Let's Talk About Love, Sex & Infidelity

Hi everyone! In today's special episode, I'm diving deep into how EMDR therapy can help heal the profound trauma of infidelity.  As someone who's worked with thousands of couples dealing with infidelity, I'm excited to share how this powerful therapeutic approach can transform both the betrayed and betraying partners.  I'm also joined by my colleague Mary Eason, an expert...

Hi! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the seven signs of unhealed relationship trauma. Drawing from my years of experience helping couples heal and transform their relationships, I'll guide you through these crucial indicators that might be affecting your ability to form and maintain healthy connections. In this episode, you'll discover: - How to ident...

Hi everyone, I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode, I dive deep into the four types of trauma that can significantly impact our ability to form and maintain healthy relationships. Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I'll help you understand how abandonment, rejection, betrayal, and humiliation traumas shape our current relationships and what we can do to be...

In today's deeply personal episode, I dive into the complex connection between childhood trauma and intimacy struggles. As both a couples therapist and trauma specialist, I've seen firsthand how our early experiences shape our ability to form deep, meaningful connections.  I share my own journey of overcoming defensive patterns in my marriage and explain how childhood experiences influen...

In this powerful episode, I dive deep into how couples can experience post-traumatic growth after infidelity - yes, you read that right!  While infidelity often leads to PTSD, I've witnessed countless couples in my practice who've not only healed but emerged stronger through this challenging journey.  I'll share my expertise on how to transform trauma into an opportunity for profoun...

Hi everyone, Todd Creager here. In today's powerful episode, I dive deep into one of the most challenging aspects of healing after infidelity: managing triggers as a couple. Drawing from my years of experience working with couples, I answer the five most crucial questions about triggers that both betrayed and betraying partners frequently ask. In this episode, you'll discover: - Why trig...

Hi everyone, this is Todd Creager. In today's episode, I dive deep into answering your most pressing questions about rebuilding emotional connection after infidelity. Having worked with countless couples navigating the aftermath of betrayal, I know how challenging this journey can be. I'll share practical insights on developing emotional muscle, mastering attunement, and embracing vulner...

Hi there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this powerful episode of Let’s Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I address one of the most challenging aspects of healing from infidelity - how to take responsibility without drowning in shame.  If you're someone who has betrayed your partner and is working to rebuild trust and heal your relationship, this episode is especially for you. I div...

In today's powerful episode of Let's Talk about Love, Sex and Infidelity, Expert Todd Creager is diving deep into the heart-wrenching experience of healing after infidelity. If you've ever felt lost, hurt, and overwhelmed after discovering your partner's betrayal, this episode is your lifeline. I'll be answering the top five questions I hear from clients struggling to navi...

In today's special episode of the Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity Podcast, I am sharing a special episode. I want to talk  about something really important - celebrating yourself, especially during the holidays when things might not feel so festive. Let's be real: the holidays aren't always magical for everyone. Maybe you've experienced tough family memories, rece...

Hey there! I'm Todd Creager, and in this eye-opening episode, I'm diving deep into the fascinating world of attachment styles and how your childhood experiences might be secretly influencing your relationship patterns - including the potential for infidelity. Ever wondered why you struggle with intimacy or keep finding yourself in the same relationship challenges? Get ready for some seri...

Welcome, everyone! In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," I'm diving deep into a topic that's close to my heart: how to create safe communication after infidelity.  As someone who's worked with countless couples navigating this challenging terrain, I've gathered some powerful insights to share with you. Here's what you can expect fr...

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's more relevant than ever in our modern world: Is cheating different in the digital age? In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore how technology has changed the landscape of relationships and fidelity. Here's what you can expect from this ey...

 In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're going to explore the fine line between harmless interactions and potentially harmful behavior in relationships. Ever wondered if you're making a mountain out of a molehill when it comes to your partner's interactions with others? Or maybe you're questioning if your own actions might be crossi...

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." As we approach Thanksgiving, I want to dive into a topic that's close to my heart and crucial for our relationships: gratitude. In this episode, we'll explore the power of thankfulness, especially during challenging times. As someone...

In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're diving into a topic that I deal with every day in my practice: micro-cheating and its impact on relationships. Ever wondered how those small, seemingly harmless actions can lead to major relationship problems? In this episode, I'll be exploring the slippery slope of micro-cheating and why it's more...

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been generating a lot of buzz lately: micro-cheating.  In this episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity," we're exploring the seven signs of micro-cheating that could be affecting your relationship without you even realizing it. As a relationship expert who's worked with...

I'm excited to dive into a topic that's been catching a lot of attention lately: micro-cheating. In this of the Let's Talk About Love, Sex and Infidelity podcast, we're going to explore what micro-cheating really means and why it matters in our relationships.  Trust me, this is a conversation you won't want to miss! Here's what you can expect from this episode: Discov...

Welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and today we're wrapping up our seven-part series on healing infidelity with an exciting topic: taking your relationship to the next level.  In this episode, we'll explore the concept of post-traumatic growth and how couples can not only survive infidelity but emerge stronger an...

 Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: addressing those inevitable triggers that pop up during the recovery process. After 42 years of helping couples navigate the choppy waters of infidelity, I've seen it all. Today, I'm sharin...

In this episode we're diving into a crucial topic in our healing infidelity journey - healing the betrayer. Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should we focus on the person who caused all this pain?" But trust me, it's a vital piece of the puzzle for true relationship restoration. In this episode, we're going to explore: • Why it's essential for the betrayer...

Have you ever wondered why some people cheat while others stay faithful?  In this episode of Let's Talk About Love Sex and Infidelity I reveal the surprising connection between attachment styles and infidelity. You'll discover: • The #1 attachment style that makes people more likely to cheat • How childhood experiences shape adult relationships  • Why "once a cheater, always a cheat...

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and I'm excited to share with you our latest episode of "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." Today, we're diving into a topic that I'm sure many of you can relate to: shifting your relationship from a parent-child dynamic to an adult-adult partnership.  In this episode, I'll be sharing some valuable insights on: How to...

Welcome to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." I'm your host, Todd Creager, and in this episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: supporting and healing the betrayed partner. If you've been hurt by infidelity, or you're trying to help someone who has, this episode is for you. We'll explore: • Why blaming yourself...

Hey there, it's Todd Creager, and welcome back to "Let's Talk About Love, Sex, and Infidelity." In today's episode, we're diving deep into a crucial aspect of healing from infidelity: understanding attachment styles and their connection to childhood experiences. Ever wondered why some people are more prone to infidelity or struggle to heal after being betrayed? The an...