Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Is your marriage driving you insane and making you unhappy all the time? Do you find yourself thinking about it and feeling frustrated and anxious about it a lot? In this episode I talk about where happiness and unhappiness really come from and how we give up our ability to create a happy marriage by placing our well being and sense of self on our wives and our relationships. In our coaching, we h...

Are you frustrated with your sexless marriage? Are you the only one who seems bothered by the lack of connection, affection and intimacy between you? In this episode we discuss how men go about "getting" sex in the wrong ways that often cause her to pull away further and make you feel like crap and what to think and do differently. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empow...

Are you frustrated by your sex life? Does thinking about your relationship give you a feeling of anxiety and fear? In this episode I talk about how I struggle to follow other people's instructions on how to drive, how to diet, how to meditate and yes, how to have a better sex life, and I mention a recording I made to show people how I get myself calm, centred, grounded and confident. Let me know i...

Covered in this podcast episode: The havoc insecurity wreaks on dates and relationships, and how to create secure bonds Covert contracts – the transactional idea that if you do what someone else wants, they’ll give you what you want The lack of male role models in love The poison of expectation, entitlement, judgment, pressure, and resentment The story of Steve’s coach telling him: “You’re not yet...

Are you in an unhappy marriage where your feeling disrespected, rejected and ignored? Maybe you're wishing for more honesty, more connection, closeness, consideration and intimacy? In this episode I talk about the two most powerful coaching words I know - and yes, I use these on myself ALL THE TIME!! In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connec...

No affection in your marriage? Want to understand why trust and emotional safety is required before she can be affectionate and attracted to you? In this episode I talk about what we do in relationships that damages the affection and attraction with our partner and what you can do to avoid it in the future. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and...

Do you want to improve the intimacy in your marriage? Is your relationship lacking intimacy affection & sex? Are you thinking about it all the time and feeling generally frustrated, pissed off and confused how to rebuild the connection between you? In this episode I talk about the common thing we do that sabotages the intimate connection, the trust and the good feelings required for flirting,...

Is your wife giving you the silent treatment? Does it create huge amounts of anxiety and fear or anger in you? In this episode I explain what stonewalling and the silent treatment are, the effect they have on you and your relationship as well as what they are not and how to respond to it confidently. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connec...

Is your marriage heading towards divorce? How can you tell? Are there any signs to look out for? I know you can feel when things are struggling, less connected, less understanding and less of a team front....but how can you KNOW you're on a collision path with the end of the marriage? In this episode I talk about the "scientifically researched" by John Gottman - number one indicator that you are o...

When you've heard your partner say that she doesn't trust you, it's imperative that you learn what to do to start rebuilding trust with your wife. In this episode I talk about the reasons that she doesn't trust you right now that might surprise you because they are much more subtle than most men think - and of course, what you can start doing right away to start building the trust with her again....

Looking for some marriage advice for men specifically? If you want more trust & intimacy in your relationship, learning how being defensive is ruining the trust and connection in your marriage is key. In this episode I talk about what defensiveness is, what it's not, what it looks like and sounds like, how it poisons your relationship and how to change your behavior now and start doing somethi...

Has your wife said she doesn't trust you? Yet you haven't cheated or abused her, so what's going on and how do you rebuild lost trust in a long term relationship or marriage? In this episode I talk about the reasons that this happens and what you need to understand to be able to start moving the relationship back towards trust, safety, connection and love again. In our coaching, we help men get a...

You're emotionally unavailable! So many of the men I speak to have heard this phrase which often comes directly from your wife's therapist (even though she's never met you) or from a book your wife is reading. In this episode I talk about how to tell whether you really are being emotionally unavailable and how it affects the intimacy and connection in a long-term relationship or marriage. In our c...

Do you find yourself suffering in your sexless marriage? Are you wishing for more connection and intimacy but feel like you're the only one? In this episode I talk about the cause of this endless suffering and how to think about it differently so that no matter how much intimacy, connection, affection and sex you have in your marriage, you always feel happy and confident in yourself. Want more sex...

Do you feel anxious when your wife is upset? Do you struggle to be around her and start imagining what she must be upset with YOU for? In this episode I talk about why the anxiety happens what causes it and what you can do to change that and create more of what you want in your marriage. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply...

Do you want a more affectionate marriage? Are you lacking confidence in yourself and in your wife feeling attracted to you? In this episode I talk about the importance of confidence in creating connection, passion and attraction in long-term relationships and what causes us to lose our confidence. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect m...

If you're like most of the men we talk to, you want intimacy with your wife or partner - it's something you're feeling is missing and it's also a friction point in your relationship. In this episode I talk about the mistake nearly all men make in how we create more intimacy in our lives and relationships and how to change that starting today! In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset...

Is your wife giving you the silent treatment? Does it create huge amounts of anxiety and fear or anger in you? In this episode I explain what stonewalling and the silent treatment are, the effect they have on you and your relationship as well as what they are not and how to respond to it confidently. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connec...

Want to attract your wife and have more fun, connection, passion and intimacy again? Are you in a marriage with a lack of affection, lack of respect, lack of desire and intimacy? In this episode I talk about one of the foundational teachings we give to men to help them find their passion, direction and self confidence again. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you...

Are you in an unhappy marriage where your feeling disrespected, rejected and ignored? Maybe you're wishing for more honesty, more connection, closeness, consideration and intimacy? In this episode I talk about the two most powerful coaching words I know - and yes, I use these on myself ALL THE TIME!! In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connec...

Do you have a runaway wife? Yes that's actually a thing, in fact it's something most of the men in my community have experienced at some point, sometimes multiple times. In this episode I talk with a good friend of mine who has come through the pain and difficulties of the end of a marriage and what he learned along the way that helped him most. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mind...

Are you struggling with feeling jealous of another man, or feeling jealousy about your wife and the things that are getting her attention that aren't you? I get it brother - I have felt this many time for long periods of my life. In this episode I talk about what jealousy looks and feels like, what creates it and how to think about it in a way that will enable you to start feeling better straight...

Do you want to feel more confident in your marriage? Are you feeling anxious and fearful that your marriage is headed downhill and there's nothing you can do right to turn it around? In this episode I explain the confidence draining habit so many of us men have that is ruining your ability to feel confident in yourself again and start leading your life and relationship back towards, connection, fu...

You always make it about you...arrrggghhh!! Does that sound familiar? Have you heard those exact words come from your wife's mouth? She's upset and that makes you nervous and then you get frustrated with her moodiness and a big argument followed by the silent treatment ensues. In this episode I explain what's happening here and how to handle this kind of situation differently, in a way that allows...

Are you stuck in a sexless marriage or an affectionless marriage? Do you Want Your Wife To Want Sex With You Again but every time you initiate you get knocked back or rejected and it hurts. In this episode I talk about a little known but incredibly important factor in your sex life which can create desire and attraction in your wife or can cause her to avoid intimacy with you like the plague. In o...