I'll Have What She's Having with Kris Hall

Hello my loves—and welcome to I’ll Have What She’s Having! Formerly known as Reclaim Your Radiance, this podcast is your walking, talking permission slip to have wild, mind-blowing sex… and claim a life that turns. you. on. Because around here? We don’t do “meh.” We do multi-orgasmic, heart-thumping, soul-expanding, “I can’t believe this is my life” kind of vibes. Whether you’re craving sacred sex...

Ladies, you want your man to hear this.  People who want to experience more masculine and feminine energies in their relationships - who wonder how to initiate that spark - of sexiness, of tantalizing desire, of push and pull in the never-ending dance of lust - what you’re looking for is polarity.  In this episode, special guest ‘Captain C’, the co-author of the book of erotic poetry 'Sweet &a...

Let’s add some magic to your dating life! Or as our guest Dasha likes to call it, Dating in the Transpersonal.  In this episode, we explore what’s needed in dating to get to a place where you are attracting the spicy relationship of your dreams. We talk about how to connect to your intuition to make more aligned dating choices. And how to do the deep work required to get to the place where you are...

Who’s ready for the most splendid and expansive orgasms of their life?! This June we are talking about orgasms, and not just ordinary orgasms (or climaxes), but Joygasms, and full body orgasms, and creating your own new kind of orgasms! Learn how to orgasm from any part of your body! Orgasiming in ways that you didn’t even know was possible. Orgasming so many times, that you think you might die......

Let’s talk about death! And grief, and loss, and the profound transformation that can occur in the aftermath of large shifts and losing parts of ourselves. Maybe it’s not a person you lost, maybe it’s a relationship, a hope, a dream, or a physical ability… we all experience loss. But the question is, how do you deal with it? And how do we help loved ones through it? Speaking with us today is Death...

Welcome to the world of Kink! What does kinky mean to you? Does it intrigue you? Do you consider yourself a kinky person already? To our guest, Becca, the host of podcast ‘Kinky in the Real World’, it means that she’s a sexual explorer. Ready to discover and try new things in the world of sex!   Listen in to hear some outrageous stories that you didn’t know that you needed in your life, learn abou...

What do women wish that men knew about their pleasure?  In the conclusion of this two-parter episode, discover the truth of what pussy-owners wish that their lovers knew. It may not always be easy to hear, but it is well worth learning what really gets us going!   Do you love pussies and want to increase your ability to please them? Then this one is for you.   These episodes are a celebration of w...

What do women want? This question has plagued philosophers for centuries. And now we are finally in a place where we can just ask! What brings women pleasure? We cannot speak for all women, but we can let them speak for themselves and for their individual & unique desires. Maybe you want to feel like your desires are normal, or maybe you’re curious so that you can become the most magnificent l...

Happy Holidays! Listen in as host Kris Hall speaks about the greatest lesson she learnt this year. The truth and value and POWER of acceptance. In short - deep, authentic, acceptance is the first and most essential step to transforming your life and healing in order to move forward. Listen in to find out why.  This episode gets into what acceptance really is, why a state of non-acceptance can be s...

Today we are joined by psychologist & clinical councilor Deborah Buthmann, who’s practice focuses mainly on anxiety, trauma counseling, and relationships.  Have you ever wondered why your ex had a tendency to pull away when things got tough in your relationship? Maybe instead they came in too close and smothered you with too much attention when they felt threatened?  These tendencies and more...

Let’s talk about sex!  It is so much more than just orgasms and toys. It is an intimate connection to yourself, your body, your energy, and your emotions. It is an act of self-expression. An act of creation. Not something that’s happening to you, or something that you feel you should do. But something that feels like it has the power to transform you.  Today we are speaking about using your sensua...

When you hear the term ‘masculine’  do you think of men, or do you think of the masculine energy that is present in all things? When you hear the term ‘feminine’ do you think of women, or do you think of feminine energy?  Our present day society and many of our cultures have taken the masculine and feminine energies and conflated them with the physical and biological genders / sexes that we were b...

