In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by sex educator, performer, and self-proclaimed “dildo slinger” Dirty Lola ( @dirtylola ) for a raw and hilarious conversation about shame, sex, and self-acceptance. From growing up in a naked household to navigating deep religious trauma, Lola shares the journey of becoming a fearless advocate for shameless pleasure and body confidence. We get in...

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Catherine Drysdale—sex & relationship coach—who’s on a mission to help women and femmes unlearn the “good girl” scripts that keep them small, quiet, and out of touch with their desires. We talk about: • What “good girl conditioning” really means and how it shows up in our lives • The difference between Good Girl Conditioning and being a &quot...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is back onboard the Temptation Cruise! In this episode, Alexa reconnects with Mario Cruz , Cruise Director for Temptation Cruises , to dive even deeper into what makes a lifestyle-friendly cruise such a unique, exciting, and welcoming experience. Recorded live from the February 2025 sailing, we chat about: How Temptation Cruises create a safe, respectful, a...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Alex Fine , educator, activist, parent and founder of the pleasure-forward brand Dame , to talk about how to find the sex toy that actually works for you—and how to confidently use it, whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner. Alex shares how Dame is redefining pleasure with intentional, inclusive design, and we get into how t...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with bisexual writer, sex expert, and chaos king Zachary Zane for a juicy episode all about how to suck dick like a pro . Whether you’re a total beginner, looking to level up your skills, or just love talking about pleasure—we’ve got you covered. Zach shares his most helpful tips, wildest stories, and hard-earned wisdom from both personal and prof...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with world-renowned sex educator and author Kenneth Play to talk all things oral sex on vulvas —techniques, mindset, communication, and pleasure-maximizing strategies. Known for his viral videos, global workshops, and author of Beyond Satisfied , Kenneth breaks down how anyone can become a more confident and skillful oral lover—no magic tongue req...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with writer and relationship expert Hayley Folk to talk about an unconventional but increasingly popular relationship setup: living separately from your partner. Why do some people thrive in separate spaces? What are the benefits and challenges? And is this a better setup for non-monogamous relationships? We also dive into one of Hayley’s most vir...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Miss Lauren to talk about how to take charge in the bedroom, tap into your confidence, and explore power dynamics in a way that feels fun and natural . Whether you’re looking to spice things up or just want to feel more in control, this episode is packed with practical tips and expert advice on owning your desires . We cover: How she got star...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Lindsay Wynn , founder of Momotaro Apotheca , a brand dedicated to holistic vaginal health and wellness . After struggling with recurrent BV and yeast infections with no long-term solutions in sight, Lindsay set out to create products that actually support vaginal and vulva health—without harsh chemicals or unnecessary shame. In this episode,...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Dr. Sonya Maya , a pre-licensed psychologist, sex therapist and content creator . Dr. Sonya helps people navigate relationships, pleasure, and personal growth with confidence and clarity. In this episode, we explore how to have casual sex in a way that feels empowering, enjoyable, and drama-free —whether you're new to it or looking to ref...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Sarah Tomchesson , Certified Sex Educator, Embodied Intimacy Coach, Marketing Director for Magic Wand and host of the F u ck Yeah podcast, to talk about one of the most sought-after yet misunderstood experiences: full body orgasms . Recorded in Costa Rica at the Shameless Sex Retreat , this episode dives deep into what full body orgasms reall...

