Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Are you frustrated because your wife can't let go of the past? Do you feel lost and frustrated by the lack of progress even after it seems like you've moved on to a better place in your relationship and then suddenly she brings up memories from the past and uses them to hold herself at a distance from you? In this episode I talk about how those past hurts can be healed in connection with you, why...

Want to know how to get your wife to recommit to you and your marriage? It's not through ultimatums or "being more alpha" or no contact manipulation, there's a much deeper and harder factor that needs to be addressed here. In this episode I talk about the difficulties of dealing with a stagnant, disconnected marriage or relationship and how to lead the conversation with your wife about recommittin...

What does it mean "what kind of man do you want to become?" No-one ever asks us this question, but it's essential both in you feeling directed, fulfilled and confident in yourself. In this episode I talk about the reason we ask this question, why it's inportant for men to be deliberate about who they are and what they want to develop about themselves - not to gain any material wealth, but to gain...

Want to know how to be happy even though your marriage sucks? We know what it feels like to be in a long-term, committed, monogamous, romantic relationship that is cold, distant, adversarial and bitter and we can help you identify whether this is just a phase or whether it's time to start moving on. In this episode I talk about the common story that most of the men in our community are living befo...

Yes your wife needs you to take the initiative and define a new path forward that she can trust and choose to join you on. Yes she will test you on this new direction and so she should, if you don't have confidence and conviction, why would she take the risk? It's a very vulnerable thing to open up and come closer again especially if she's been hurt by your untrustable behaviour in the past. In th...

Why would you gain from your marriage breakdown? What does that even mean? Surely a marriage breakdown is just a painful event that no-one gains anything from right? In this episode I tell a story about a man facing adversity of the worst possible kind and how he used that event as something to propel him forward towards a new phase of his life with more meaning and that also helped him heal and g...

Has your wife said she doesn't trust you? Are you confused because you're a good man who has never cheated on her? There are some common tests that you may be failing that affect the trust and connection in your marriage. In this episode I go into detail about two of the most common tests that we men face in a long-term committed relationship or marriage, why she does them, what they provide for h...

Confused about what women and society want from men? Want to know what women mean when they say they want a real man? You may not have heard this in your relationships but I can guarantee it's at play underneath the surface in some way or another. In this episode I talk about what the terms "Be a man" or "Man up" or "Real man" mean, when and how they show up in modern day relationships, why they s...

Want to know what she needs before she can be sexual with you again? It's a confusing topic - emotional safety - as men we struggle with it because we're such problem solvers, but the good news is that you know how to do this already - you do it with your kids all the time!! In this episode I talk about how our natural state is one of relaxation and play and how that's the state we return to when...

Why would you gain from your marriage breakdown? What does that even mean? Surely a marriage breakdown is just a painful event that no-one gains anything from right? In this episode I tell a story about a man facing adversity of the worst possible kind and how he used that event as something to propel him forward towards a new phase of his life with more meaning and that also helped him heal and g...

Want to know if there's still a chance of saving your marriage? Maybe you've heard your wife say she's done! Or maybe she's threatening separation or divorce... In this episode I talk about the signs to look out for that we see all the time with our coaching clients that tell us whether there's still a chance, whether she's totally checked out or if there is still some connection and willingness t...

Want to know how to create more intimacy with your wife? In our coaching we use horses to teach you about the differences between men and women specifically in terms of what women need most from men in long term relationships to feel safe enough to be intimate. In this episode I explain a little more about why we use this "horses are a lot like women" analogy, what it means, what are the most impo...

If you're desperately searching the web looking to save your marriage you may be feeling totally confused and swamped and overwhelmed with information. Each self help "guru" has a different perspective and each one proudly states that their information is "the truth" or "the secret sauce" or "the only way" which of course is nonsense, they are all ONE perspective. In this episode I explain one of...

Want to know how to get your wife to recommit to you and your marriage? It's not through ultimatums or "being more alpha" or no contact manipulation, there's a much deeper and harder factor that needs to be addressed here. In this episode I talk about the difficulties of dealing with a stagnant, disconnected marriage or relationship and how to lead the conversation with your wife about recommittin...

Want to know how to stop the decline of your unhappy marriage? Can you feel your wife is moving away from you, from the marriage, even from your family and the kids too? In this episode I explain my personal marriage decline story and how it taught me the things I now teach men. I explain the warning signs to look out for as well as what to think and do to start turning things around and seeing if...

Are you unhappily married? Want to know how to resuscitate your dying marriage or if it's even possible at this stage? In this episode I talk about how men find themselves in this kind of situation, what it means, how to think about it in a way that helps so that you can start to make decisions that will move you forward again and end the misery. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spr...

Do you suffer with premature ejaculation (PE)? Want to control how long you last during sex? Is it having a damaging effect on your self confidence, your sexual confidence and your overall happiness in life, with women or in your sexual, intimate connection in your marriage? In this episode I talk to Keeley Rankin who is a Sex and Relationship coach from California, we discuss her work with men ar...

Is your wife having an emotional affair? Or maybe she's in a physical affair? Or she could be connected to another man (or woman) emotionally and is keeping you at arms length while going out more or being on the phone with other people rather than building the relationship with you... In this episode I talk about the process that we take men through which helps them to find the confidence and str...

Are you struggling with anxiety. Maybe you've thought to yourself "I can't find my happiness" and you're searching the web for help that will fix this ongoing uneasy anxious and restless rollercoaster of emotions. In this episode I talk about where your happiness comes from, why we find ourselves in a constant state of unhappiness and what you need to think and do differently to be able to consist...

Are you confused with your relationship? Maybe you can't decide whether to stay married or divorce? Maybe you're unsure how to go about improving the connection and intimacy and affection with your wife? In this episode I talk about the core of our coaching with men around making the right choices or even knowing what the right choice is for you and your future. This changes everything. The more c...

Do you get easily triggered and lose your self confidence when facing your wife's negative feedback? Does her opinion of you matter so much that she can question anything you've just done, no matter how trivial, and you get defensive? In this episode I talk about why this happens and give you a new way to approach these situations so that you can stay calm, grounded and centered and know how to le...

Mediocre, that's a word us men don't like and it's how we see ourselves when we feel trapped in an uninspiring marriage, it's like we believe that this is our lot, there's nothing more available, no more passion, no more fun, no more playful flirting and sexual exploration, but I'm here to tell you that's not true. In this episode I talk about why we get to this stage in long-term relationships an...

We talk to a lot of men who are trying to find some peace because their marriage is falling apart and they are constantly anxious and overwhelmed, desperately trying to fix it so they can find some peace and happiness again. In this episode I talk about why this situation is so debilitating for so many men, how to think about it differently so that you can respond to it differently and then your e...

Are you questioning whether to stay married? Do you feel unhappy, unloved, disrespected and lonely even though you're in a relationship? This is the disillusionment or power struggle stage of relationshiop that EVERYONE hits without exception. In this episode I talk about this stage of relationship, how we find ourselves here, what you may have already tried to get past it and how our advice for a...

Do you want your wife to want you again like she used to when things were passionate and easy, when you both looked at each other with the eyes of acceptance and curiosity? In this episode I talk about the common situation many of us men find ourselves in where the spark, passion, trust and fun has disappeared from our intimate relationship and how to change that and bring back the desire that had...