Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Do you have a runaway wife? Yes that's actually a thing, in fact it's something most of the men in my community have experienced at some point, sometimes multiple times. In this episode I talk with a good friend of mine who has come through the pain and difficulties of the end of a marriage and what he learned along the way that helped him most. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mind...

Are you in a struggling marriage trying to avoid divorce or facing a period of separation from your wife? Are you feeling incredibly anxious and scared of what this all means and trying to find some useful and practical advice as to how to handle this horrible situation? In this episode I talk with Rachel Slone about the things we teach men in our coaching that help them not only turn around strug...

Do you feel anxious when your wife is upset? Do you struggle to be around her and start imagining what she must be upset with YOU for? In this episode I talk about why the anxiety happens what causes it and what you can do to change that and create more of what you want in your marriage. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply...

Has your wife said she doesn't trust you? Yet you haven't cheated or abused her, so what's going on and how do you rebuild lost trust in a long term relationship or marriage? In this episode I talk about the reasons that this happens and what you need to understand to be able to start moving the relationship back towards trust, safety, connection and love again. In our coaching, we help men get a...

Is your marriage heading towards divorce? How can you tell? Are there any signs to look out for? I know you can feel when things are struggling, less connected, less understanding and less of a team front....but how can you KNOW you're on a collision path with the end of the marriage? In this episode I talk about the "scientifically researched" by John Gottman - number one indicator that you are o...

Are you struggling with feeling jealous of another man, or feeling jealousy about your wife and the things that are getting her attention that aren't you? I get it brother - I have felt this many time for long periods of my life. In this episode I talk about what jealousy looks and feels like, what creates it and how to think about it in a way that will enable you to start feeling better straight...

Looking for some marriage advice for men specifically? If you want more trust & intimacy in your relationship, learning how being defensive is ruining the trust and connection in your marriage is key. In this episode I talk about what defensiveness is, what it's not, what it looks like and sounds like, how it poisons your relationship and how to change your behavior now and start doing somethi...

Men marriage & sex is a podcast episode we recorded with Janna Denton-Howes - If you're a married man and you want a connected, fun, passionate, full and rich relationship then this recent podcast episode has a load of information that you may find useful. Janna is a coach for women who want the same from their marriage, she empowers women to know what they want and to be able to speak up for...

You always make it about you...arrrggghhh!! Does that sound familiar? Have you heard those exact words come from your wife's mouth? She's upset and that makes you nervous and then you get frustrated with her moodiness and a big argument followed by the silent treatment ensues. In this episode I explain what's happening here and how to handle this kind of situation differently, in a way that allows...

Are you in an unhappy marriage where your feeling disrespected, rejected and ignored? Maybe you're wishing for more honesty, more connection, closeness, consideration and intimacy? In this episode I talk about the two most powerful coaching words I know - and yes, I use these on myself ALL THE TIME!! In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connec...

Do you want to improve the intimacy in your marriage? Is your relationship lacking intimacy affection & sex? Are you thinking about it all the time and feeling generally frustrated, pissed off and confused how to rebuild the connection between you? In this episode I talk about the common thing we do that sabotages the intimate connection, the trust and the good feelings required for flirting,...

Do you want to feel more confident in your marriage? Are you feeling anxious and fearful that your marriage is headed downhill and there's nothing you can do right to turn it around? In this episode I explain the confidence draining habit so many of us men have that is ruining your ability to feel confident in yourself again and start leading your life and relationship back towards, connection, fu...

You're emotionally unavailable! So many of the men I speak to have heard this phrase which often comes directly from your wife's therapist (even though she's never met you) or from a book your wife is reading. In this episode I talk about how to tell whether you really are being emotionally unavailable and how it affects the intimacy and connection in a long-term relationship or marriage. In our c...

Do you want to feel confident in yourself as a man, as a father, as a husband, as a lover and as a leader in everything you do in life? In this episode I talk about a very common mistake we make as men when trying to find our self confidence and self worth, especially in marriage and long term relationships. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love an...

Is your wife giving you the silent treatment? Does it create huge amounts of anxiety and fear or anger in you? In this episode I explain what stonewalling and the silent treatment are, the effect they have on you and your relationship as well as what they are not and how to respond to it confidently. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connec...

If you're like most of the men we talk to, you want intimacy with your wife or partner - it's something you're feeling is missing and it's also a friction point in your relationship. In this episode I talk about the mistake nearly all men make in how we create more intimacy in our lives and relationships and how to change that starting today! In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset...

Do you want a more affectionate marriage? Are you lacking confidence in yourself and in your wife feeling attracted to you? In this episode I talk about the importance of confidence in creating connection, passion and attraction in long-term relationships and what causes us to lose our confidence. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect m...

When you've heard your partner say that she doesn't trust you, it's imperative that you learn what to do to start rebuilding trust with your wife. In this episode I talk about the reasons that she doesn't trust you right now that might surprise you because they are much more subtle than most men think - and of course, what you can start doing right away to start building the trust with her again....

Are you stuck in a sexless marriage or an affectionless marriage? Do you Want Your Wife To Want Sex With You Again but every time you initiate you get knocked back or rejected and it hurts. In this episode I talk about a little known but incredibly important factor in your sex life which can create desire and attraction in your wife or can cause her to avoid intimacy with you like the plague. In o...

Do you find yourself suffering in your sexless marriage? Are you wishing for more connection and intimacy but feel like you're the only one? In this episode I talk about the cause of this endless suffering and how to think about it differently so that no matter how much intimacy, connection, affection and sex you have in your marriage, you always feel happy and confident in yourself. Want more sex...

Want to attract your wife and have more fun, connection, passion and intimacy again? Are you in a marriage with a lack of affection, lack of respect, lack of desire and intimacy? In this episode I talk about one of the foundational teachings we give to men to help them find their passion, direction and self confidence again. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you...

Want to understand how to be a courageous, attractive man? Are you living in an unhappy, miserable marriage with a wife who is cold and distant, snarky and disrespectful? Maybe you're dealing with infidelity and a lack of openness, vulnerability and honesty. In this episode I talk about the one thing that men in your situation need to do BEFORE choosing to end a relationship. Afterwards, if you do...

Are you struggling with negative feelings from your sexless marriage? Or perhaps you've recently found out about an affair or a possible redundancy and it's overwhelming you with emotions. In this episode I talk about the role that your thoughts and being aware of how your focus is either helping you or hindering you being able to change what's happening - and how to calm down those overwhelming f...

Are you in an unhappy, miserable, sexless, cold bitchy marriage? Want to know if your marriage is worth saving? In this episode I talk about the essential clarity that a man must find BEFORE he makes his next best decision whether that be to start or leave a marriage. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're fina...

When dealing with a sex starved relationship or sexless marriage, trust and attraction are the keys to building more safety, more emotional connection and more intimacy. In this episode I talk about the important skill of owning your emotions (not projecting them onto her) and being willing to talk about them openly and honestly - because she's feeling them anyway, so if you pretend they're not th...