I'll Have What She's Having with Kris Hall

What happens when a relationship ends… but the connection doesn’t? In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, I sit down with my former partner Graham.   And we get into the real reason we broke up, why it didn’t work between us, and how we’ve transformed our relationship in the 8 months since it happened.  This break up shook my world. We had been quite serious about moving towards co-habita...

Kink. Power. Control.  Not exactly words most people associate with healing… But what if they should? In this episode, I sit down with Bear Phillips, and Intimacy Coach & Touch Therapist, to explore the world of conscious kink. Power dynamics, real consent, Daddy energy, creating cultures of repair, and deeper levels of safety.  In this episode - we reframe intimacy in a way you may never have...

Affairs. Infidelity. Desire. Not exactly the conversations most people are having openly… but maybe we should be. In this episode, I sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison — the world’s most well-known platform for people in committed relationships seeking discreet connections. And before you jump to conclusions… this conversation might surprise you. With over a decade...

What if your sex life didn’t decline with age… but actually got better? In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Julie Merriman - therapist, author, and host of Sexy After 50 - and we’re dismantling one of the biggest myths women have been sold: that desire fades, pleasure disappears, and your most alive, turned-on years are behind you. Spoiler: they’re not. With nearly 30 years of experience, Dr. Julie...

What happens when AI stops being a tool and starts becoming something we connect with… intimately? In this episode, I sit down with psychotherapist and researcher Angela Ivy Leong to explore the rapidly emerging world of AI companions - and what it means for intimacy, relationships, and the human experience. Angela brings a deeply grounded and nuanced perspective, drawing from her work in psychoth...

What does it actually mean to be a leader? Not in the traditional sense - not titles, status, or authority… But in how you live, choose, and show up in your life. In this episode, we explore the concept of embodied leadership - a way of leading that comes from your body, your intuition, and your deepest values. Because the truth is: You don’t need a position of power to be a leader. You’re already...

This is the final episode in the 3-part Orgasmic Mastery series - and this time we’re talking about the mastery itself.  Essentially: what do you do with sexual energy once you’ve learned how to build it up? What else is possible? Yes, we can experience exquisite pleasure, but we can also harness the energy for wellness, creation, and healing.  This episode is also essential for when you have SO m...

Welcome back to I’ll Have What She’s Having — and Part 2 of our 3-part orgasm series. Part 1 was about reclaiming your orgasm… this episode is about expanding it. This is where sex stops being something you do — and starts becoming a state you enter. We’re diving into Orgasmic Expansion: how to move beyond goal-oriented sex, redefine what orgasm actually is, and unlock deeper, fuller, more powerfu...

Welcome to the first episode of a powerful 3-part series on orgasms, pleasure, and sexual confidence. If you’ve ever wondered: Why can’t I orgasm? Why doesn’t sex turn me on the way I want it to? Am I broken? Am I normal? How do I have better sex? This episode is where your answers begin. In Part 1: Orgasmic Reclamation, we’re starting at the foundation - because better sex doesn’t begin with perf...

What if sex was more than performance… more than release… more than “getting it right”? In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, I’m joined by Gayatri Beegan - an erotic mystic, initiatrix, and Sacred Sexuality Guide - for a deep, honest, and expansive conversation about sexual energy, desire, power, and pleasure - especially through the lens of men’s sexuality and how it impacts our relati...

Why doesn’t sex turn me on — even when I love my partner, want intimacy, and want to enjoy sex? In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having , I’m joined by nervous system healing and expansion coach Catherine Hale to unpack one of the most common — and misunderstood — questions women ask about their sex lives. If you’ve ever felt: Low desire or inconsistent libido Disconnected or numb during se...

The holidays have a way of bringing everything to the surface - desire, grief, longing, overwhelm, comparison… and yes, your sex life too. In this special year-end episode, I invite you into an erotic year in review - not to judge, fix, or optimize your sex life, but to actually listen to what it’s been trying to teach you. I open up vulnerably about my own year: what sex revealed to me about my b...

Get ready for a wildly honest, deeply entertaining, and shamelessly sexy conversation with Tash Doherty , the writer behind Misseducated — the sex blog that’s blowing up the internet with raw stories about orgasms, vibrators, porn, kink, intimacy, and everything your sex ed class should’ve taught you. In this episode, we dive into: ✨ The power of sex writing to transform your confidence, your des...

