Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Pharrell Shaymar. Pharrell is a professional boxing coach, proud trans man, and LGBTQ+ advocate and community leader. Pharrell uses the prism of boxing through advocacy, breaking down barriers, educational videos, and breaking stereo types of trans people in combat sports. His key message is, "I will never become biologically male, but I am a ge...

From the solo episode #69 with Cam Fraser. More from that episode: - The stigmatization of male sex toys - Celebrating men’s self-pleasuring - Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Couples Vibrator - We-Vibe X Lovehoney Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator - Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator - Blowmotion Warming Pulsating Vibrating Male Masturbator - Blowmotion Real Feel Vibrating Male Ma...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dave Booda. Dave is a writer, musician and social entrepreneur. He is the co-founder of IntimacyFest and hosts The Darkness Experiment. He has led over 450 workshops on connection, touch and relationships and has consulted for and facilitated experiences for companies, communities, retreats, festivals, conferences, birthday parties, orgies, weddings,...

From episode #68 with Danny Lakey. More from that episode: - Danny shares about his career on radio - Showing up authentically - Australian men and our drinking culture - Sobriety and masculinity - Altered states of consciousness - Experiencing the divine feminine - Stigma about psychedelics and sex - Combining sex with psychedelics - Danny shares some advice

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Mattia Zambaldi. Mattia guides men through processes of deep transformation and soul emergence. He is a firm believer that evolution is at its core a process of initiation which requires the alignment of mind, heart and body - including free and authentic sexual expression. His coaching method is a unique blend of western science, eastern wisdom and...

From episode #67 with Manu Paradiso. More from that episode: - Manu shares about his story and his passion - Discussing approaches to coaching men - Personal sexual turning points - The line between sexualization and objectification - Having intention with sexual energy - Being honest about your intentions - Listening to your “Yes” - Advice for men interested in this work

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Bryan Reeves. A former US Air Force Captain, Bryan is now an internationally renowned Author and Life/Relationship Coach with a current focus on supporting men to have better lives and relationships. His viral blog has been read by over 50 million people in every country on the planet (except North Korea). He’s the co-founder of "Elevate Your Re...

From episode #66 with Lauren French. More from that episode: - What is an Acknowledgement of Country? - Comprehensive Sexuality Education - The importance of Media and Porn Literacy - Creating safe spaces for kids to learn - Language and terminology - Lauren shares about her family and lineage - Intergenerational trauma and loss of culture - Sex- and pleasure-positivity - Fear, masculinity and mas...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Stefanie Iris Weiss, a New York City-based writer, certified clinical sexologist, and professional astrologer in private practice for two decades. A pleasure activist and author of ten books, Stefanie writes about sex, politics, the environment, and astrology. The core of her work focuses on sexuality, somatics, sustainability, and the stars, subject...

From episode #65 with Alicia Brown. More from that episode: - Alicia shares about her motivation for sharing sexuality information - Learning good communication skills - Talking about sex both online and offline - Sex education for Aboriginal and Torres Straight Islander communities - Terminology, Nations and language groups - Connecting with community and traditions - Whose Country are you on? -...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Jordin Wiggins. Jordin is a Naturopathic Doctor, Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, and author. She teaches high-achieving, successful women how to be as badass in the bedroom and relationships as they are in business. She is the CEO of the Pleasure Collective, a coaching community for women reclaiming their pleasure as well as the host of The Pleasu...

From episode #64 with Bek Antonucci. More from that episode: - Bek shares about her personal story - Living with herpes - The stigma of STIs - Normalizing conversations about sexual health - Talking about sex online - Intention vs impact - Sister wounds and brother wounds - “What do men need to know?” - Attention seeking - Advice for being a sexually embodied person on the internet

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with author and men’s coach GS Youngblood. He wrote a book titled “The Masculine in Relationship”, which offers a model called the Masculine Blueprint for men to become grounded in their own power and more relational with their Feminine partner. The premise of his work is that many relationship problems are actually rooted in a lack of Relational Masculin...

From episode #63 wit Betty Martin. More from that episode: - Betty shares about her career - The inception of The Wheel of Consent - Giving/Receiving and Doing/Done-To - The four quadrants - The 3 Minute Game - Learning how to take pleasure - You can’t make someone surrender - Practical advice for men using The Wheel

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jenna Love. Jenna has been a sex worker in Australia for over a decade, mostly as an independent full service sex worker and online adult content creator, but also with experience in brothels and massage parlours. She is the President of Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association, and is the co-host and Producer of sex industry podcast Some...

From episode #62 with Julieta Chiara. More from that episode: - Julieta shares some of her journey - Sexuality related career pathways - Discovering your authentic sexual self - Sex industry expectations and assumptions - Introducing kink and BDSM - Male submission and surrender - Male dominance and assertiveness - Creating safety to sexually explore - Experimenting with power play - Tantra and Sh...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Destin Gerek. Destin is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International. Destin is a globally recognized coach in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is the author of the best-selling book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and the One She Craves and the creator of the film Seductive...

From episode 61 with Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar. More from that episode: - Lindsey, Katie and Sugar share the origin story of Clit Talk - Competition vs collaboration - Polyamory, jealousy and compersion - You can’t fulfill all your partner’s needs - What is a pleasure-positive lifestyle? - Pleasure practices and advice - How can women get their men to open up? - Stop coaching your partner - An unf...

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Moshe Weizman. Moshe is a certified men’s sex coach, specializing in Sexological Bodywork. Since 2018, has served as the catalyst for many men to discover more fulfilling sexual lives. Guiding them through overcoming insecurities, lasting longer, and unlocking mind-blowing full-body orgasms. His unique approach combines traditional Taoist sexual tech...

From episode #60 with Amanda Biccum. More from that episode: - Amanada shares about her work with men - What is “Men’s Work?” - Single gender and mixed gender containers - Listening to men’s stories - Holding space for you partner’s insecurity - Moving sexual energy with a partner - Rigidity kills polarity - Understanding the feminine - Practice asserting your boundaries

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Shaun Pickering. Shaun is an Archetypal guide to couples, a sovereign birth guide for men, and also a mentor/coach. He helps men understand where they’re are at in terms of being a pillar in the birth space, as well as helping men build a plan to empower them in the birth space. He is also the host of the Birthspace Brotherhood podcast. Key points: -...

From episode #59 with Dex Parker. More from that episode: - Dex shares about his journey - What is sex work? - Experiences of a male sex worker - Erotic content creation - Alternative expressions of male sexuality - Discussing pornography - Advice for exploring your sexuality

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Oli Jenkinson. Oli embarked on his Breathwork journey over 5 years ago amidst the stress of his corporate job, discovering its power to activate his parasympathetic nervous system. Through intuitive exploration and formal training in Bali, he delved deeper into Conscious Connected Breathing, experiencing profound emotional releases that transformed h...

From episode #58 with Yuval Mann. More from that episode: - Yuval talks about his life journey - Orthodox Judaism and sexuality - Relationship with God - Defining sacredness - Overcoming sexual blockages - How transformation happens - Push vs Pull - “Good” stress and excitement - Emotional regulation - Working with single men

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Gabriella de Mori. Gabriella is a registered counsellor with a Masters Degree in Counselling who thrives on coaching women from emotional overwhelm to self-confidence so they learn to trust themselves to take care of their inner world with grace. Based in Fremantle, Perth she operates a successful private practice offering a variety of dynamic and ho...