Pleasure in the Pause: Midlife Conversations About Menopause, Sex & Pleasure

Have you ever felt completely absorbed in an activity where everything flows effortlessly and time seems to disappear? That's what psychologists call flow state, a sense of being fully present and alive in the moment. Now imagine tapping into that same state to transform your intimacy and connection with your partner.  In today's episode with Dr. Emily Jamea, we uncover the fascinating s...

Have you ever sat in a doctor's office feeling dismissed when explaining your symptoms? or leave an appointment with more questions and answers? This is a familiar story for so many women, especially in midlife. But what if I told you there's someone who understands the struggle and has dedicated her life to empowering women to take charge of their health? Today, we're talking to Dr...

Have all the headlines about hormone replacement therapy left you feeling confused or unsure about whether it's right for you? You are not alone. For years, mixed messages have made it difficult for women to feel confident in their choices around HRT. But today, I've brought in the perfect expert to help us separate fact from fiction.  Today we'll explore what HRT really is, who it...

Have you ever stopped to consider how the stories we inherit about love, sexuality, and self-worth shape who we become today? We're diving into that very question with a woman who's been on a journey of peeling back the narratives handed down from her mother and how she's rewriting them on her own terms. My guest this week, Tara Ellison, writes about midlife, menopause, sex and rela...

Have you ever wondered if there's a whole new level of intimacy waiting for you, one that transcends the routines and rhythms you've come to know? Imagine stepping into an experience of pleasure and connection that's as transformative as it is intentional, where intimacy isn't just about the physical, but a pathway to deeper self discovery and a more profound connection with yo...

What if the greatest transformation of your life is still ahead of you? Imagine if the emotional, physical and spiritual challenges of midlife were actually the gateway to unlocking your deepest power, purpose and pleasure. Today, I'm thrilled to be joined by Ashley Turner, licensed psychotherapist and renowned yoga and meditation expert. Ashley will talk to us about how the mental and emotio...

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, I just don't feel like myself anymore? If so, you are not alone. The good news is this doesn't have to be your new normal. In today's episode, we'll explore what's really behind that feeling and show you that there is a way forward with the right support, medical care and lifestyle practices, you can reconnect with yourself, reclaim...

Do you see menopause as a beginning? Or as an ending? Can you see it as a dynamic transformation from one version of yourself to another? My guest today, Omisade Burney-Scott, believes menopause is more than a physical experience and every person has a unique story to tell. This week, episode 29 of Pleasure in the Pause is about embracing menopause as a transformative journey!  In this episode of...

Let's be honest, if you're going through menopause you might be wondering, “did my desire just hit the pause button?” But here's the thing: it hasn't gone anywhere. It's still there waiting for you to discover it in new ways. Today we're diving into how menopause can shift desire and how you can spark it back up no matter what changes your body is going through. Get r...

Are you ready to rock menopause from the inside out? What if I told you that thriving through menopause isn't just about managing symptoms, but about healing; starting with your gut and doing some deep inner work. Today’s guest Esther Blum is here to talk about how you can transform your gut health, reclaim your power and navigate menopause like a total rock star. This week, episode 27 of Ple...

Have you ever wished you could find a doctor you feel totally comfortable talking to about every aspect of your health, especially during the menopause transition? Someone who not only understands the science, but who truly gets what you're going through on an emotional and personal level. Dr. Jessica Shepherd is that girlfriend doctor for many, sharing her compassionate practice on the Today...

Have you ever wondered why something as universal as menopause, a transition that every woman will experience, remains such a silent topic? Why do millions of women face this life stage feeling isolated, underprepared, and unheard? Our guest today, filmmaker and menopause advocate Denise Pines, is spearheading a movement to shred the silence of menopause with her new documentary! This week, episod...

Have you ever stopped and wondered who you really are? Not the roles you play, the titles you carry or the expectations others have placed on you, but the true, unfiltered version of yourself beneath it all? And when was the last time you really listened to that voice inside who knows who you are without all the noise. If that question feels uncomfortable or maybe you're not sure how to answe...