RYR - Travel Edition! Join Kris on her travels through northern Alaska as she discusses how traveling helps you discover who you are and what you want. Travel is the ultimate kick that can shift us out of a sticky-stuck place and into realizing our dreams.  The biggest thing that often holds people back is a lack of clarity on what they actually want. It takes a lot of practice (or sometimes a tem...

Are you single and ready to mingle? Are you dating and looking for support? Or do you feel like dating is your worst nightmare and you just want to find what you’re looking for already! Wherever you’re at, we’ve got you.  In this episode we explore what it looks like to consciously and intentionally navigate dating in 2023. We all know what a minefield it can be. We all hear the cliché's tosse...

How well a person communicates is one of the sexiest things about them. Am I right? Even if you don’t agree, it is still one of the most important aspects of any relationship. And communication isn’t just what you are putting out, it is about how much understanding is created between the people involved.  One of the most effective and widespread tools for effective communication is a body of work...

Do you have the sex life that you desire? Do you feel as though you are connecting fully with your partner(s)? Do you experience the kind of ecstatic pleasure that you desire? Or do you feel like there’s something missing? Are you stuck in your stuck in your head, and feel like you’re not able to fully drop into your sexual experiences? If this sounds like you at all, I encourage you to explore fo...

When should a relationship last, and when should it not? When should you push through and work on a relationship, and how do you know when it’s time to let it go and move on? When should you seek a relationship that is more nourishing and fulfilling and brings more happiness to your life? Or is that not what you’re seeking in relationship? Do you want happiness? Longevity? Growth? Comfort? Compani...

How do you express and communicate your love and affection? Are you being intentional with the way in which you show your love? Does your partner or the person you’re communicating with receive love in the same way that you give it? By now, a lot of us know about the 5 love languages that were discussed in Gary Chapman’s book. But are there others that are specific to you? Have you told your partn...

Ugh, relationships. They are hard, messy, complicated, and one of the most rewarding things you will ever do with your life. Join host Kris and her guest Westley on a journey through the topics and ideas put forth by the book ‘More Than Two’ by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux. More Than Two is much more than a book about ethical non-monogamy. It expertly navigates some of the toughest and most nuan...

Congratulations! You’ve ended your relationship. That means a whole lot of personal growth is now headed your way. But first, it’s time to give yourself the space to fall apart if you need to, and then pick yourself back up again and start the healing process. Here to help you are Dani and Kris. Dani Benson, the author of Whine Wednesdays - loves breakups. They are a time of transformation and gro...

Welcome to SEASON 2 of Reclaim Your Radiance! Today, host Kris Hall is joined by Sean Galla, a 37 year old cis-white-man who currently lives on Vancouver Island, in Canada. He’s a surfer, an ex-pro DJ, a men’s coach, a serial entrepreneur, the founder of MensGroup.com (see the link below!) - and so much more. Listen in to hear about what environment is necessary to help men to open up and be vulne...

Listen in for a vivid and honest first hand account of what a decade of silence after a childhood sexual assault from a trusted parent figure feels like. This week our guest Vanessa, a queer woman of colour, explains how she broke her silence and fought in court in order to help her heal from childhood traumas. Topics include why she kept her silence, what finally changed her mind, what steps she...

From magazines to social media, will we ever escape the unfair dichotomies of societal expectations on women? Well, we really don’t know. But in the meantime we can at least have a little laugh! Join in as comedian and serial entrepreneur Rebecca Rochon provides an upbeat account of how she has handled a variety of societal pressures, business moves, and the ongoing pressures of social media. Hear...

Have you ever felt like the school system wasn’t designed for you? Have you ever felt as though your brain simply doesn’t seem to work like others do? Have you ever had a chronic condition that lay silent and un-diagnosable for years and no one seemed to take you seriously for it? You’re not alone! Join in this week as Kris speaks to special guest Julianna about her life as a demisexual woman, fac...

Are you exhibiting unhealthy behavior in your sex & love life? Are you waiting for the relationship that is going to “fix” you? Are you using sex like a drug? Do you have a pattern of repeating unhealthy relationships? Are you afraid that deep down you are unacceptable? These are just a few of the questions discussed in this week’s episode of Reclaim Your Radiance! Join in as host Kris Hall di...