Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

Author

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Episodes

Episode 24: Fa La La La Block 10.12.2018 1:23:58

This episode tackles going slow even when we’re excited, dick pics, drawing lines, and the wild and wonderful world of vulnerability. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod BLIND DATE: Nathan For You - Season 4, Episode 7 Original mu...

Episode 23: Shame Can't Live in the Dark...I Mean Light 03.12.2018 1:12:05

This episode covers unpacking our partner's baggage, sexual apathy in a hookup culture, marijuana, and learning to love our bodies. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis A...

Episode 22: Ghosts Can't Text 26.11.2018 1:13:39

This episode covers asking about the past, exorcising ghosts, finding people like us, and does everyone really deserve to be happy? Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis A...

Episode 21: To Know You And Love You So Simply 19.11.2018 1:22:35

This episode covers lowering standards, hiding from parents, meeting partners halfway, and learning from our successes and failures. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis...

Episode 20: Surprise Boner! 12.11.2018 1:16:02

This episode covers the exes of Christmas past, affirming our sexuality, doing the right thing, and grappling with our shame. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertis...

Episode 19: I Wanna Be Happy For You But I'm Insanely Jealous 05.11.2018 1:08:03

This episode covers the horrors of social media, detoxifying, leaning on partners for support and trusting our instincts. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise o...

Episode 18: Peanut Butter in Bed 29.10.2018 52:59

This episode deals with being too intense, having children, attachment styles, and loneliness after a good, true breakup. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise o...

Episode 17: The Word of the Day Is Sustainability 22.10.2018 1:05:27

This episode deals with forgiving ourselves for walking away, mismatched efforts, big life changes, and being independent. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise...

Episode 16: I Don't Want Your Wishy-Washy Tepid Bullshit 15.10.2018 58:31

This episode deals with younger siblings, trusting our instincts, our parents' divorces, and people who are irredeemable. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise o...

Episode 15: Let Me Be Great 08.10.2018 1:07:41

This episode deals with dumpers who don’t care, wanting what we can't have, feeling crazy, and knowing how to end things. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise o...

Episode 14: It Will Never Make Sense 01.10.2018 1:05:07

This episode deals with overbearing in-laws, dealing with isolation, how to warn others, and coming out at work. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Br...

Episode 13: I'm Not Listening to the Words He's Saying 24.09.2018 1:13:18

This episode covers parents, rebuilding friendships, listening to people, and if exes have a place in your current relationship. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Adve...

Episode 12: Quit This S*** Girl 17.09.2018 1:12:48

This episode covers the recovering from cheating bastards, revenge, disclosing on dating apps, and what to do when things feel a little sketchy. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer...

Congratulations Sam & Peter! 15.09.2018 18:52

This is a special surprise episode celebrating the wedding of host Sam Blackwell to his amazing partner Peter. We love you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Episode 11: There Are Whole States I Can't Go Back To (with Olivia Gatwood) 10.09.2018 1:07:04

This episode covers the patriarchy, dealing with in-laws, building trust in ourselves and other, and how to being alone. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on...

Episode 10: The Relationship Dump 03.09.2018 1:12:21

This episode covers men who won't leave us, coming out, abusive relationships and whether there is good love out there. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on...

Episode 9: Affirmation Masturbation 27.08.2018 1:09:16

This episode covers open relationships, shedding our guilt, going big or going home, and learning to love ourselves. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Jus...

Episode 8: I Too Have Loved A Tank of Toxic Sludge 20.08.2018 1:08:05

This episode covers queer scarcity, knowing when to break up, assholes you just can't quit, and taking care of ourselves in relationships. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-...

Episode 7: Two Virgins Who Can’t Drive 13.08.2018 1:05:42

This episode covers losing your virginity, disappointment, comparison, and what to do when your life falls apart. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just B...

Episode 6: Frickin' Robert Frost 06.08.2018 1:05:39

This episode covers jealousy, ghosting, what it means to learn while we love, and what to do when someone crosses the line. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise...

Episode 5: That Butterfly Is Intimacy 30.07.2018 1:00:37

This episode covers crushes-gone-wild, dating your friends, respecting the block, and intimacy in sexless relationships. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on...

Episode 4: Don't You Know That You're Toxic? 23.07.2018 1:06:43

This episode covers what to do when your life is a f*cking soap opera, toxic relationships, and those times when what you know in your hearts doesn't match what's happening in the world. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original...

Episode 3: #BlockBlockBlockBlockBlock 16.07.2018 55:42

This episode covers starting over when you feel like you've f*cked up, age gaps and what to do when what they said doesn't match reality. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-D...

Episode 2: I Just Unbuttoned My Pants 16.07.2018 51:34

This episode covers being a good friend, young relationships and those what-ifs that won't stop f*cking with you. Join us on Patreon and get an extra episode each week, a back catalog of 100+ episodes, and video! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just B...

Episode 1: Tent Sex 16.07.2018 52:13

This episode tackles topics like dating in college, sex in cars, and the people we just can't let go of. SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod TWITTER: @justbreakuppod Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis Advertise on Just Break Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices