Sexy Marriage Radio

A wife gets turned off when her husband wants to do some novel things in their sex life. How can she address him and the situations better? A husband emails about a wife who has lost all desire and libido due to a medication she is on. How can her get her more engaged in their sex life so it doesn't feel one-sided? On the Xtended version ... There is a Scripture that says, All things are permissib...

Adding music to your sex life in marriage. Join the conversation at my.smr.fm. A husband is in a 2 year stretch of sexlessness. How can he get his wife, who is also miserable, on board with wanting to improve things? On the Xtended version ... What happens when the low desire spouse initiates sex, yet is shut down by their high desire spouse? Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: We...

There is a cure for ticklishness. Plus this same cure works to create deeper erotic connections! Two newlywed couples email us about issues they are having with sex - within the first year of their marriages. On the Xtended version ... A husband has no attraction towards his wife, and while he kinda thought this may be an issue while they were dating, their honeymoon confirmed it. What should he d...

A military wife wants to know how to encourage her husband to be interested in more romantic sex, oh, and she's the higher desire for all the other kinds of sex as well. A wife parents different than her husband, and his manner of parenting is a real turn off sexually. On the Xtended version ... Our Instagram account got quite a bit of pushback over a post we ran about adding a third person to the...

A follow up from an email on last week's show. A newlywed asks for tips to help prepare or avoid the issues that he hears other couples inevitably face in marriage. A woman is experiencing some self-image issues and marital strife resulting from a botched breast reduction procedure. Could it be that women are more sexual than men? A couple both experience orgasms during sex regularly, yet the issu...

A husband takes too long to orgasm during oral sex, and too quick during PV sex.  A wife wants help understanding how to help her husband address the length of time it takes him to climax. A woman has been dating a Christian man for 9 years, who simply won't commit to marriage.  On the Xtended version ... What do you do when one spouse wants to avail themselves to medical resources and vaccines an...

Announcing that registration for the 2022 SMR Getaway is open now ... come join us in downtown Indianapolis! Learn more and register here.  A follow up email from a listener about dealing with guilt and resentment. A question asking if a spouse who refuses to address their role in a sexless marriage is actually better termed as infidelity. On the Xtended version ... We've received several emails a...

A look back at one of our favorite episodes according to the Nation. Two voicemails with some additional ideas to explore from a prior email from a husband who's wife only likes missionary position sex. On the Xtended version ... A discussion about how I believe the messages found in three popular marriage books, The 5 Love Languages, His Needs Her Needs, and Love And Respect, are used in the wron...

An email from a husband wondering why many marriage resources out there take the stance of it's the husbands fault. A husband emails wanting to know if taking a break from pursuing sex with his lower desire wife would help reset things for them both. On the Xtended version ... Are there delay tactics used in marriage and sex to avoid things we don't want to participate in or follow through with? E...

An email from a member of the Nation adding to the conversation about how a HD Spouse can approach their LD Spouse better on the topic of sex. A wife emails asking for how to handle resentment and guilt over how long it has taken to grow more confident sexually. A husband emails wondering if his interest in wearing feminine underwear is a potential problem. On the Xtended version ... Part 4 of the...

An email from a wife whose husband says that if she would let him masturbate or look at porn he would be more interested in sex with her and would be able to finish more regularly. Two emails from different wives wanting to know how to address when husbands have gained a lot of weight and have little interest in a healthier lifestyle.  On the Xtended version ... Part 3 of the Q and A that happens...

We recorded an extended rapid fire episode while at the SMR Getaway, only this time we go more in depth with the answers. On the Xtended version ... Part 2 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into some deep questions like betrayal and desire differences. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Take the stress out of meal time at your house https://hellofres...

An email from a wife who feels stuck between faking it during sex or withholding and wants to know the best Biblical way to approach this in her marriage. A wife emails because she found a dildo that her husband has been using while masturbating. On the Xtended version ... A recording of part of the Q&A time at this year's SMR Getaway. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly co...

An email from a wife who gets nauseous and gags at the thought of her husband ejaculating into her mouth – yet he would really like to experience this with her. And a voicemail from a new mom who wants to get the non-sexy images from childbirth and doctors out of her head to get sex going again with her husband. On the Xtended version … A look a some of the attitudes we can bring into marriage and...

A past episode with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the Higher Desire/Lower Desire dynamic. Specifically about how this often plays out for the lower desire wife. On the Xtended version ... Our conversation continues with Dr Jennifer and her research on the subject of religion and desire. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... MELT: Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's D...

A conversation with Denis Merkas of MELT: Couples Massage about how touch is so important in life and marriage. Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's Day On the Xtended version ... A behind the scenes conversation with Denis about how MELT has impacted his life and what he's learned. Plus he turns the table on Dr Allan. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Songfinch: Use...

An email from a newly-married wife who is interested in sex more in the evening while her husband in interested in the mornings. Plus, he masturbates regularly during the day. A message from Instagram asking what kind of feedback we get from our willingness to talk frankly about sex and relationships. On the Xtended version ... A husband emails asking how to bring up the subject of sex when for 18...

Today we try go rapid fire again and still don't get to all the questions submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio Just a hint of the topics we cover: Oral sex, honeymoon tips, speaking up, anal sex, friends, talking about likes and a whole lot more! On the Xtended version ... We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on sexual dreams, li...

A voicemail from a husband about their therapist's advice that the should not have sex for the next 4 months. A husband emails about how his wife will not allow herself to have an orgasm. An email from a soon to be divorced man wondering what he will do about his sex drive when single. On the Xtended version ... Retroactive jealously and judgment. And how do we view our spouse's past. Enjoy the sh...

An email from a wife who really wants her husband to explore and lead as a Dominant role in their sex life, although he is more of a Submissive. On the Xtended version ... A husband wants to know how to extend the sex sessions with his wife when they only happen twice a year. They both are in a Two-Choice Dilemma. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to...

How do you find a therapist or marriage coach in the age of telehealth? You can work with Dr Allan - for more info click here. Guides mentioned in the show - Part 1, Part 2. A lower desire wife emails wanting help getting her husband to understand her interest in her experiencing an orgasm during sex as well, not just him. A wife in a sexless marriage wants to know how to get her husband intereste...

Everyone get the full show today. I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex. To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://www.iankerner.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... The State Of Our Union: Weekly conversation prompts to have meaningful conversations. https://smr.fm/union The post Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex #517 first app...

Today we try something different. We cover lots of questions in rapid-fire style. All questions were submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio Just a hint of the topics we cover: Oral sex, sizes, fetishes, first time and wedding night, talking about sex and a whole lot more! On the Xtended version ... We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this t...

I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea and we discuss her work on helping couples experience optimal levels of sex in their marriage.  To learn more about Emily visit her site - https://emilyjamea.com/ On the Xtended version ... Emily and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics about her research and the whys behind her findings.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Hello Fresh: Take the stress out...

An email from a husband curious about all the penile enlargement and performance products promoted today. A wife who has experienced pain in the beginning of their sex life but has now found a position that is pain free - now she's anxious about trying out new positions. On the Xtended version ... We unpack the concept of lust as mentioned in Matthew 5:27-30. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Thrive CA...