In this solo episode, Kris takes you inside her full Sex Magic workshop - the exact ritual she teaches at retreats and festivals - and shows you how to use your erotic energy as rocket fuel for your desires. Download your free audio + PDF guide to try Sex Magic on your own: https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic   You’ll learn: ✨ What Sex Magic actually is (and what it’s not) ✨ The neuroscience + som...

Womb wisdom. Ancestral healing. Emotional liberation. In this powerful, womb-erful episode, we are joined by Dr. Irene Sanchez Celis - a Mexican-born medical doctor, Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioner, acupuncturist, womb healer, and multidisciplinary feminine-wisdom teacher with over 20 years of experience guiding women back into their bodies. Together, we explore the real medicine women a...

Ever wished your partner could read your mind in bed? Yeah… me too! Here’s the next best thing.  Great sex and deep intimacy don’t come from guessing games. They come from communication. In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having, we’re diving into bedroom talk that actually works - the kind that builds connection, passion, and safety (not awkward tension). You’ll learn: The 5 communication ha...

How do you know if you’re in a sex cult? It’s harder to recognize than you think.  In this episode we start with our special guest’s journey to sexual empowerment through embodiment and pleasure (after escaping a Tantra cult) - and then land in deep conversations about:  How to spot red flags and avoid falling into unsafe Tantra communities Why embodiment (not quick fixes) is the key to sustainabl...

What if the secret to mind-blowing sex, deeper intimacy, and total sexual confidence is already in your hands? Literally. In this episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having , we’re diving into masturbation as medicine — or as I like to call it, your pleasure practice . Just like yoga, this is your daily playground, testing ground, and training ground for becoming a more turned-on, confident, and orgas...

What does it really take to thrive in consensual non-monogamy? In this episode, I’m joined by Megan Veaudry, founder of Non-Monogamy Coaching Vancouver, to explore the art of erotic autonomy and how it can transform your relationships, whether you’re solo, partnered, or part of a polycule. We dive deep into: The difference between emotional & sexual exclusivity How erotic autonomy fuels aliven...

Let’s talk about dating! More specifically, conscious dating leading into conscious relationships. How do you find, create, & nurture a relationship that is completely aligned with who you are and what you want? What is your intention with dating? What are you hoping to get out of it?  Fall in love with the process, and even more in love with yourself through the process.  The answer to ‘what...

Welcome to your essential guide to sex toys.  Today we discuss: materials, lubes, proper washing techniques, yoni eggs, crystal/pleasure wands, vibrators (and why they’re the worst), and butt plugs.  We also give you practical take-home exercises to use with yoni eggs and crystal wands for healing, deepening sensation, and developing a deeper relationship with your body.  Did you know if you pick...

Every man needs to hear this. If you are a man looking to be an extraordinary lover - you need to hear this. And if you are a woman looking for insights into what men go through in their sexual journeys - this is also for you. Today we talk not only about the 8 steps to becoming a sexually liberated man, but also about the biggest issues that face men’s sexuality today. To give you a little sneak...

Better sex does not require fancy toys, lingerie, or a new partner!  In this episode, I’m sharing the 5 most foundational tools for better, deeper, more connected sex—whether you're flying solo or diving in with a lover. These are the same tools I use in my own sex life and with my coaching clients to create mind-blowing intimacy, unleash full-body orgasms, and turn up the dial on pleasure in a gr...

Ready to turn the heat way up in your relationship? In this episode, I’m joined by Nicola Navon—Relationship Communication & Leadership Coach, expert in masculine/feminine dynamics, and host of the Divine Union Podcast.  Together we explore how to build passion that actually lasts—and how to dance in the delicious polarity that fuels true desire. We cover: What polarity actually is—and why it’...

Welcome to the very FIRST episode of I’ll Have What She’s Having!! The show that’s here to boldly remind you that your pleasure is your power - and that you deserve to live your best life. In this debut solocast, I’m pulling back the curtain on why I rebranded this podcast (formerly Reclaim Your Radiance), how I went from being an environmental engineer to a sex coach, and what the secret is to re...