Self-Helpless

We are joined by Ted X Speaker and Founder of Eat Cute, Alexandra Catalano. Alex opens up about the disordered eating she experienced in her 20s, why and how it manifested, and what steps she took to heal. Plus, the shifts in mindset, habits, and self-worth that have helped her the most. *This content may be difficult for people in recovery.  For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are sharing the different shifts in priorities they’ve experienced from their 20s to 30s. They cover relationships, health, work, money, spirituality, and self-love -- as well as the biggest lessons they’ve learned so far. Plus, the advice they would’ve given themselves in their 20s to save time, energy, and frustration as they navigated such a pivotal decade. For e...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are joined by board certified women’s hormone expert and licensed naturopathic physician, Dr. Jolene Brighten. Dr Brighten covers the signs and symptoms of common hormone imbalances females experience, causes of those imbalances, as well as treatment methods. Tune in to better understand your menstrual cycle, and feel vindicated after years of being dismissed by doc...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are joined by Intuitive Consultant, Jennifer Wai. Jennifer guides all of us through a manifestation ritual that supports you with intention-setting, energetic shifts, and getting decisive about the path you want to choose for yourself. It’s a hot mix of woo-woo and practical tips -- plus an awesome takeaway surrounding the 4 astrological elements. Join us for a symb...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are sharing personal spiritual experiences -- everything from fun coincidences to childhood premonitions. Get ready to hear about some weird ass dreams, overwhelming sensations that propelled them into action, strange events regarding deceased loved ones, and random objects that revealed greater messages. No matter your beliefs, this episode celebrates the excitemen...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are joined by clinical psychologist, Dr. Ramani Durvasula. Dr. Ramani explains the differences between Borderline, Histrionic, Antisocial, and Narcissistic personality disorders, the trauma related to these disorders, effective treatment methods, diagnostic tips for mental health professionals, and patterns of behavior to be aware of if you think that you, or someon...

Delanie Fischer is dishin’ out some of her favorite plant-based swaps for simple, delicious meals and eco-conscious personal care products. Everything from dairy-free ice cream that'll rock your world, the perfect texture of scrambled tofu, to lipstick from brands that don't do horrific tests on animals, and moisturizer with ingredients we can all actually read. The items we purchase changes the w...

Kelsey is joined by comedian, Cy Amundson. Cy talks about being diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, the changes he's made since, and his thoughts on whether or not he’d like to have kids.  For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com See omn...

We are joined by the founder of The Thyroid Health Institute and certified thyroid yogi, Judith Gonzalez. Judith shares how she reversed her Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis using a unique combination of holistic methods, the shocking discovery she’s made about trauma and thyroid health from years of helping people reduce and eliminate their symptoms, why these conditions mostly affect women, and steps you...

Kelsey is joined by comedian, Paul Virzi. Paul opens up about his experience with OCD, depression, and what has helped him cope during the hardest times.  For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www.delaniefischer.com Kelsey: https://www.kelseycook.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy inf...

Delanie Fischer is answering your questions about starting, and growing, a business from scratch -- including where to focus your energy in the beginning phases, how to increase your revenue (without increasing your expenses), who to hire first when you’re ready to delegate, tips for getting visible in the right places for your business, breaking into 6 figures, managing plateaus, and what she wis...

Kelsey is joined by one of her best friends and YouTube travel vlogger, Allison Anderson. They discuss how Allison transitioned from a career in the YouTube beauty space to one in travel, the dos and don'ts of solo travel, how to feel safe when traveling alone, and Allison shares some of her wildest stories.  For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community:...

Delanie is joined by her husband and dog daddy, Cam. They discuss everything from their biggest fight to their best vacation, first impressions of each other, how they split finances, and even spill the beans on what bugs them most about each other. Tune in for the real sh*t they work on in their marriage, how they’ve grown individually and as a couple, and all the sarcasm they could fit into one...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are discussing hangxiety -- the anxiety experienced after alcohol consumption. They're learning the science behind alcohol's impact on anxiety, sharing their favorite tips for preventing (and nursing) a hangover, and swap some personal hangxiety experiences (and very embarrassing drinking stories). Plus, one of them is considering swearing off alcohol forever. For e...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are joined by Dr. Viviana Coles, doctor of marriage and family therapy, certified sex therapist, and featured marriage expert on Lifetime’s hit show, “Married at First Sight.” Dr. Viviana breaks down the 4 intimacy styles that are necessary for a healthy sex life that lasts, offers simple tips for increasing intimacy with your partner, and answers our burning questi...

Delanie Fischer is answering your questions about what life has been like after permanently leaving social media. She describes how it’s impacted her relationships, mental and physical health, professional growth, and how she manages any FOMO that can arise from opting into a social media free lifestyle. Plus, the side effects of leaving that she never saw coming, if she ever plans on going back,...

Delanie Fischer, Kelsey Cook, and Taylor Tomlinson discuss their collective decision, and indecision, around having children. They share how they felt about this topic 5 years ago (when they started the podcast) vs. how they feel now, what experiences and exercises have helped them become more decisive about kids, the variety of FOMO they have, and sooo much more. This is not an episode about the...

We are joined by certified career wedding planner and host of The Big Wedding Planning Podcast, Michelle Martinez. Michelle offers her favorite tips for narrowing down your guest list, simple ways to cut down on costs, what to consider if you're planning an event at your home vs. a third-party venue, how to manage event planning anxiety -- and all the details in between for making your big day roc...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are joined by Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and Clinical Director of Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, Alex Katehakis. Alex explains the differences between sex and love addiction and hypersexuality, shares what role trauma plays in compulsive sexual behavior, and offers practical tips and steps for individuals and couples affected by sex and love addiction...

We are joined by comedian, Josh Wolf, to discuss the importance of loving where you live, getting clear on what's really motivating your decisions, and learning how to be comfortable in your own skin. Plus, the quote that changed Josh's life forever.  For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Delanie: https://www....

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are discussing rumination -- what it is, who is most susceptible to it, the effects it has on human health, and tips for managing it. They also share what triggers their own rumination, as well as their go-to tips and exercises for pulling themselves out of negative thought loops. Tune in to find out why some delicious plant-based sausage sent one of them into an ex...

This week, we are joined by educator and community facilitator, Trevia Woods. Trevia supports people by building powerful healing practices and traditions without culturally or spiritually appropriating. During this episode, Trevia shares the difference between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation -- as well as the complexity of cultural exchange, common examples of cultural appropriat...

This week, we are joined by Certified Grief Recovery Specialist and founder of the Overcoming The Fear Of Death Foundation, Kelvin Chin. Kelvin shares about his near-death experience, what happens in the human body when we experience anxiety around death and dying, and provides practical tips for managing the fear of death (including both short-term and long-term methods). Whether you suffer from...

Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook discuss toxic productivity -- what it is and who it affects, the signs you might be experiencing it, and tips for managing it. Plus, their personal experiences with toxic productivity as chronic overachievers, and favorite hacks for breaking the cycle and incorporating more rest and play.  For exclusive rewards, and to influence content for the show, join our Patreo...

This week, we are joined by licensed marriage and family therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah, who specializes in providing trauma-informed, culturally sensitive therapy. Nadirah educates us on all things PTSD -- the symptoms, whose at risk for it, how it develops, treatment options, and the ways it can affect both adults and children. Plus, learn a supportive way to approach and encourage a loved one w...