Kinky Frame of Mind

Episode 64 - They are trying to be to controlling - In this episode we look at a couple email questions, the first is a tough one about help some your dating with insecurities and with jealousy. Listen to our take on this and how we handle it in our self and our dynamics. They second question is about a poly partner being to controlling and how it address that. We need to go back to the negotiatio...

Episode 63 - Terms Term and more Terms - In this Episode we look at some common lifestyle terms that get used wrong the most. We discuss how people use terms to fit what they want or need a lot and not what they really mean.    Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Alternat...

Episode 62 - Syn's Past and how it has made her who she is - In this episode we talked about syn's past and her relationship with her mom. How she had a codependent relationship and how then that moved into Her and Don's marriage. We discuss how she has dealt with this and many our her early on concerns and views of the lifestyle. Then we discuss how this has effected some aspects of the lifestyle...

Episode 61 - All about Protocol  - In this episode we have out first in studio guest, J7leatherwolf. In this episode we talk about protocol in a bdsm dynamic. We talk about what is protocol, how it works in a dynamic, different types of protocol.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendis...

Episode 60 - A little Q&A. In this episode we take a little break from the normal and spend some times going over a list of questions that got posted on a Facebook group. Sit back grab your pizza rolls and enjoy the conversation  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   Shop Altern...

Episode 59 - Don't be a Debbie Downer. In this episode we talk about not being a Debbie Downer. We all know one and know what its like when we see them. We talk about the different types of Debbie Downers. From the woe is me, to the over serious, the negative Nellie and so on. Then we talk a little why sometimes people act like this.  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlay...

Episode 58 - 9 questions to ask - In this episode we look at an article that popped up on a couple Facebook groups about questions to ask future partners or dates. It goes from hierarchy to are certain dates special to are certain acts and even how will other relationships effect us.     Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayGround Its our site of choice   join our Communi...

Episode 57 - Hotwife vs Cuckold In this episode we take a look at the difference in Hotwife play and Cuckold. We look at why people enjoy both of them and why they can be a benefit to your relationship, We talk about being educated and knowing terms when talking to people and if we dont know the importance of asking questions and finding mentors to show us and help us. 

Episode 56- Do you have a Hall Pass  In this episode we discuss how to ask people if they have a Hall Pass or play separate. Finding the best way for you to find out, is it asking upfront, watching them and seeing or paying attention to post on social media. Next we look at an email from a guy trying to control his partner to play more. Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPl...

Episode 55 - The Miami trip, in this episode we talk about out little get a way to Miami, we hung out this weekend with a lot of the AltPlayground Podcast family. we discuss our travel days and our great time there. We discuss the culture differences in Kansas and Miami lol. we got to meet the people from https://www.jetsurf.com/us/ it was fun to watch them. Sit back and enjoy our fun story  Check...

Episode - 54: Which one of US is going to handle this - In this episode we discuss talk about some issues at a recent meet and greet, how a persons behaviors can set the tone and example. we also discuss having consent to do things. Then we discuss about a Facebook question on how we handle or who will handle issues when they come up with others. Have a plan on how things will go  Check out   Kink...

Episode 53 - Stickers and Filters oh MY!! Its our ONE YEAR!! In this Episode we have to email questions the first is about if stickers are ok on profile pics cause of work issues. We give our views and pointers on that. The next one is we look at a couple that has had a few issues in their path in the lifestyle with other couple and see if there is a common error  Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind -...

episode 52 - switchy switch, welcome back to our fun show. In this episode we have a couple questions asked to us the first is about a sub that wants to become a switch for her partner, we share our views on switching. then we have a couple that has limited time to meet and we discus how they can make the best bang for their time.    Check out   Kinky Frame of Mind - Kinky Frame of Mind   AltPlayG...

In this episode we look at a couple email questions, the first is is about how do i not come so fast. So we look at techniques and things that can help you slow down on cumming, we discuss edging a little. We talk about the old joke of thinking BASEBALL. The second question is about what to do when one of the couples is done and what is your out plan, how long do you wait or what is the plan, we d...

Episode 50: Vanilla Friend play? Good or Bad?   So we made it to Episode 50!! In this episode we have two messages we look at, the first is a common problem in the lifestyle how to handle a guy that is to touchy and how people can judge you if you stop him. So we discuss why we need to stop this behavior. what to do if this happens to you ann who we should tell. The second question hits a little c...

Episode 49- First play chaos. In this episode we discuss a message about a couples first attempt at solo play. So many rules and communication issues that we reflect on and share our views on what could have been done to prevent and help this situation. Also there was some maybe hidden agenda on the part of the date and his girlfriend. So we talk about hidden agendas and how they can ruin a great...

Episode 48 - First date play ? In this episode Don talks about a few exciting upcoming things in their world. Then we look at some emails we got, first is playing on the first date or not? what your rules and how does it work for you. Then we get an email about how to tell someone its not working out. so we look at that and discuss ways but we also look at is their a reason this couple has a track...

Episode 47 - Damn that is to BIG. In this Episode we have a listener question about how to tell someone their penis is to BIG. Then we have a discussion about its a new year and a good time to review rules and goals.  Check out     altplayground.net Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   WWW.fullswapshop.com   Then Check us out at   Instagram   htt...

Episode 46 - end of year in this episode we look back at the last year and talk about the good and bad. then we also talk about how we are all part of the same group no matter where we fall in our play  Check out     altplayground.net Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   WWW.fullswapshop.com   Then Check us out at   Instagram   https://www.instag...

Episode 45 - Fair rules. In this episode we look at being fair on rules and keeping a balance. Also we discuss a question that came up on out Facebook group about numbers of partners.   Check out     altplayground.net Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   WWW.fullswapshop.com   Then Check us out at   Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/kinkyfram...

Episode 44 - Let's educate new people, in this episode Don goes on a rant about a post he saw on a site about someone getting mad when a new person questioned their dynamic. We talk about how to handle this type of interaction and how we need to help educate new people  Check out     altplayground.net Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   WWW.full...

Episode 43 : Just not feeling it - In this episode we talk about a message we got about what to do when you are just not feeling it or feeling sexy. Then we have a question about what to do when the person just wants to talk sex all the time  Check out     altplayground.net Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   WWW.fullswapshop.com   Then Check us...

Episode 42: how to get some interest - in this episode we talk about a question on how can i get people interested in me and we take a look at getting started in your rope journey  Check out     altplayground.net Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   WWW.fullswapshop.com   Then Check us out at   Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmi...

Episode 41 - Don't Judge In this episode we talk about judging and assuming people on personality  Check out     altplayground.net Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   WWW.fullswapshop.com   Then Check us out at   Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/kinkyframeofmind/   Twitter   https://twitter.com/kinkyfom   Email   kinkyfom@gmail.com     Face...

Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker Dude! in this episode we look at what is a deal breaker for you and what you can deal we, we both discuss our deal breakers and then we discuss a few answers we go on our Facebook group.  Check out     altplayground.net Its our site of choice   join our Community on there       Get all your merchendise at   WWW.fullswapshop.com   Then Check us out at   Instagram...