Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

From episode #57 with Dexter Kendrick. More from that episode: - Dexter introduces himself - Eastern Medicine vs Western Medicine - Penis heath - Fertility and conception - Changing your diet for sexual health - Prostate health - Mediumship and sexuality - Telling people about their future - Practicing Chinese Medicine as a Black man

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Sureya Leonara. Sureya is a Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach and Writer. She is on a mission to change the world through healing and liberating sexuality, the seed of our creation, in a way that permeates every area of our lives, not just the bedroom. With eloquence, depth, playfulness, unconventional insight, and penetrating intuition, she cata...

From episode #56 with Lauren White. More from that episode: Lauren shares the evolution of her message What does it mean to be sexually confident? The way we talk about masturbation and sex The problem with being “good in bed” Embodying your pleasure Learning to communicate Comfortability and sexual confidence Your body is a playground Advice for women Advice for men

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I discuss and debunk some of the major claims made by semen retention practitioners. I also share some opinions about semen retention as well as my own personal experiences and the approach I take with clients. Key Points: - Testosterone - Depression - Zinc - Nutrition - The body - Premature aging Relevant links: Cam's blog: https://cam-fraser.com/blog/

From episode #55 with Asa Baav. More from that episode: - Asa shares about her agency, Tailor Matched - Matchmaking vs Coaching - What is sexual compatibility? - Collecting information about our sexual desires - Approaching conversations about sexual function - Dating: Don’t waste your time - Who is using matchmaking services? - Expanding the dating pool - The stigma of using a matchmaking service...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Daz Alexandra Tendler (she/they/he). Daz is a sex-and-body-positive sexologist holding membership with the Society of Australian Sexologists. With an understanding that everyone’s sexual and relationship desires and needs are unique and diverse, she ensures her non-judgemental and compassionate practice focuses foremost on individual well-being. Daz...

From episode #54 with Shaft Uddin. More from that episode: - Shaft introduces himself as the “Wim Hof of Tantra” - Portraying Tantra in the mainstream media - Living in the Tantra bubble - Lineages and finding your own path - Shaft’s personal daily practice - What is an injaculation? - Conscious ejaculation and consecration - Ejaculation shaming and non-ejaculatory orgasm - What does a non-ejacula...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jo Milios, Ph. D. Jo is a Physiotherapist with a special interest in Men’s Health, Yoga, and Pilates. Since establishing a Men’s Health service in 2005, she has treated over 3000 prostatectomy patients, over 500 chronic pelvic pain patients, and 100’s of men with Erectile Dysfunction. Among achievements such as delivering Men’s Health courses to Phys...

From episode #53 with Ginger Jen. More from that episode: - Ginger shares some of her story - Ginger explains what ADHD is - Strategies for getting into your body - How do people with ADHD express their sexuality? - ADHD and sexual rejection - Communicating with a partner who has ADHD - ADHD and high risk sexual behaviour - Ginger shares about her diagnosis with ADHD - The intersection of escortin...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Tyson Adams. Tyson is a trauma-informed IFS men’s coach, somatic bodyworker, and psychedelic facilitator. After spending 20 years addicted to pornography, he outgrew it seven years ago and has found his passion and purpose in helping other men master their lifeforce energy. He also co-facilitates men’s work leadership intensives and works with couple...

From episode #52, a solo episode with just Cam. More from that episode: Introduction to and intentions for the conversation I understand the harm some porn has caused Anti-Porn vs Pro-Porn vs Anti-Anti-Porn What is porn? The problem with definitions The problem with the “porn is a drug” analogy Thought experiment: Where do you draw the line Operation Spanner and private sex groups Mainstream vs Et...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Peter White from Bondimedical. Dr. White has over ten years experience treating patients in his practice, using non-invasive orthopaedic medical devices to improve confidence and quality of life. He has successfully treated numerous conditions, including Peyronie’s disease, side effects from urological surgery, and male enhancement. Key points: -...

