SexTok with Tracey and Kelsey

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: Is it true that a red rash appears on the chest if she’s had a real orgasm? Or is this old-school thinking? I remember hearing that a lot when I was a young boy growing up but I haven’t heard anyone talking about it for a while. Another sex myth? Is there any way you can tell for sure? I getting paranoid my new girlfriend is faking i...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My husband of 30 years recently bought a pair of VR goggles for work. The other night I found him in bed wearing the goggles and he was fully aroused and touching himself. He didn’t know I was in the room at that time. When I asked him what he was watching he told me it was virtual porn and that I should try it. I was repulsed and wo...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I know women can have multiple orgasms but that never happens for me. Once I have one, any further stimulation feels too intense. How many women are actually are having multiple orgasms regularly? Is it a myth? I've been with my wife for 14 years and we enjoyed a healthy sex life. Over the past 18 months or so (during the various loc...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I have been married for eight years and am worried my partner has fallen out of love with me. Our sex life is alright – we don’t do it as much as we did, but I know that’s normal. But we used to sit on the sofa together and now I’ve noticed he settles himself into an armchair. When I asked him why he said it’s better for his back. (H...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My best male friend has – out of the blue – confessed that he loves me. I have never thought of him that way. I love him as a friend but I'm not sure I can move him from the ‘friend basket’ into the ‘boyfriend basket’? Is it really possible for that to happen? We’ve been close friends for over four years. Should we take it slowly or...

We’ve had so many questions in response to a cheating question we did, we thought we would do a special and answer questions that center around the three most asked themes:  THEME: SHOULD YOU ASK FOR DETAILS? My wife had an affair with an ex of hers who was always sniffing around. She stopped it after I found out (I found text messages). I do believe her when she says it’s stopped but I can’t...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My wife of 35 years has just reached her 60th birthday and she has come through the menopause in style. She has just had her first tattoo and wants to be more 'wild' in all aspects of life, including sex. She wants to do fun things, be a bit rebellious and take more risks. I sense this is also, in part, a reaction to the pandemic (we...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I’m 20 years old and have been sexually active about 2 years, with the same partner. The sex in itself is amazing, but it gets to a point when air gets into my vagina and makes a weird noise. This makes me feel really uncomfortable (he says he doesn’t mind it at all). Is my vagina too loose? And if so, can I do something about it? Bu...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I just recently started finding interest in porn. But I’m not really finding anything female friendly. It’s very male driven and just gross and angry - not to mention, way too unrealistic. I’ve tried watching a couple of videos but they just make me want to shower afterwards because they are just awful. Do you have any suggestions fo...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I am a middle aged man, married, in good health. My question is, how can I last longer during intercourse? A typical session lasts only a matter of three of four minutes. Are there any exercises or techniques that I can use to gain more self control? I've tried things such as masturbating in advance to lessen the desire, extending ma...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My friends talk about their partners always hassling them for sex but I have the opposite problem. My husband is the one who doesn’t want it. Is he having an affair? Does it mean he doesn’t find me attractive anymore? I’m too embarrassed to talk to my friends. My partner of five months wants to know how many lovers I’ve had. Let’s sa...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My partner and I have been together for 6 years and haven't tried anything new in a while. You say things like ‘spice things up a bit’ - by doing what though? Can you spell out exactly what you mean by that and give some practical examples? My husband’s penis is on the large side...not so much length as girth. Sex is only comfortable...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: Is it normal for couples to have sex in the same position every single time? We only ever have sex in two positions: me on top and him on top. He has no problem having orgasms that way, but I do. He always gives me an orgasm through oral sex but I would like to at least try for one during intercourse. Any suggestions on which positio...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I’m a huge believer in soulmates and “The One’ and the idea that there’s one person out there for me. But some of my friends say this harms my prospects in the long run. Are they right? I want to send my partner a nude photo of myself but every time I take one, it’s unflattering. Do you have any tips? We're also quite interested in f...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My partner of 12 years wants me to ‘peg’ him. I didn’t even know what it was and had to google it. Now I’m worried. Not only don’t I want to do it, I’m worried it secretly means he’s gay. I found out my husband had sex with a hooker on his bachelor’s night just before we got married. What should I do now? That was five years and two...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My husband of 13 years is suddenly wanting to try lots of new things in bed. Even more suspicious, he’s quite good at things I know he’s never done with me. I accused him of having an affair and he says he isn’t but what else could it be? He says he just wants to have more adventurous sex. But why now after all these years of quite b...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My long-term girlfriend wants me to talk dirty in bed but I just can’t bring myself to do it. I feel incredibly self-conscious and have no idea what to say. Can you give me some ideas and please don’t make me sound I’m in an awful porn video. I met a guy online and we’re about to meet in person. I found it really easy chatting and fl...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I find sex at best uncomfortable, at worst outright painful. How do I make it more enjoyable? I have seen my doctor and he doesn’t seem to think there’s anything obviously wrong. We used to kiss all the time but just two years in, it’s all gone. I really miss it. How do I get it back again? We don’t even kiss during sex anymore. Do o...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: My partner and I want to try anal sex for the first time. Can you give us some tips on how to go about it? I don’t want it to hurt. Are there things you can do to make it hurt less? I’ve been seeing a new man for about a month and he still hasn’t made a move. I’m used to men hitting on me on the first date. What’s going on? Does this...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I’ve just started my first relationship with a woman - my others have all been with men. I wonder if you could give me some tips on giving another woman oral sex. I feel like I should know how to do it, because I’ve got what she’s got. But it’s not as easy as I thought. I feel like I’m terrible at it. Sometimes I would do anything to...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I have met a new man and really like him but the sex is OK at best. Is this a bad sign? Doesn’t everyone have great sex at the start? Should you leave if the sex is no good? The husband of a close friend of mine keeps coming onto me. It’s making things very awkward. I am a close friend of both of them and currently single. I’ve been...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: I am 42, have been single for three years, and am starting to think I am never going to meet anyone. Even worse, I know so many other women in the same boat. Why are there so many attractive, accomplished, together single women and no men that fit that description? Where have all the good men gone? I am interested in being polyamorou...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: 1. How can I get my partner to get more kinky? I've tried suggesting things, I've changed positions and he always reverts back to missionary style. I’d love to do it on the table, against the wall. Nothing works for him except in bed, the same way. This is boring! I even told him I have sex toys – he’s not even interested in that. I...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions: 1. I’m married and having an affair with a man who is also married. I know it’s wrong but I’m addicted to the sex. Is it so wrong to continue? Who are we hurting if no one finds out? 2. Ever since I had a baby, sex is painful for me. It’s making me dread sex. I don’t want to talk to my doctor because I’m too embarrassed. 3. I think I...

In this episode, Tracey answers these three questions and offers a signature sex tip: 1. I used to love sex but I’m finding, as I’m getting older, that my confidence is falling. I haven’t felt sexy since I had children and put on weight. I’ve also got lots of stretch marks. My husband tells me I look great but I think he’s just saying that to be nice. What can I do to get my confidence back?...