. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Shame How the spouse can help Re-write your story __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 84: Body image and shame first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

For some, sex is over too fast. For others it’s too slow. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: It’s a relational issue Let go of attachment Your identity __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 83: Too fast or too slow first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Oral sex. One of our more popular topics on Sexy Marriage Radio. But not everyone is interested in it, and there are some hurdles that get in the way of personal preferences when it comes to enjoying it. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Smell and taste Grooming How to bring this […] The post Episode 82: Grooming and others issues with oral sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radi...

We’ve made the comment before that our belief is 100% of your sexual energy needs to be directed toward your marriage. What if you’re married to someone with a different belief? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Triggers and behaviors Intimacy in real-time Growing up your “self” __________ Got a question? Email […] The post Episode 81: Leaking sexual energy first appeared on Sexy...

There are many things in life that we do … and sometimes we do them simply because we’re supposed to. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Self-soothing Reframing what we do Being present __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 80: Having sex because you’re supposed to first appeared on Sexy Marriag...

There’s a high desire and a low desire in every relationship. Usually the high desire is responsible for initiating most, but not always. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The devil’s pact Be yourself Self-soothing __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 79: How do you initiate? first appeared on...

Setting the mood. Ruining the mood. Sometimes there’s a fine line between the two. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Music Environment Moves __________ Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 78: Do this, Not this first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Every one of us gets rejected at times. Some times a lot. So how do you deal with this better? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Rejection anxiety Instigate Isolate Escalate __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 77: Dealing with rejection anxiety first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Are intimacy and sex the same thing? Can you have intimacy without sex? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Following the connection Separateness vs. Togetherness Foreplay and sex __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below … The post Episode 76: Intimacy and Sex first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

There are lots of marriages where the man is the high desire partner for sex. BUT, this isn’t always the case. Being the high desire is not gender specific. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Listener emails Making meaning Be clear about what you’re seeking __________ Got a question? Email us at […] The post Episode 75: High and low isn’t gender specific first appeared on Sexy Marr...

Many of our shows are aimed at those experiencing issues or struggles in marriage. Not today. Today we’re talking about what it takes to move a good marriage in to a great one. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Both have to be interested Claim the time and boundaries Shared vision __________ […] The post Episode 74: Going from good to great first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Whenever there’s a crisis in marriage, it’s common that one spouse becomes an orbiter of the other. While this is an understandable reaction, it’s not beneficial. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What is an orbiter How men and women do this How to break free __________ Got a question? Email us […] The post Episode 73: Orbiters in Crisis first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Relationships evolve slowly over time. They ebb and they flow. But what about when you want things to get better? Do they get worse before they get better? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The value of sticking with it Perspective Growing up both as a person and a couple __________ Got […] The post Episode 72: Worse before better first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

What do I do when my spouse won’t accept my compliments or statements about how good I think they look? Then their rejections squash my desire. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Who is your spouse’s happiness committee? Being congruent and authentic in word and action Following your passions __________ Got a question? Let […] The post Episode 71: My Spouse’s Happiness Committee fi...

Help, my wife has an aversion to sex so there’s little to no sex happening. And during the times in between, she thinks everything I do is about sex so she feels pressured all the time. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The role you play in this as a man Pursue […] The post Episode 70: When pressure leads to aversion first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Several years ago research showed the importance of equality in marriage. That housework and roles to make a relationship work should be equal. Now research shows that our sexuality doesn’t follow this same script. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Friendship and roles we play in marriage Masculinity and femininity Playing to your strengths […] The post Episode 69: All Things Bein...

There are times in married life where one spouse wants to address an issue or problem in the marriage and the other isn’t interested. This can be frustrating for both spouses. In this episode Gina and I cover the various ways to address this situation. Show topics: The process of relationships Living according to what […] The post Episode 68: Help when my spouse isn’t interested first appeared on...

Expectations can ruin sex. In this episode Gina and I cover the differences between genders and our expectations for sex. Show topics: Differences between men and women Types of sexual encounters Stages of sex for married people __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) 567-3996 or email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. […] The post Episode 67: The Stages of S...

There are many times in married life when you are too close to your spouse for too long. The saying is, “absence makes the heart grow fonder.” And it’s true. The space between you and your spouse is important. So what do you do when life throws a curve and you’re space is limited? That’s […] The post Episode 66: Give Me Some Space first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Life is struggle. Stress, tragedy, and illness are bound to occur. And when it does, it impacts almost all areas of life. So what are some way to address illness and its impact on sex? That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Chronic illness Temporary illness Convient illness __________ Got a question? Let […] The post Episode 65: Sex and Chronic Illness first appeared on Sexy Marriage...

Expectations run rampant in marriage. Whether that be in roles, schedules, responsibilities or sex. Expectations really can ruin things. That’s what this episode is all about. Show topics: Being in the moment Following your desires Being the high desire, or the low desire spouse __________ Got a question? Let us know by calling the feedback line: (615) […] The post Episode 64: Dealing with expecta...