From episode #51 with Dr. Joe Kort. More from that episode: - Dr. Kort shares about his practice as a therapist - Heteroflexible and homoflexible - Discussing Jane Ward’s book, Not Gay - Bisexual erasure - Queering heterosexuality - “Your anus doesn’t have a sexual orientation” - Fragile masculinity - Working with couples in therapy - Wives’ experiences with heteroflexible men - Sexual fluidity fo...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Judson Brandeis. Dr. Brandies has been voted Top Urologist in the San Francisco Bay Area by San Francisco Magazine from 2014 to 2020. In February 2019, he opened his office in San Ramon, where he focuses his practice entirely on Men’s Sexual Health and Rejuvenation. Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and cr...

From episode #50 with Emily Claire. More from that episode: - Emily shares about her journey from Law to Tantra - Mentoring with John Wineland - Healing your relationship with men - A woman’s experience working with men - Mix-gendered spaces: Learning from other genders - “Fuck and Kill to Consciousness” - What are men’s natural desires? - Integrating the animal part of ourselves - Masculine and F...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I share an audio recording of one of my sexuality seminars. The title of this sexuality seminar is, "Presence and Masculine Sexuality. If you're interested in learning more, head to my website and check out what else I have on offer. Key points: - Who am I? - What do I mean by "presence"? - Practical tools for being more present - What does &q...

From episode #49 with Johnathan White. More from that episode: - Johnathan shares about his teachings - Creating your own personal practice - Learning to listen to your body - Your first non-ejaculatory ogasm - Techniques for non-ejaculatory orgasms - Mantak Chia’s “Million Dollar Point” technique - Obsessing over and redefining orgasm - The importance of non-sexual practices - Semen retention and...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist, certified sex therapist, founder of the therapy practice Modern Intimacy, and host of the Get Naked with Dr. Kate podcast. She helps people live more fulfilled lives by shattering stigma and erasing shame. Key Points: - Kate introduces herself - Inequalities in emotional labour - Ad...

From episode #48 with Tyran Mowbray. More from that episode: - Tyran shares some of his story - What men talk about when they get together - The flaws in taking back your power - Men in the sexuality space - “Fellahs, is it gay to talk about having sex with women?” - Being a conscious man in a relationship - Saying “No” and asserting boundaries - Men can’t be raped

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Chad Braverman. Chad is the CCO and COO of Doc Johnson, a billion dollar sex toy company founded by his father in 1976. Chad has propelled Doc Johnson into the spotlight with cutting-edge technology and products. He is challenging societal norms and transforming the sex toy industry which is often shrouded in secrecy. Key Points: - Chad introduces hi...

From episode #47 with Dr. Martha Tara Lee. More from that episode: - Martha shares about her studies and travels - How Martha’s work is received in Singapore - Singaporean culture and sexuality - Working with “Asian cultural values” in sex therapy - The stigma of being an Asian woman sex therapist - Ancient Eastern sexual practices - Who is teaching Tantra and Neotantra? - Using Asian culture to m...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ella D’Aloia. Ella is a holistic sex coach, specialising in female sexuality, a yoni massage therapist and registered nurse. Ella's mission in life is to connect women back to their bodies, sexuality and pleasure. She is also deeply passionate about working with men in this space, educating them on female bodies, pleasure and menstrual cycles. Ke...

From episode #46 with Georgia Grace. More from that episode: - Georgia shares about her work - Being in a sex-positive bubble - Managing boundaries and online harassment - Innovative sex-tech and new products - The Arcwave Ion and Pleasure Air™ Technology - Changing the way men masturbate - Using sex toys to enhance pleasure - Outdated science about sexuality - Updating understandings about male p...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure I chat with Tyson LaRone. Tyson is a Martial Arts Instructor, Strongman competitor and Monster Energy Drink Enthusiast who TikToks about politics, history, philosophy, society and generally trying to affect positive change however he can. Key points: - Tyson introduces himself - Parenting philosophies - Validating emotions in parenting and martial arts instructio...

From episode #45 with Dominick Quartuccio. Key Points from that episode: - Dominick shares some of this story - The final straw before rehab - Sex Addicts Anonymous - Is sex addiction real? - Defining addiction and relapse - Religion and negative attitudes towards sex - Reframing your relationship with sex - Talking to men about sex