Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

I speak to many men asking themselves how they can know if they should get divorced or stay married. They tell me stories about their relationship and what they want and we dig into the details of what causes the breakdown in the passion and care that is currently missing. In this episode I talk about the key question to ask yourself before making the decision to stay married or get divorced. In o...

If you want a happy, Sexual Marriage, there are some things we men have to learn to create the kind of feelings in our wives that make them want to be sexual with us. In this episode I talk about the kind of men that women find attractive and why, plus what does that mean for you and your ability to lead your marriage to more passion, more desire, more intimacy and yes, more sex. In our coaching,...

Are you miserable in your marriage? Does it feel like your once loving and kind partner is now an insecure, chronically controlling and critical wife? In this episode I talk about the most common reason that makes women (and men) overly negative, critical, grumpy and controlling when in a romantic relationship or long term marriage. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empo...

Has your wife or girlfriend told you you're being too needy? Did it piss you off or confuse you? Maybe she's been less available or less affectionate recently and so you're wanting to get closer to her, spend more time with her, be more intimate with her... In this episode I talk about the way we get into relationships and find ourselves becoming too dependent and yes needy of the other person's a...

Are you predicting the future of your marriage all the time? Do you spend way too much time thinking about, worrying about and imagining what your wife is thinking about you and your relationship? In this episode I talk about the most powerful influence in the happiness and success of your marriage and how you can use it to relax, stop worrying and start enjoying your life again. In our coaching,...

Are you suffering from a fear of uncertainty? Would you like to learn how to be a calm, peaceful, confident man - for the rest of your life, no matter how your circumstances change? In this episode I talk about the core of our work with men and why so many men are stuck living as an unhappy, uncertain, unfocused man. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give...

Have you felt or been called needy? I know how that hurts brother, I've been there. What if I told you there is a guaranteed way for you to become so confident in yourself that you become irresistible to women and yes even to a woman who's been married to you for 10, 20 30 or more years - would you want to know more? In this episode I talk about the attributes that a man must work on in himself to...

Do you fear rejection when initiating sex with your wife? Do you lie next to her at night wanting to reach out but then convince yourself not to because you hate being turned down? Or maybe you still try but the reaction from her is so painful...? In this episode I talk about the perfect time to initiate sex with your wife or girlfriend and why it changes everything in all areas of your life too....

Do you want to fix your relationship but you fear confrontation and making things worse? In this episode I talk about a fundamental of good leadership and why the approach of many marriage counselling professionals where they focus on problems is creating the opposite of what you want. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply b...

Are you lacking motivation? Are you feeling lonely low and like a big fat blob of unworthiness? In this episode I talk about the reasons we men can get into that mode of thinking and being and how to help yourself get out of that mode for good. Go here to join us in the Roundtable. I'll get an email to tell me you've joined and we'll be connected immediately. https://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys...

Are you in an unhappy marriage? Do you spend much of your time analysing and trying to work out the "reasons" why it's crappy and who's to blame? In this episode I talk about a story where one person decided to end the analysis and blaming and instead chose to intentionally create the opportunity for a better, more accepting, more loving connection - today. Who knows what will happen tomorrow and...

Are you stuck in a boring life and marriage? Do you feel like a powerful man or are you feeling lethargic and passive? A bit comfy, unmotivated and bloated.... In this episode I talk about the choice we have to find our fire, our drive and motivation and how important it is for us to feel powerful in our ability to lead the spark and passion in your life and relationship. In our coaching, we help...

What do men want from women? I know most of you will answer that with the word "sex" right....but in my years of work with wonderful, amazing, big hearted, high achieving men, I've found that that's just a small part of what we really want (and it turns out women want it from men too!) In this episode I talk about the incredible effect a woman can have on a man without anything sexual happening at...

Are you struggling in your relationship? Would you like to learn how to lead better and create a happier marriage? What if I could guarantee to you that you would have a happier relationship...would you think that is worth trying? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first....

Are you feeling anxious and nervous around your wife? Have you heard her say that you're being needy or being smothering and annoying? Hurts doesn't it...? In this episode I talk about a simple analogy I use often in the coaching I do with men to help a guy move out of the needy, anxious mode and into a calmer, more deliberate, more confident belief about himself and his future. In our coaching, w...

Has your marriage become stale and sexless? Have you heard her say that she is feeling a loss of attraction to you? In this episode I talk about the single most unattractive thing that men in long-term relationships do that causes their wives to lose attraction and desire for them. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply becau...

Have you heard from your wife that you're being needy? Or maybe she said you're being weird or creepy...? Ouch! In this episode I talk about 3 of the most common ways that men can be needy in their relationship or marriage and how to think about and behave differently so that you feel good about yourself, less reliant on her for affection and attention for you to feel strong and confident in yours...

Are you trying to save your marriage but feeling confused by all the conflicting messages telling you to fight for your relationship, fight for her, show her what she means to you - yet there are just as many messages saying to stop fighting, to let her go - "Let her go to see if she loves you enough to come back". In this episode I talk about the ONLY way to look at this incredibly painful situat...

Are you feeling lazy uninspired & unmotivated? Has your belief and self confidence drained away? Are you confused as to why and what you need to do to get inspired and motivated again? In this episode I talk about what I do to change my mojo and masculine motivation and direction when I get lazy, and what you can do to get moving again. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset t...

Are you struggling with an overwhelming feeling of anxiety and fear around your marriage falling apart? Maybe you recently had a conversation with your wife where she said she's not happy in the relationship or that she's not in love with you anymore, or she wants to try a period of separation so she can find herself and her independence...? In this episode I talk about the one masculine trait tha...

What kind of man has a wife who wants to be intimate with him? There are some men who seem to naturally have a way about them that immediately puts women at ease. In this episode I talk about the way a horse can feel any of the judgement and preconceptions you have about it and how our women are very similar in how they sense our mood, our intention and our preconceptions of them...such as "she ne...

Do you fail at handling conflict well? Do you find yourself getting reactive and defensive? Maybe you are hearing your partner saying things like "you're always angry or you're grumpy or you always make it about you"? In this episode I talk about a mantra we use in our men's community which really helps men understand the energy of the calm, strong, masculine man we would all love to be. In our co...

Do you struggle with anxiety? Are you feeling agitated and is your anger always just below the surface? In this episode I tell a story about a man in my life who showed me what cool, calm, confident masculinity looked, sounded and felt like. I'll never forget it, so I recorded it here to share with you. I hope you find it helpful. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowe...

Does your wife avoid intimacy with you? Is she affectionate and warm with you around other people but when you get home, she's cold and distant? In this episode I talk about how safety is key for women and how little we men understand the impact of our emotions and intentions on her safety and ability to want to be intimate with us. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empo...

Are you struggling to deal with your sexless marriage? Does the fact that the fun, intimate, connected, playful version of your marriage seems lost make you confused, frustrated and angry? In this episode I talk about what causes that emotional feeling of anger and resentment and what you can do to change the thoughts that changes the feeling so that you can start to make better decisions and to f...