Are you starting to feel the buzz and energy behind that back to school and work feeling? September arrives, your mind starts getting ahead of you and before you know it, the summertime pleasures and connection to your body and those sexy, intimate moments shared with your partner feel like a snapshot in time. But instead of back to school, what asbout back to pleasure? How can you make room for a...

Ignorance is not bliss when it comes to your sexual anatomy. There is so little we've been taught about our sexual anatomy, and when we begin to experience the changes of perimenopause or menopause, we are forced to confront our internalized shame, silence and ignorance about this amazing part of our bodies. In this episode, I'm going to talk to you about how getting to know our vulvas c...

Do you find it difficult to talk to your doctor about your sexual health? Where do you even begin finding the right doctor who will listen? And how can you empower yourself with the knowledge to understand your own sexual anatomy so you can advocate for yourself in the doctor's office and in the bedroom? Dr. Rachel Rubin is on a mission to change the landscape of sexual medicine and sexual ed...

Do you know what season of your menopause journey you're currently in? I know it can feel like an eternal hot summer on some days, and like a cold winter where you want to turn inward and hibernate on others. My guest today, Kate Codrington, has a beautiful way of mapping out your journey according to each season of the year with nourishing self care practices, reflections and journaling prom...

I believe that inside every human being is a need to feel closer and connected with both ourselves and the ones we love. But often there are physical, emotional, and cultural obstacles that get in the way of these meaningful connections. Today, Dr. Sadaf is going to help us explore the beautiful topic of intimacy and how we can meet ourselves and our partners in that space of fulfilling heart-to-h...

Have you ever been to a doctor who has written up a prescription for pleasure to help you heal whatever is ailing you? Today’s guest, Dr. Dee Hartmann, has developed a revolutionary set of pleasure prescriptions to help you heal sexual pain. As a pioneer in the field of physical therapy and pelvic health, Dee has co-authored the book 'The Pleasure Prescription: A Surprising Approach to Healin...

Are you ready to rewrite the narrative of aging and make menopause your superpower? My special guest this week is Rebekah Brown, visionary founder of the co-creation community Liminal, a brand dedicated to helping women "meno-well" through innovative products and education. Rebekah shares her personal journey from being crippled by anxiety during perimenopause to creating a multi-award w...

Are you neglecting a simple practice that could save your life? Learn how to perform a quick and easy breast self-exam that empowers you to detect potential issues early. This video guide is a must-watch for all women, especially those under 45. Understand why breast self-exams matter Master the step-by-step technique Learn how to "know your normal" Discover tips to make it a habit Recog...

For more resources on midlife pleasure and wellness, visit: https://pleasureinthepause.com In this eye-opening episode of Pleasure in the Pause, I sit down with Dr. Maria Uloko, a trailblazing urologist revolutionizing the field of comprehensive sexual health. We dive deep into the often overlooked world of vulvar health and its crucial connection to our overall well-being. Dr. Uloko shares her po...

Did you know that your pelvic floor affects everything from your sexual pleasure to your overall health? Join me as I chat with Kim Vopni, The Vagina Coach, about this often-overlooked aspect of women's wellness. Welcome to Pleasure in the Pause, where we explore how to reconnect with our bodies and reclaim our power through perimenopause, menopause, and beyond. In this episode, Kim and I div...

As the temperatures rise, do you find yourself hiding your body instead of celebrating it? You're not alone. Many midlife women struggle with body image, especially during swimsuit season. But it's time to change that narrative! Hey there, I'm Gabriella Espinosa, your Midlife and Sexual Wellness Coach, and today we're diving deep into body confidence for the bedroom and beyond!...

Today we're exploring a topic that's often shrouded in taboo and secrecy, but is essential for our well-being: how to start a self-pleasure practice. If you're feeling disconnected from your body, craving a deeper connection with your pleasure, or simply curious about exploring self-pleasure, this video is for you. We'll break down the barriers and myths surrounding self-pleasu...