Kinky Frame of Mind

Episode 114: Are you willing to open Pandoras Box? - In this Episode Don and Syn talk about their week, Don had a Zoo date and then they had a double date at the Melodrama. This week's questions are kind of interconnected. Question one was about would you play with your neighbor and question two is about see a parents at a party! The question Don and Syn ask about both are you willing to deal with...

Episode 113 - Rule breaker and Anxiety update! - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks, Don had a Meet and Greet in OKC and had a great time, Syn talks about the tornado that happened. Then they discuss going to Club Eden. They answer a listener question about how to handle someone that breaks small rules often. They talk about how people need to get better at reporting issues. Then Don...

Episode 112 - Anxiety is a BI!!ch - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their weeks. Syn talks about watching show with Lady Kroft and Don talks about a date night with Wonder Woman. They discus about a new product on Full Swap Shop the Night Cap, they talk about what a great item this is to have and just the safety you get from them. The first topic is a question about how long do you talk to som...

Episode 111 - 420 recording and getting back on the horse - In this episode Don and Syn discuss their weekend, Don realizes how hard it is to record high and concentrate. They talk about their recent Meet and Greet, Dine with Kole and Amanda from Krazy. Kole and Don came up with a new gang hand sign for the lifestyle. Then they went to the planet swirl take over at the club OKC. It was a great eve...

Episode 110 - Loving the newbie and helping their walk   In this episode Don and Syn talk about their weekends, Syn had a date weekend, they went to adult skate and a hotel with a jacuzzi tub. Don went to Denver for the weekend, they went to Meow Wolf, shopping, tiki bar and dispensary. This weeks topics is about how we want the lifestyle to grow but we always get frustrated  with new people. So t...

Episode 109 - Interview with Jeff from Promescent. - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss their week, it was Don's Birthday night out. They discuss dinner, then the bar. As Don says no Birthday Bash is complete without a bar fight and unexpended boobs. His Birthday has both. Oh and the lap dance tune in to hear about it. Then Don and syn are excited to have Jeff from Promescent on. They are a prize...

Episode 108 - Rejection sucks- In this Episode Don and Syn talk about there last week, Don had a Kink night at Club Eden OKC. Then they got to spend some time with family. In this week's question the discuss dealing with rejection. A listener asks Don how he deals with it being a bigger guy. The discuss how hard it is at time and how to remember there are other people out there. They talk about wa...

Episode 107 - You say she is just a friend, OH BABY YOU...! In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week, they had ne meet and greet Friday and date night on Saturday! They discuss a topic on a Facebook group about what to do with a play partner disrespects your spouse or your relationship. They talk about having a planned way to bring stuff on this up. Then Don discusses a little on his view...

Episode 106 - It is a squirter convention!! In this episode Don and Syn talk about their recent busy travel weekend, Starting with Don doing Eden Kink night, things are growing every week with this new event it's been good. Then Friday they headed to Lincoln Nebraska for KASBH's 6th Birthday Party. Went to a house preparty before and had a great time. They had a great experience at the main event,...

Episode 105 - Batman , Kumquat, oh what was the safe word! -  In this episode Don and Syn discus their weekend, seeing Batman, lady Kroft's grandpas funeral, Syn and BT's date in OKC, Don and Lady Kroft's date night at home. Then they discuss a Facebook question about who sets up a safe word, don/sub vs top/bottom discussion, the importance of negotiating a safe word! All our links  My Lifestyle U...

Episode 104 - Mind your DAMMMMNNN business or whatever that saying is - In this episode Don and syn talk about their recent roller-skating event and then both talk about dates they had. They then discuss an email about people minding their own business and being confronter at an event. They look at reasons why people are nosey and how they relate to lifestyle and non-lifestyle areas  All our links...

Episode 103 - Where is Charles? Got to find out who is in charge of this scene!  In this episode Don and Syn are all over it again. They discuss their last meet and greet. Then they talk about going to the Red Party at The Club OKC. It was another great party at one of the top ls clubs. Then they look a listener question about as a service top when is it ok to end a scene. They discuss what a serv...

