Kinky Frame of Mind

Episode 89 - Profile don'ts - In this episode the duo looks at things they dont like to see on profiles and why, Don discuses things like discrete, drama free, and his big one HWP. Syn chimes in on her views of these things also. They talk about your profile is your selling card and you get just a few seconds to win a new visit.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   Get all your...

Episode 88 - Podbash Review - In this episode we talk about our trip to Secrets for PODBASH! We discuss all the sexy fun, costumes, pool games, and the amazing parties!  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com   Then Check u...

Episode 87 - Preparing for events - In this episode Don and Syn talk about preparing for big events as they get ready to leave for podbash! They discuss packing, going over rules, expectations, communication. Being prepared for events help make the more successful   Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get...

Episode 86 - Why are you not more Romantic? - In this Episode Don and Syn talk about why people are romantic and not romantic. We discuss why we think men and women are different a lot of times in their views of Romance. Syn talk about how she is a Romantic person and Don is not as much. Don discuss how he thinks how he sees things effects that.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mi...

Episode 85 - How to Bring the lifestyle up! - Don and Syn look at one of the Most popular questions asked to both of them. How do I get my partner interested in the lifestyle or how do i bring it up, This is always a tricky question and we look at it a few different ways, we discuss again how we fell into the lifestyle. We this discuss a plan to get you ready and have the most success.  Check out...

Episode 84 - Cheating and other stuff - This week Don and Syn recap their week. Stories lead to others stories and they keep telling more and more. They discus cheating in the lifestyle and what they consider cheating and why they think some of it happens! That goes to Don discussing about some self reflection and growth !  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its...

Episode 83: Gossip and education check your source - In this episode Don and Syn talk about gossip, are we just spreading stuff we hear or do we ever take time to check the facts? do we check the source or are we playing the telephone game and just spreading what we hear. Then they discus all the educational information out there in the lifestyle now days so much knowledge at the touch of our fing...

Episode 82: Couple Polyamorous Questions    In this episode Don and Syn look at a couple listeners question about polyamory. The fist is how to encourage your partners to keep active when they don’t have a polyam dynamic. The second is about a fb post that was asking if people are really looking for relationships and if Polyam relationships work Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Min...

Episode 81 - stories - In this episode Syn and Don talk about their weekend. Then they talk about a rant about what happened with a friend and consent. This leads into just a night of some great stories of our past  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alternative Lifestyl...

Episode 80 - Picture this! -In this episode Don talks about going to Club Eden with his new girlfriend and her first experience. He chats about how sexy it was to watch her open up and experiment then own her sexy attitude. Then Don and Syn talk about picture taking in the lifestyle, They discuss the difference in asking for consent to use a pic and the legal part of who owns the pic and copyright...

Episode 79 - Pushy, Pushy real good ! -In this episode we discuss Pushy behavior, what make you pushy or can be pushy. Then we take a turn and discuss coaching people when they are pushy and letting them know why. We also discuss being more descriptive when we tell people no.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there...

Episode 78 - The Label Game - In this episode we have a special guest host with Don as Syn is recovering from surgery still. The special guest is Lady Kroft from Synful ladies. Her and Don chat about the ladies podcast and a little about her lifestyle. They also discuss labels in the lifestyle and how so many times we miss out on things cause we put people in these boxes with labels on them instea...

Episode - 77 Don't shame - In this episode we look at a couple listeners questions the first is on FOMO and budgeting for events. We chat about how Don had a little FOMO type thing last weekend missing the Eden Pool Party, then we go over some budget ideas. The second question has to do with kink and swing shaming. We discuss why we feel this happens and how to help people when it happens Check ou...

Episode 76- Party bus time!!! - In this episode we discuss a party bus / pool party we went to last weekend! We talk about the bus driver getting thrown to the deep end of watching us, we did doughnuts in the party bus! Then Don recaps his speedo comp performance!  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get a...

Episode 75 - Pool Party Recap - In this Episode we discuss all things pool party! We talk about some fun things, we talk about cornhole, to much drinking, a friends first waffle house trip, some redneck stuff. Then we discuss our crazy drunken spiral and being hangry. We always talk about how to act at events and we through all that out for a little bit lol.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kink...

Episode 74 - How do I handle unwanted DM's - In this episode we discuss how to handle unwanted dm's. Don discusses an issue on a Facebook group about unwanted dm's. We look at how we makes comments in groups and how we handle this in public will effect how people view us. Then we discuss a question about how to handle it when someone tells you that your scene at the dungeon was to much.  Check out...

Episode 73 - Get to know Don and Syn - In this episode we do some fun questions so you can get to know us a little better.    Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com   Then Check us out at   Instagram   @kinkyframeofmind • I...

Episode 72 - How to avoid BURNOUT! - In this episode we discuss Burnout and what happens when it happens then we take a look at a few tips to help avoid it happening. We all want the have an great enjoyable time with out the burnout!  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop A...

Episode 71 - Why is the community important - In this episode we look at an email question about why we say its important to get involved in your local community and how to get involved the best way. We share our views on why we feel its important to get involved  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get al...

Episode 70 - How we look at Leaders! In this episode we discuss our New Orleans Trips. Then we get on a discussion on how we look at and hold out leaders to mix matched standard. Leaders are human and need to be treated like that Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Altern...

Episode 69 - why do you believe that  - In this episode we talk about why we believe what we believe. we talk about getting our own point of view and being able to understand that and express it. Then we also talk about vetting again since it comes up in conversations so often  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on ther...

Episode 68 - Toxic am I in a that kind of dynamic? In this episode we have a email from a couple about am I in a toxic poly dynamic. We look at traits of a toxic person and we discuss from out past times how it looks and feels   Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alterna...

Episode 67 - Breaking up is the hardest thing - In this episode we discuss a couple questions asked, the first is about what back up story you use for people you meet in the lifestyle to your family and friends. Then we have a question about handling a break up and how to move forward when both in the lifestyle.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of...

Episode 66 - Compliments give and receive  - In this episode we talk about giving genuine compliments, we also discuss why we don't want to back handed compliments. Then we talk about how hard it is to accept or receive compliments  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alt...

Episode 65 - Do's and Don'ts at events. In this episode we go over a list of do's and don't at events since we are all getting back in the swing of events  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com   Then Check us out at   Ins...