"I'm a Happy Enchilada"

Send us Fan Mail Another Necessary behavior in a Successful life is Consistency, whether in relationships, your personal life or your professional life. Maybe you just need a tune up or maybe you need an overhaul on consistency. Join us as we explore consistency. It's an important part of getting you to your dreams and goals. It can fast track your improvement or development in any area.

Send us Fan Mail In this episode we take a deep dive into probably the most important topic we have ever  covered . Creating your very own Life Plan is a crucial part of getting you to your life goals and fulfilling all your dreams. It can keep you from wasting precious time floundering around in life without a direction or purpose. A speedboat without a rudder won't reach its destination and...

Send us Fan Mail Whoa!!!! Another big topic to dive into!!!! Self sabotage is something many people continue to do without even knowing they are doing so. If you find your relationships ending in similar ways,  over and over again, you may be doing self sabotage in your life . Come join us and find out if that is correct, and if so, learn ways you can begin to get a handle on self sabotage in your...

Send us Fan Mail It's a RED HOT topic and can be a little SCARY. Jealousy is nothing to take lightly and especially in a relationship or marriage. It can turn ugly, even deadly, in a moments notice. We're going to pull the scab off of jealousy today and take a deep dive into it. If you're in a relationship with a jealous person, you may want to reconsider your choice. So come with u...

Send us Fan Mail Hi everyone! Today we take on Emotional overwhelm or just plain feeling overwhelmed. It's something many people suffer through from time to time and some quite often. Come with us on  our journey to find out what it's all about and ways to get that feeling of being overwhelmed under control in your life. And remember, CHANGE YOUR THINKING AND CHANGE YOUR LIFE!!!

Send us Fan Mail Failure is something we all fear and all will experience in one or more areas of life. Sometimes the fear of failure can be so strong,  it prevents people from going for their dreams just to avoid the possibility of failing. Today we look at failure and discover it doesn't have to be so scary, and learn ways we can lessen our fears. We also look at some positive aspects to fa...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome to "I'm a Happy Enchilada"! Today our topic is Dishonesty. Sometimes just having a good BS detector isn't enough. Join us as we discover more of what Dishonesty is and how you can find new ways to deal with dishonest people that come into your life. Also, see how lying can affect your physical health. I think you'll be surprised! You're always...

Send us Fan Mail Carrying any amount of Disappointment around with you everyday can be burdensome and hard on ones overall sense of well being. Letting Disappointments fester in your mind can eventually lead to regrets. Today we're diving into Disappointment and discovering easy ways to begin getting a handle on Disappointments, and with practice, getting them out of our minds and life, and g...

Send us Fan Mail Willpower is another of those "learned life skills" You will need if you're determined to live the life you want and deserve. Today we're going to take a good look at willpower and find out what it's all about . We will give you some great ways that you can  increase willpower in your life.  So, come join us and get your willpower on!

Send us Fan Mail Self discipline is described as the ability to push yourself forward, stay motivated, and take action, regardless of how you're feeling physically or emotionally. We learn that  self discipline gives you the power to stick to your decisions and follow through on them without changing your mind. It's one of the important requirements for achieving your goals. We also disc...

Send us Fan Mail Join us as we take a deep dive into "Envy". It's a powerful feeling that most people will feel sometime in their lifetime. We'll answer the question, is the feeling of envy the same as the feeling of jealousy? And learn what makes a person envious. We will look at ways you can begin to get a handle on envy in your life and keep you moving forward towards the li...

Send us Fan Mail We're going to take a deep dive into generosity, and find out what a generous life is and how you can live a more generous life everyday. You may be surprised to learn that being generous is a fantastic way to improve your mental health and well being! So, come along with us as we explore generosity "Enchilada Style"!

Send us Fan Mail Determination is very important because it enables us to persist in the face of difficulties. It makes us to march fearlessly ahead with faith until we reach our goal. Well, sometimes that is easier said than done, right? If you are finding yourself lacking motivation and determination, come join us as we explore "determination" and discover ways to overcome it and get y...

Send us Fan Mail Today we take a deep dive into guilt. It's something  all humans experience  when they say or do something that hurts others. If we take responsibility for our actions and sincerely apologize right away there's a good chance our apology will be  accepted and the guilt is diminished and all parties feel better. Feeling guilt when we do or say hurtful things helps to teach...

Send us Fan Mail Do you know the difference between lying and deception? Or that answering  questions with  questions is a form of deception? Deception is becoming a prevalent part of our everyday life . Best to be informed and aware of deception and no better place to become aware of deception and dozens of other topics that effect your everyday life and may keep you from the amazing life you des...

Send us Fan Mail Today our topic is dealing with temptation in a relationship, and ooh baby ooh, that's a barn burner topic for sure. Come on along and see where this journey takes us. One thing for sure, it's bound to be eye opening !!! Some of what we found out will strike a nerve in someone, and that someone might be you! So,  let's go check out  temptation "Enchilada Style&...

Send us Fan Mail So, here's a topic we can all relate to! We aren't given a life manual that tells us how to live a fulfilling and happy life when we are born into this world. We learn from our parents, teachers, family members, and by observation of others about how to behave and treat others. I guess it's safe to say we learn as we go, sometimes doing life right and sometimes maki...

Send us Fan Mail Reaching a healthy compromise in your marriage, love relationship, and all other areas of life leads to a more peaceful and fulfilling life. Compromise is a skill that you can be developed  over time by first learning what it is all about and then learning how you can improve your compromising skills. Today we take a deep dive into compromise and share several ways to a successful...

Send us Fan Mail Today we look at commitment. It's a topic that can cause angst and make it difficult for us to  make a truly honest assessment of our own degree of personal commitment in life for sure. We'll learn some tips to help us to stay committed in a relationship and ways to communicate your commitment to your partner. Come join us and be a Happy  Enchilada.

Send us Fan Mail It seems as though we don't think much about keeping a good balance in our lives until we realize we are way out of balance and need to get back into a good balance once again. Today we take a good look at balance and share some insight into balance and some great ideas on how to improve the balance in our lives and easy ways to maintain a healthy work-life balance. So, dive...

Send us Fan Mail Now here's a topic we can all relate to. The mention of criticism brings back negative memories of situations when we received criticism over something and immediately became defensive and angry as we felt we were being attacked personally whether we really were or not. Today we're taking a good look at Criticism and finding ways to deal with it without having to get ang...

Send us Fan Mail So, how are you doing with authenticity in your life? Join us for a journey into authenticity and see how you measure up in a world where being authentic matters. We'll give you not only food for thought but ways that you can improve authenticity in your daily life as well as being able to  better see how authentic the people in your life really are. It's an eye opening...

Send us Fan Mail Hi Everyone, Here's a topic that matters to all of us whether in our relationships, our everyday life or in financial matters. Taking risks strikes fear into the hearts of many. It's the uncertainty and unknowing of the outcome from taking a risk that can leave us paralyzed and unable to act. Come with us as we take a deep dive into taking risks and find out what it&apos...

Send us Fan Mail So, are you using your Gifts & Talents? Do you even know what your Gifts & Talents are yet? Knowing your gifts & talents and actually using them in your daily life can open up a new world of opportunity for success  in your career and your personal life. Come take a deep dive with us and increase your awareness of this important life changing topic.

Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Enchilada we take a look at Hopefulness & Hopelessness and offer several suggestions to improve your sense of hope. The word Hope covers a lot of ground. Going from the hopeful, who is defined as a person who is likely to succeed. You're optimistic. You think it's going to turn out ok. To the hopeless who is described as a person who has no expecta...