MYBREATHINGMIND

You've been told that turning inward is a luxury. That self-reflection is navel-gazing, something to get to once the "real" work is done. So you push through, optimize, and keep going—and somewhere along the way, you start running on empty. But what if burnout was never the actual problem? What if it's just the symptom of something deeper—something that started long before your job, and quietly sh...

There's a particular kind of erosion that happens when you make enough promises to yourself and don't keep them. This episode is about what's actually happening when that occurs—and the three things that rebuild it. Find out why you're still exhausted: mybreathingmind.com . My Breathing Mind Podcast is created for professionals navigating stress, burnout, and the journey back to themselves. All ep...

When you're stressed, the standard advice is to reduce what's on your plate. And sometimes that's the right call. But if you've ever found yourself cutting things back, only to end up in the same place a few months later—this episode is for you. There's a simple way to look at stress that most people haven't seen laid out clearly. Once you see it, it changes what you pay attention to—and what you...

We talk about boundaries constantly—but most of what we hear focuses on self-care, people-pleasing, or learning to prioritize yourself. In this episode, I want to offer a completely different lens. One that reframes why boundaries are hard, what's actually at stake when we don't hold them, and why the answer might have less to do with assertiveness than you think. Find out why you're still exhaust...

Somewhere along the way, sensitivity became something to hide — especially at work. But what if that framing is exactly backwards? In this episode, we look at what sensitivity actually is (not what we've been told it is), why certain environments systematically train it out of people, and what gets lost when that happens. If you've ever been told you're too perceptive, too tuned in, or that you fe...

You've been taught to trust the research, follow the data, and defer to the experts. And most of the time, that's reasonable advice. But there's a type of data most of us have been quietly trained to leave out of the equation—and it's the one that's most specific to you. In this episode, we look at why we default to external answers even when they can't actually give us what we're looking for, and...

Most of us were taught that some feelings are acceptable and others need to be managed, minimized, or explained away. This episode looks at what that habit actually costs us, why the popular framing of "emotional regulation" may be backfiring for a lot of people, and what it looks like to treat your emotions as information instead of problems to solve. No toxic positivity. No reframes. Just a more...

Most people would say they know their worth. And they mean it. But somewhere between the culture that tells you to bring your whole self to work and the feedback you've been told to receive as a gift — something quietly shifts. This episode is about that shift, how it happens, and what it costs you before you even notice. Find out why you're still exhausted and your biggest area for relief at mybr...

There's a skill that helped you get where you are. It's also the reason you're running on empty. In this episode, we're talking about what actually drives burnout — and it's not what most people think. It's not a lack of boundaries, better time management, or learning to say no. It's something you've been trained to do so well, for so long, that you've stopped noticing you're doing it. And the lon...

We live in the golden age of answers. Google, Reddit, experts, AI — there's always somewhere to look. But what happens when we get so good at looking outward that we stop being able to hear ourselves? This episode digs into one of the quieter costs of modern life: outsourcing not just the practical stuff, but our judgment, our feelings, our sense of what's actually right for us. It shows up in dec...

Introduction Burnout isn't something we typically prevent—most of us only recognize it once we're already experiencing it. This episode explores burnout as more than temporary stress or fatigue, but as a serious cumulative condition affecting our psychological and physical wellbeing. As Christina Maslach defines it, burnout is "an erosion of the soul caused by the deterioration of one's values, di...

Episode Summary This episode tackles the visceral discomfort many high-achievers feel when confronted with the concept of "self-love." Rather than dismissing this reaction, we examine its origins and offer a perspective shift: self-love isn't about adding another task to your already full plate - it's about changing how you approach everything already on it. Discover how reframing self-love as sel...

Episode 88: Why Do We Struggle with Self-Compassion Despite Caring for Others? Episode Summary In this episode, we explore why many of us find it easier to show compassion to others than to ourselves. The key insight centers on perspective - we can see others objectively as part of their environment, but we lack that same distance when viewing ourselves. Learn how to create the perspective needed...

Episode Summary Where did you learn to love yourself? For most of us, this question is surprisingly difficult to answer. In this episode, we explore how our earliest experiences shape our capacity for self-love, the myth that self-love reflects our worthiness, and why our ability to care for ourselves has everything to do with what we learned and nothing to do with how lovable we are. Discover how...

Episode Summary In this episode, we explore how we've been taught to treat our souls like companies that need constant optimization and productivity. This mindset leads to "overfunctioning" - taking on excessive responsibility and deriving our worth from productivity. I share why this approach contradicts our natural human rhythms, the toll it takes on our wellbeing, and a simple experiment to hel...

In this episode, we dive into something that impacts everyone's lives: stress. Over the years, I've realized that part of fostering self-love is knowing the difference between helpful and harmful stress, especially given our contradictory cultural messaging around performance. In this episode: The myth that all stress is essentially the same How beneficial stress (eustress) differs fundamentally f...

Think of a trait that you don't like about yourself - something deemed "bad," too vulnerable to show, or not accepted by others. We all have these parts, and we've learned to cast them out, repress them, or tuck them away in the shadows. In this episode: Why rejecting parts of ourselves creates inner division How shadow work isn't about eliminating darkness but understanding its role The perspecti...

We live in an over-consumption culture where the modern human seems caught in an endless cycle of wanting more - whether it's shopping, social media, information, food, or experiences. But what drives this constant hunger? In this episode: The underlying belief that we don't have enough How physical hunger differs from emotional, mental, and spiritual hunger Why we use substitutes that can't truly...

The episode challenges the very concept of "executive presence," predicting its eventual demise in the corporate lexicon. Why do leaders covet it and managers attempt to teach it when most struggle to define it? The answer lies in our tendency to focus on the external manifestations rather than the internal foundation. Rather than offering formulaic advice on body language or vocal techniques, thi...

We're kicking off Season 9 and peeling back the layers of self-love beyond the social media-worthy indulgence and pampering. Throughout my coaching practice, I've noticed a common thread weaving through clients' distress - the reluctance to acknowledge their basic needs. In this first episode of our self-love season, we explore why having needs doesn't make you needy. In this episode: Why many of...

Episode Summary In this season finale exploring purpose and meaning, we dive into the surprising truth about procrastination. Rather than being a simple time management issue, procrastination often signals something deeper—we're avoiding the emotions associated with specific tasks. This episode introduces a three-level framework for understanding time management, revealing why tactical tools and e...

A myth, a block, and shift to better understanding how best to use comparison as a tool to serve your purpose

 A myth, a block, and a shift to take your well-being to the next level.

Exploring a myth, a block, and a shift to experiencing inner power. 

Exploring a myth, a block, and a shift to make sense of our purpose when it changes.