Sexologist Alexa Andre (⁠ @sexwithalexa ⁠) sits down with ⁠Amy Baldwin ⁠—sex educator, co-host of the ⁠ Shameless Sex Podcast ⁠, and author—to talk about everything from learning to enjoy receiving to becoming amazing at oral and navigating non-monogamy. Amy shares what it was like growing up with a sex-positive mom, opening a sex shop with her, and not having her first orgasm until 18—plus how sh...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sat down with April Lampert in Costa Rica at the Shameless Sex Retreat to talk about everything from sex shop secrets to navigating infidelity. April, co-host of the Shameless Sex Podcast , has spent years helping people break free from shame and embrace pleasure—but her journey started in a very different place. In this episode, we cover: 🔹 Growing up in...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Jacqueline Soule , a system disruptor who feels everything —literally. From experiencing orgasms on bumpy roads to planning her life around her menstrual cycle, Jacqueline shares how deep body awareness has shaped her life. We discuss how to be more mindful and make everyday moments more pleasurable , how she taught her kids about cycles and...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Amber Mallery , an award-winning sex educator and advocate for inclusivity in sexual health education, for an inspiring and candid conversation about sex, self-discovery, and prioritizing personal growth. (also see @bijoux_indiscrets ) Amber shares her journey into sex education, her passion for fostering inclusive spaces, and how she navigat...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) kicks off Season 4 with an exciting conversation with Mario Cruz , Cruise Director for the famed Desire and Temptation Cruises. In this episode, we dive into the world of swinger/lifestyle-friendly cruises and explore what makes these experiences so unique, from themed nights and play spaces to fostering a respectful, consensual environment for newcomers an...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) welcomes Reed Amber, a multifaceted sex educator, sex worker, and co-host of the popular podcast Come Curious . In this episode, Reed opens up about her experiences and insights into sex work, body confidence, and intimacy. She shares her journey toward embracing nipple confidence, the challenges of vulva and labia diversity, and how growing up in a “naked...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Genevieve LeJeune , CEO and founder of Skirt Club , a revolutionary space for bisexual women and those curious about exploring their sexuality. Skirt Club has become a global phenomenon, hosting play parties in 36 cities worldwide, empowering women to embrace their desires in a safe and inclusive environment. In this episode, we dive deep int...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) dives into the fascinating world of professional domination and kink-aware therapy with Miss Veronica Viper , a seasoned dominatrix and therapist. In this episode, Veronica shares her journey through an unconventional upbringing in different countries, her first experiences with pegging and consensual choking at 16, and how working as a stripper led her to...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Zoe Atiko , the creative force behind @reignofsovereignty , a groundbreaking harness fashion movement.  Zoe shares her journey from burlesque and hat-making to creating fluid, inclusive designs inspired by her experiences in Berlin. We delve into how Zoe’s queerness and dedication to empowering others shape her work, as well as her philosophy...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) delves into the world of paid companionship and intimacy with Arik Brückner, CEO and co-founder of CHOICE —a groundbreaking platform designed to provide safe, transparent, and stigma-free services. Arik discusses how CHOICE is redefining an often misunderstood industry, focusing on safety measures like ID verification, behavior guidelines, and post-meeting...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Emma Sayle, the trailblazing Founder and CEO of Killing Kittens . In this episode, they discuss Emma’s upbringing and her first experiences with sex that helped shape her journey. Emma shares how Killing Kittens was born and what sets it apart as a women-led, sex-positive space. They explore what attendees can expect at a Killing Kittens even...

In this episode, Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with award-winning sex educator, trans activist, and author Dee Whitnell to discuss their unique journey through gender identity, activism, and self-discovery. Dee shares their experience growing up queer, their initial hesitation around exploring relationships with vulva-owners, and how they met their partner, a trans man, who he...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( ⁠@sexwithalexa⁠ ) chats with the internet's resident sexpert, ⁠Dr. Tara⁠ , on a candid journey through Dr. Tara’s sexual history, insights, and expert advice on improving relationships. Dr. Tara opens up about her childhood in Thailand with parents who avoided discussing sex, her early sexual experiences with girls at 13, and her exploration with guys after moving to Finla...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with MJ Fox, co-founder of Joyride ( @joyride.rave ) a sex-positive rave redefining inclusive nightlife in London. In this episode, MJ shares their journey into the sex-positive space and how Joyride was born, a rave known for its vibrant, safe atmosphere and all-queer staff and DJs. We dive into what attendees can expect when they walk into Joyri...