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Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins me to answer an email from a wife who thinks she may be using sex as a form of emotional attachment and it possibly isn't helpful for her, or her husband. You can find more about Dr. Jennifer on her site http://www.finlayson-fife.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Jennifer and I talk about the factors that can come up when the husband is the lower desire spouse. En...

A conversation with Dr Nan Wise about her work in the field of sex and sexuality - specifically about the importance of pleasure in life. You can find more about Dr. Nan on her site http://askdoctornan.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Nan and I talk about her research and the science of orgasms.  Enjoy the show! The post Healthy Hedonism #462 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the stress and issues couples will face in their sex lives during times of quarantine and uncertainty. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/ Pick up her checkin for free here https://vmtherapy.com/checkin Enjoy the show! The post Quarantine Sex #461 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

With almost a fifth of the world's population in quarantine or distancing for the next couple of weeks, how do you navigate married life better? On the Xtended version ... An email from a husband who's frustrated with our response to another husband about his sex life and desire for more novelty and eroticism. Enjoy the show! The post Marriage in the Time of Quarantine #460 first appeared on Sexy...

Dr Lori Brotto joins me to discuss how stress impacts life and sex. Specifically sexual desire. Learn more about Dr Brotto on her website - www.debunkingdesire.com also find her on social media using this #debunkingdesire On the Xtended version ... Dr Brotto and I talk more in depth about the myths surrounding sexual desire and her research on the subject. Enjoy the show! The post Stress and Sexua...

Dr Laura Dabney joins me to answer a couple of questions from the SMR Nation. A husband asks for help in getting his wife to be willing to try new things in sex. And a wife emails wanting to know how to get her husband to seek help with his ED issues. Learn more about Dr Dabney on her website - https://www.drldabney.com/ or call her at 757-695-3925 On the Xtended version ... Dr Dabney and I discus...

A conversation about slowing down in life and marriage. A question from a husband asking for help with a position they both enjoy but want it to last longer for him/or quicker for her. A caller speaking up about pain in sex for women. On the Xtended version ... Is it possible that you can make things too easy for your spouse? Yes! Enjoy the show! The post Too Easy For Your Spouse? #457 first appea...

A conversation with Dr Emily Nagoski, author of Come As You Are, about all things sex. What's normal? What about responsive desire? Context is king? Check out Emily's work on her site http://www.emilynagoski.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Emily and I continue a conversation exploring the world of sexual non-concordance. Enjoy the show! The post Responsive Desire #456 first appeared on Sexy Mar...

A question from a wife about a condition her husband has called phimosis and how this impacts their sex life.  Another wife wants to know how to get her husband to be more romantic. A wife calls wanting to know how to be more free and let go in her sex life. On the Xtended version ... A caller asks us three questions - female-led relationships - pleasure derived from pain during sex - and vibrator...

A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the most common issues couples face in their sex lives today. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/ On the Xtended version ... Vanessa and I continue the conversation about sex, only this time we're focusing solely on the female orgasm. Enjoy the show! The post The Female Orgasm #454 first appeared on Sex...

A husband calls in asking for our thoughts about his wife's habit of touching herself most every morning and night. A newly-wed wife calls wanting help with her infrequent sex life and struggling attraction for her husband.  On the Xtended version ... How do you confront change with your spouse? Where you want more for them and they don't want it for themselves? Enjoy the show! The post Daily Self...

A husband asks for our thought regarding a better term to use when referring to a specific part of his wife's body. An email from a spouse asking for help in approaching their sex life when one of them is disabled.  On the Xtended version ... Love and Respect, is one more important than the other in marriage? What role and meaning do each of these play? Enjoy the show! The post Labels, Disabilitie...

A couple of emails about fantasies ... from threesomes to aggressive sex almost like rape. Are these common? What do they mean? On the Xtended version ... An email from a wife whose husband has performance anxiety during sex, making it quite difficult to connect and enjoy their sexual encounters. Enjoy the show! The post Fantasies, Threesomes and Anxiety #451 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio...

A couple of emails on the topic of Anal Sex. What do you do when one spouse is unwilling to try it? And what are some tips for those who are willing to try it? Plus an email from a wife whose husband is turned off by sex during pregnancy - and after it. On the Xtended version ... We unpack an email from a wife who found out her husband masturbates regularly to porn because she set up a hidden came...

I'm joined by Melissa Orlov, of ADHD Marriage and we discuss how ADHD impacts life and relationships. Read more from Melissa on her site here - https://www.adhdmarriage.com/ On the Xtended version ... Melissa Orlov and I continue the conversation about ADHD and marriage but venture into how it impacts sex. Enjoy the show! The post ADHD and Marriage #449 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Welcome to 2020. Join us as we go through our 3 words for the year. What are yours? An email from a listener wondering how to get his wife more comfortable with lingerie and role playing. On the Xtended version ... A voicemail about how gender roles and egalitarian roles impact married life and sex.  Enjoy the show! The post Role Playing #448 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

A look back in the SMR archives at one of the most popular shows to date. Birthday sex, shower sex, oral sex. On the Xtended version ... The importance of boundaries in life and marriage. Enjoy the show! The post Best Of SMR: Three Kinds of Sex #447 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

Jessa Zimmerman joins me to answer an email from listeners who say they have a great marriage but real struggle in their sex life. A conversation about the idea of foreplay for foreplay. On the XTD content. What books I've read this year and their impact on my life and marriage. The post Foreplay For Foreplay #446 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today's episode are free. Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding Freedom From Toxic People. You can learn more about Gary and his books here - http://www.garythomas.com/ The post When To Walk Away #445 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage. Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagina. The post Holiday Movies and Vaginas #444 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

A sex ed quiz for my wife and co-host, Pam. An email from a listener asking for a reading list to help him not only in the counseling world but also in marriage. The post Reading List #443 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

A conversation with Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, a therapist who has a new book exploring the science of men, sex and relationships. Check out her work and pick up her book here https://sarahhuntermurray.com/ On the Xtended version ... Dr Sarah joins me to answer a question from a husband whose wife initiated sex and then informed him she did so only because she knows he needs it. The post Not Always I...

An email from a listener about how to bring up the idea that his parents need counseling. Plus a 2 part email from a higher desire wife who wants help addressing the desire difference and oral sex. On the Xtended version ... A discussion about how to recover from fights in married life. The post Help My Parents and Confronting Desire Differences #441 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

A conversation with Dr Laura Dabney, a Psychiatrist who works with clients by helping the deal with emotions better - especially the emotions we've often deemed as bad. Check out her work here https://www.lauradabney.com/ The post Selfish and Needy #440 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio .

On the Regular version of today’s show … A conversation with Dr Claudia Grauf-Grounds about her research and work around the subject of conflict and fighting in married life. Check out her work here https://drclaudiagg.com/ On the Xtended version … We continue the conversation with Dr Claudia about her thought about the Marriage and Family […] The post We’ve Had This Fight Before #439 first appear...