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On the Regular version of today’s show … An email from a listener who wishes we would have addressed the “you complete me” line differently in episode #431. A caller wanting information about Sensate Focus exercises for their sex life. And an email from a wife whose husband found a vibrator she bought and completely […] The post Sensate Focus #438 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Jennifer Findlayson-Fife, a fellow therapist and we discuss the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife. Learn more about Dr Jennifer at http://www.finlayson-fife.com On the Xtended version … Dr Jennifer and I discuss her research with LDS Women and sexuality and […] The post The Lower Desire Wife #437 first appeared on Sexy...

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Deb Thomas, a fellow LMFT and Sex Therapist and we discuss how metaphors can be helpful when it comes to addressing your sex life. Learn more about Deb at https://nwioi.com/ On the Xtended version … Deb Thomas and I continue our conversation although for […] The post Metaphors and Sex Therapy #436 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Steven Stosny as we discuss how abuse happens in marriage and relationships – and how compassion is the key to breaking the patterns. Learn more about Dr Stosny at his site https://www.compassionpower.com/ On the Xtended version … Pam and I have a conversation […] The post Abuse In Marriage #435 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s show … We’ve combined the Regular and the XTD versions into one show – this week only. The whole show we are talking about trust and hurt … and how there is a tremendous difference in handling these two aspects of betrayal, lies, and broken promises. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? […] The post Trust and Hurt #434 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … My wife Pam is tested on her knowledge with a 10 Question Sex Quiz And an email from a husband looking for our thoughts about helping his marriage and their struggles with weight, desire, infertility and adoption. On the Xtended version … What’s the difference between arousal […] The post Arousal and Desire #433 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Ann Gadd, author of Sex and the Enneagram. You can learn more about Ann by visiting her website. You can also email her at ann@anngadd.co.za On the Xtended version … The continued conversation with Ann Gadd. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL […] The post Sex and the Enneagram #432 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent, and how to create intimacy in marriage by being willing to address the struggles many men and women face when it comes to sex and life together. On the Xtended version … How do you adjust better with […] The post The Challenges of Intimacy #431 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from listeners asking for our take on the use of the “f” word in married life and sex. A voicemail from a higher desire husband who takes too much of his cue from his lower desire wife when it comes to their sex life. A […] The post The F Word #430 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails looking for help for he and his wife regarding the fantasies she often turns to for sexual arousal. A caller asking for followup on one of Dr Glover’s ideas about the differences between men and women. On the Xtended version … An in-depth conversation […] The post Darker Fantasies #429 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails to share his journey to getting his wife on board to talking more about sex and wonders why he’s not at the same level of desire as before due to the work it took to reach their current level. And Jessa Zimmerman joins me […] The post Spilled Milk and Differences #428 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a wife who has repeated attempted to educate her husband about how she wants sex to unfold, yet is still getting little to no foreplay and routine, unfulfilling sex most of the time. On the Xtended version … Should you expect your spouse to […] The post Being There For You #427 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of voicemails from members of the SMR Nation sharing some reframes of topics we’ve previously covered. One, the differences between thinkers and feelers. And two, masturbation. On the Xtended version … A deeper look at the orgasm gap in marriages today. Enjoy the show! __________ […] The post Reframing and the Orgasm Gap #426 first appeared on Sexy...

On today’s regular version of the show … How well do you do at showing the people that matter in your life that they matter? I’m joined by Dr. Robert Glover again as we discuss tests that happen in marriage between men and women. Learn more about Dr Glover here. On the Xtended version … […] The post Testing Solidness #425 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting to know how to trust again after her husband disclosed his porn usage for over 12 years of their marriage. Another wife emails wanting to know how to […] The post Trusting After Porn #424 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting more variety in her sex life – yet every time she brings it up with her husband he reverts back to what they’ve always done. And an email […] The post Wife Wants Variety #423 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a listener asking for our thoughts regarding One Sided Sex in marriage. Taken from an article found on Psychology Today. On the Xtended version … Part two of the SMR […] The post One Sided Sex In Marriage #422 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A husband calls in with 2 questions, how can he last longer during sex and would we talk about squirting and how to explore it or if you should. On the Xtended version […] The post Lasting Longer and Squirting #421 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband looking for more information on how to present something worth wanting. A wife wanting to know how to keep triggers from happening in the bedroom. On the Xtended version … A little more on the idea of the thinking brain and the feeling brain, particularly […] The post Something Worth Wanting #420 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband is looking for how to add more variety to his sex life when his wife has fear of pain during sex. A wife describes a gridlock with her husband surrounding his higher interest in sex than hers. Can your spouse be an accountability partner in […] The post Boundaries #419 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … Two different questions about masturbation. What if it could be reframed as a path forward and what about the woman’s side of this act? Plus a conversation with Denis Merkas from MELT, Couples Massage Courses about how massage is such a good addition to any marriage. On […] The post Masturbation and Massage #418 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … We don’t french kiss anymore. How can I get it started again in my marriage? Plus we’re joined by Seth and Melanie Studley from the Anatomy Of Marriage for a conversation about the idea of your accelerators and brakes in your sex life. On the Xtended version […] The post Accelerators and Brakes #417 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … How do I help my spouse believe they are attractive when it’s not what they believe about themself? Plus I’m joined by Dr. Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First, to answer a listener’s question about premature ejaculation. On the Xtended version … A deeper conversation […] The post Premature Ejaculation #416 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails about the pressures that are felt in married life. From changes to sex to foreplay. On the Xtended version … Sex addiction is a term used quite a lot in the media and our culture lately. But is it accurate, real, and even an addiction […] The post Is Sex Addiction Real? #415 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails from the SMR Nation ranging from how does a wife better handle her husband’s struggle with looking at pornography to how do you address a spouse who’s upbringing around the subject of sex created a real discomfort even talking about the subject now. On the […] The post What Is Normal #414 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .