In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Karl, the founder of Klub Verboten , one of the most inclusive and progressive kink spaces in Europe. They delve into how the club was born, who can attend, and the rules that ensure everyone’s safety and comfort. Karl shares his hot takes on why straight cis men tend to stay away and how he learned to become a great lover. We also discuss the...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Leanne Yau ( @polyphiliablog ), who shares her journey from growing up in Hong Kong to leaving a law career behind to become a full-time content creator focusing on non-monogamy. They discuss what it's like getting recognized at sex parties, balancing a large online platform, and how being neurodivergent shapes Leanne's life and work. Leanne op...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by sex educator and non-monogamy content creator Poppy Scarlett ( @polyampoppy ). In this candid episode, we dive into what we got up to in Barcelona, Poppy's journey through sex chat rooms, and her experiences as an emo kid. Poppy opens up about her sexual awakening, being slut-shamed for the first time at 15, and the creative ways she used to ge...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Lily, co-founder of @quench_london , a unique queer party that centers people who are queer, kinky, of colour, trans, neurodivergent, disabled, and of all sizes. In this episode, we talk about who can attend Quench, what to expect when you walk through the doors, where you're allowed to play, and how they prioritize safety and inclusivity for e...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( ⁠@sexwithalexa⁠ ) is joined by Cydney ( ⁠@cydneythelight⁠ ) in this episode where they dive deep into postpartum body insecurities, bisexuality, and dating. Cydney opens up about her journey from being confident in her body before giving birth to hiding her body for 8 years after having her son at 19. They also discuss how her mom raised a confident daughter, but the lack...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Emma Richardson-Gerrard, CEO and founder of Knude Society , for a deep dive into her upbringing in the UK, where sex education was lacking, and how she’s changing that with her own daughter. Emma shares her story about her first boyfriend gifting her a vibrator, but never achieving an orgasm with him, and how she now advocates for introducing t...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by content creator Taiwo ( King TM ) for a candid conversation about sex education in the UK and his first masturbation experience. We explore how growing up with a single mom gave him the freedom to explore, and why he made a pact not to have sex until he was 16. Taiwo shares how he learned to be a good lover by asking his partners for feedback,...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Hani Dresner, founder of @gashtrays , a unique ceramics line focused on sex education. We dive into Hani’s upbringing in a naked household, how it shaped her body image journey, and what it was like growing up as the "weird kid" in school. Our conversation explores why sex education is so important, society’s obsession with big penises, the fas...

Kicking off Season 3! Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Jessica Stahl ( @vanillacooldance ), a sex-positive cartoonist and creative director. We dive into Jessica's mfm fantasy, her experience growing up in an open household, and how her mom gifting her her first vibrator shaped her advocacy for pleasure. Jessica shares her journey from anger at men to a place of curiosity, her...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Tara Michaela , a sex educator and founder of the Youth Sexpert Program . We dive deep into body image, sharing our personal experiences and discussing the importance of sensate focus and overcoming spectatoring. Tara offers insights on changing up your masturbation technique, the benefits of doing so, and why it's totally okay if you prefer st...

Sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Rachel Wright , a therapist, sex therapist, educator, and non-monogamy expert. We dive into the most common issues she sees in her sex therapy practice and her 4-step process for better communication with your partner. Rachel shares her unique journey as a pregnant woman with another pregnant wife, discussing body changes, hiring a doula, and f...

Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Goddess Bats , a versatile and empowering sex worker. We dive into their journey, starting with camming at 18 and transitioning to various facets of sex work, including findom. We uncover the realities behind porn productions, like where the lube bottles are and how performer collaborations actua...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Sarah Casper from @comprehensiveconsent , author of The Kids and Consent Curriculum , and consent educator. We dive deep into the concept of consent, exploring its different types and how to ask for it. Sarah explains why consent doesn't necessarily have to be sexy but should always be asked for anyway. We also tackle some gray...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Violet, an extremely lesbian-leaning bisexual and founder of Mesh , a queer event app in NYC. We dive into the world of queer dating, discussing how to pick up women (or non-cis men), how to approach, what to say, and where to go. Violet shares her insights on figuring out if someone is queer, handling rejection, and the differ...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Maybe Burke, a trans woman, artist and educator for an open and heartfelt conversation. We discuss her sexuality, orientation, identity, and expression journeys, and delve into her dating stories. Maybe shares how she stays safe as a trans woman and the unique challenges she faces. We also talk about the fact that she has never...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) hosts her first threesome on the podcast with Vee and Elle, hosts of the Girls Gone Deep podcast , besties and lovers. We dive into their ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journeys, recounting our experiences at Hedonism and the play party where Vee and I first met. Vee and Elle share how they met and their adventures in double penetration and dou...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Yair Lenchner, a private chef and husband to two pregnant wives (11 weeks apart), one of whom is sex therapist Rachel Wright. Yair shares his incredible journey from being a serial monogamist and cheater to embracing life as an open, polyamorous partner. We discuss how they’re navigating the pregnancies, what they plan to expla...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Cassie Black ( @safe.slut ), a sex educator, herpes advocate, and adult entertainer. We dive deep into the world of herpes, discussing whether your sex life is over after a diagnosis or if you can still be a safe and empowered slut. Cassie shares her personal story of discovering she had herpes, the stigma surrounding it, and t...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Cory Bush , a non-binary full spectrum doula and sex educator. In this episode, we explore the profound role of a full spectrum doula and the magical aspects of birth, challenging the notion that childbirth must be traumatic. Cory shares insights on why opt-out consent can be beneficial for neurodivergent individuals, and opens...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Portia Brown , a renowned sex coach and educator, for a candid discussion on the importance of vocalizing pleasure in the bedroom. Together, we explore techniques for performing during sex, advocating for your pleasure, and giving and receiving feedback to enhance intimacy and satisfaction. Join us as we delve into why silent s...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by the incredible Megan, known as @msgigggles , a fierce fat activist and self-proclaimed hottest whale in the ocean. Together, we embark on a journey of empowerment, discussing the nuances of reclaiming the word "fat" and challenging societal beauty standards. Megan fearlessly dives into the harsh reality of the fashion industry'...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Billy Procida , the host of The Manwhore Podcast and a seasoned comedian. In this revealing conversation, Billy opens up about his journey from growing up without sexual shame to becoming a figure in the world of sex positivity and comedy. We delve into other chapters of Billy's past, from enduring bullying up until graduating...

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Maxwell Fierce , a non-binary rope rigger, educator, performer, and tattoo artist, for a deep dive into the world of Shibari. Maxwell brings their wealth of experience to the table as we explore Shibari from every angle. We delve into the nitty-gritty of rope play, discussing how it serves as more than just a kink, but a pathwa...

Welcome to Season 2 of "In Bed With Alexa"! In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ) is joined by Dr. Varuna , a distinguished sexual health expert and Allure Magazine's sex columnist, as we delve deep into the realms of sexual discovery and self-acceptance. Dr. Varuna shares invaluable insights garnered from years of experience, covering a spectrum of topics. From the importance...

Welcome to a bonus solo episode of "In Bed With Alexa"! Today, I'm spilling all the juicy details from my recent swingers cruise adventure. I'm dishing on everyone I played with, from the 25 year old gorgeous bi woman to the oldest person I have played with. I'll give you the lowdown on the vibe of the ship, the activities that kept me entertained, and spill the tea on how easy (or not) it was to...