Episode 102 - Would you go back and hit it again? - In this episode Don and Syn talk about their week, the Seductions Party in OKC, Don going to Adult Prom with Wonder Woman. Then they get into an email from a listener about would you go back to an ex, Don and Syn discuss past things in their lives with this topic.  All our links  https://linktr.ee/MyLifestyleUS Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - K...

Episode 101 - A hot mess - In this episode Don and syn are all over the place, they talk about their weekend, they discuss how people take advantage of and treat lifestyle groups poorly cause of who "we" are, then the discuss trips and plans  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com   Then Check u...

Episode 100 - You need to be more transparent - WOW! Episode 100!!!!!!! We can't believe we did it!! In this episode we discuss our fun weekend. Talk about dates and fun. Don gets asked if he teaches what he does at a bar! Then we talk about being transparent with you potential partners. We discuss how hard it can be, we never want rejected but we have to be honest. We talk about things we don't a...

Episode 99 - Going to the Party - In this Episode Don and Syn discuss a email about approaching people at events and how to move to sex. Makin contact before the event and closing the deal. Don talks about he is not good at closing the deal at events. Then we move into discussing respect at events and everything that goes into a putting on events.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of...

Episode 98 - Krazy Winter Nights Recap - In this Episode we talk about our fun weekend going to Krazy Winter Nights! It was an amazing evet put on by Kole and Amanda of Kasbh. We understand why it is a multiple time award winning event is. We discuss our crazy week leading up to it and the change of people going happened, snow bound travel. Then the great event  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - K...

Episode 97: Change is always coming and it's a good thing - In this episode we talk about change how we need to be ok with change in our Lifestyle journey. We talk about when change is need and how it can be good and excite you again. We talk about going to the same events over and over and just complaining. Then we talk about change going on in our life right now as we resign from the dungeon we...

Episode 95 -2021 in a nutshell - In this episode we talk about some of the highlights and low lights of the year, We got to hangout with a lot of fellow podcasters in Miami, Don's b-day party with Ron Little, the club OKC pool party and stuff we have not talked about during that weekend, then Podbash at Secrets Hideaway, Lady Kroft having COVID, Don's mom passing and then seeing Rob again. It was...

Episode 95 - Quit the guilt trips - In this Holiday Episode lol, We discuss our weekend going to OKC. Then we also talk about a email about feeling guilty to play on date and the pressure people put on it and the issues we have with not wanting to let people down  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapS...

Episode 94 - Safety is for all not just the few - In this Episode we recap our week with Don's mom's funeral and all the crazy family. Then we look at a listener email about safety at a Dungeon and Adim's protecting certain people.  We talk about our views of safety in the lifestyle and things we think could be done better.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   Get all your merc...

Episode 93 - Dad we need to talk about your lifestyle - Don and Syn talk about their long week, the sudden death of a family member to their kids asking about their lifestyle  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alternative Lifestyle Podcasters - FullSwapShop.com   Then Check us out at   Instagram   @kinkyframeofmind • Instagram photos and vid...

Episode 92 - There she blows  - In this Episode don and Syn talk about their week and how Don is excited to get back into doing photography. Then they talk about the conversion in their house to build a studio finally. Then they get to a listener question about the change in the lifestyle to where squirting is expected and what to do if you dont squirt. Then they talk about why they think guys get...

episode 91 - What if things don't go as expected and do we have to do that every time - In this episode we look at a listener question that is two part, the first is about been chatting with someone and how do we not let mental expectations effect our date and play and how to let go mentally. Then they ask if your kinky does that play get involved every time?  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kin...

Episode 90 - Tired of getting no showed - In this episode we discuss a topic that we have heard lots of people talking about lately. Getting no showed for dates. So we look at a few reason we thing this happens. It can be rushing the meet, social anxiety, our approach, being pushy, Some people just like the thrill of the talking and not meeting  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Min...