In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with hypnotherapist and intimacy coach Kate Shelor for an in-depth conversation about erotic hypnosis, the subconscious mind, and how our thoughts, beliefs, and emotional conditioning shape pleasure, desire, and orgasm. Recorded on the Temptation Cruise, this episode breaks down what hypnosis really is, how it differs from pop-culture myths, and...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with  tantric practitioner, pleasure educator, and soon-to-be author Davia Frost for a deep conversation about decentering penetration and expanding what sex can be. Recorded on the Temptation Cruise, this episode explores how slowing down, breathing, presence, and creativity can lead to more satisfying, intimate, and embodied pleasure without s...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets back in bed with sex & relationship coach Catherine Drysdale for the most honest, nuanced conversation about voluntary celibacy you’ve ever heard. Together they break down how intentionally stepping away from partnered sex can reset your dating patterns, raise your standards, calm your nervous system, help you stop centering dating/sex, reconnect y...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with sex educator, pleasure expert, and the Handjob Queen herself, Ashley Manta ( @cannasexual ), for the most comprehensive handjob episode ever recorded, all from the middle of the Ionian Sea aboard a Desire Cruise. Together, they dive into Ashley’s entire sexual evolution, her journey into sex education, her non-monogamous love story, and her...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Ian Kerner , sex therapist and author of the groundbreaking bestseller She Comes First, He Comes Next, and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex. They talk about why his 2004 classic is still changing bedrooms two decades later, how the clitoris remains misunderstood, and what makes sex truly great. We discuss: - Why She Comes First is s...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa )  sits down with  Amanda Dames , the kink consultant and sex & relationship coach, for a deep dive into the world of kink — from power dynamics and negotiation to choking, bondage, chastity, and aftercare. Amanda, a former dominatrix and current coach for couples and individuals, breaks down how to safely explore desire, communicate boundaries, and find...

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@ ⁠ sexwithalexa ⁠ ) ⁠ sits on the couch with  Robyn Silber ⁠  — a former Google software engineer who slept with 70 men in 10 months and then realized she’s asexual. Robyn opens up about her “slut era,” sexual health, discovering demisexuality, navigating autism and dating, and why she’s now working to help lonely men build real connection. We talk about: Dating younger me...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa )  gets in bed with  Haley Jakobson , author of  Old Enough ,  bisexual Dream Girl , and  OCD Princess , to talk about friendship, therapy, OCD, and sex. Haley opens up about how her OCD has shaped her relationships, sexuality, creative life and how vulnerability and repair have transformed her friendships and intimacy. We discuss: The importance of friendshi...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa )  gets in bed with  Nina Divina , Mama Muse and founder of  Haus of Muse , for a powerful and playful conversation about confidence, burlesque, sensuality, and how to be the main character in your sex life. We talk about: What “cunt is an energy” really means and how to embody it Overcoming body image struggles and learning to love your reflection How to be...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with Jeff Perla , host of  Oh Dear I’m Queer , for a candid, funny, and unfiltered conversation about queer sex, dating, and intimacy. We discuss: Morning hookups, blowjob confessions, and the idea of “nut clarity” Seeing Jeff's nudes & live reactions Snapchat vs. Instagram, hookup apps, and why Jeff made hoe cards while Alexa makes hoe...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Ali Weiss , New York native, host of  Tales of Taboo  and unapologetic oversharer, for a raw conversation about rejection, vulnerability, and why we’re all obsessed with the forbidden. A funny, honest, and deeply relatable episode on being human, craving connection, and owning your messy truth, why rejection stings less when you know yourself,...

Sexologist  Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa )   is back in bed with Vee, co-host of  Girls Gone Deep  and almost-certified somatic sex and relationship coach, for a juicy conversation all about  sexual fantasies . We cover: Why fantasies are so important for a fulfilling sex life The difference between fantasies you should keep in your head vs. the ones you might want to bring to life Vee’s wildest fu...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with certified sexologist and Wonderlust founder Natassia Miller for a deep dive into one of the most common struggles in relationships: mismatched desire. We break down why sex can get boring in long-term relationships, why the honeymoon phase always fades, and how to actually reignite passion with your partner. From exploring fantasies to redu...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Elle Chase ( @theellechase ) , certified life coach, sexologist, sexuality educator, author, and one of the most respected voices in the body acceptance and body neutrality movement . Together, they unpack how body image affects intimacy, relationships, and the ability to feel sexy in your own skin. In this episode, we dive into: The difference...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Laura Desirée — absolute stranger, intimacy coordinator and pleasure educator — for an unforgettable conversation about how sex, grief, and shame shape our identities. In this episode, we dive into: What intimacy coordinators actually do on film sets and why they make sex scenes better, not worse Why Hollywood has failed at portraying female...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with Gabriella Scaringe, founder of Cherri , to explore sexuality and vulvas in the real world — pubic hair trends, labia diversity, harmful language we’ve internalized, and how better design (hello, wide-gusset underwear and swim) can change how we feel in our bodies. We get specific about what actually shows up in everyday life (the “bulge,” the...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is back with another deep dive into the world of dating, this time with award-winning sex educator and ghostwriter Connie Collins ( @thefirstdatediaries ) . We explore the state of relationships today and reveal what keeps people stuck in situationships and unhappy. It’s often not about your dating profile or messaging speed, but deeper issues like fear of...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is back in bed for another season and she’s kicking things off with adult film icon Small Hands (Aaron Thompson). From monogamy and marriage to aftercare and emotional intimacy on set, Aaron shares what it's really like to live a life of performance — and what happens when the cameras stop rolling. We get deep on female pleasure, working with Owen Gray...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Beth Sparksfire — the Queen of Hacienda , New York’s legendary sex-positive community and party scene. Together, we dive deep into how to be a thoughtful, respectful, and unforgettable sex party guest. Whether you’re a first-timer or looking to level up, Beth shares the real dos and don'ts from her years curating erotic experiences. We cove...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Birna Gustafsson , sex educator with a master's in public health and host of Explicit Studies , to talk about the sea of sexual misinformation we’re constantly swimming in—and how to get better at spotting it. Together, they bust myths that still circulate widely online (even in sex-positive spaces) and explore how shame, purity culture, an...

In this very juicy and educational episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) gets in bed with Jamie Joy , a queer, trans certified sex educator and full-blown fisting aficionado. We dive deep (literally and figuratively) into the world of fisting, from how to prep and practice it safely to the surprising aftercare and emotional intensity it can carry. We also discuss: How to prep for fisti...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Thea Rose , host of Seggs Talk Radio and founder of a new STI testing startup, to talk about what it really takes to build a sex-positive business—from scratch, with heart, and without losing your mind. Thea opens up about her messy, honest path as a multi-hyphenate creator, how she juggles podcasting, launching companies, and staying grounded...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Allie Hoffman , founder of Catch The Feels —a viral in-person dating experience helping people ditch dating apps and reconnect with their bodies, emotions, and intuition. We dive deep into Allie’s groundbreaking “four systems of knowing” and how we can use the body, emotions, thoughts, and inner truth to date with more clarity and self-trust. A...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined once again by photographer, ethical slut, and emotionally available king Matthew Kayman for a raw and wildly entertaining deep dive into threesomes, pegging, vasectomies , and how men can do better in sex and relationships. We go deep about what it means to unlearn toxic masculinity and embrace a more present, consensual, and pleasure-focused appr...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) sits down with NYC-based photographer, ethical slut, and reformed cheater Matthew Kayman for an honest, reflective, and hilarious conversation about evolving from messy dating patterns to intentional, kink-informed, and transparent relationships. We unpack his shift from monogamy to polyamory, navigating play parties, unlearning toxic masculinity, and figur...