Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Have you been rejected by your wife again? Want to know how to stop your fear of rejection and respond with confidence and be assertive in building connection, attraction and passion in your marriage again? In this episode I explain a different way to think about rejection and how the interaction points to what she needs from you in the moment to be able to change her mind and say a big resounding...

Are you in a marriage where your unsatisfactory sex life is causing you to lose your sense of wellbeing, sense of happiness and overall make you feel unloved, unconfident and miserable? In this episode I talk about the way that men usually measure their sense of MOJO and self confidence and how it's the wrong way round - plus what to do to change it and start feeling that confident swagger and sen...

It's counter-intuitive that so many good, loyal, loving husbands being afraid of divorce is the major factor in many, many actual divorces that happen in the world. But it's undoubtedly true. In this episode I talk about why your fear is partly responsible for where you find yourself in your marriage and how to think differently about the path forward from here. In our coaching, we help men get a...

Have you just heard your wife is no longer in love with you? Maybe she has asked for space or said she wants to separate or divorce. All these things can have a man feel paralysed and panic, trying to convince her that she's wrong, that you can fix it. That NEVER works. In this episode I talk about the ONLY way to respond to someone pulling away from you and your relationship that will serve both...

Searching for information on how to calm your anxiety about your pending divorce? It's one of the most difficult, emotionally crippling events that can happen to a man - I know, I've lived through it and now support hundreds of men going through the same fears, doubts and uncertainty. In this episode I talk about where the anxiety comes from, what causes it and how you can take action now to start...

Are you letting your fear define your life and relationships? So many men I speak to have a paralysing fear of how their wife or boss or friend or colleague is going to react to them if they really say what they want to or be who they want to be. In this episode I use an analogy to show how you can choose a totally different way to be as a man, lover, husband, father, leader and creator of the lif...

Do you want to help your wife relax & trust you to lead the relationship to more fun, more passion, more relaxation, more intimacy and more adventures? In this episode I talk about how you can bring a common skill we use every day, multiple times a day into your marriage and watch as it changes everything for the better. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you...

Would you like to know how to respond better, as a mature masculine man? Are you struggling with your wife's criticism of you? Do you keep getting triggered, upset and resentful at the most pointless arguments? In this episode I talk about why this is an essential skill to learn if you want to save your marriage opr rekindle connection, passion and intimacy in your romantic monogamous relationship...

How do you know if your wife is thinking about divorcing you? Are there signs that can help you be prepared? How do you avoid the worst thing happening and have the best chance of saving your marriage? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy,...

Is your wife pulling away from you and your marriage? Have you heard your wife say one of the following things? I’m done. I’m just numb. We’ve never had a connection. I just need space and I don’t know if I’ll ever want to be with you again. I’m just not romantically attracted to you anymore. I think we need to separate/divorce and see where this goes. In this episode I talk about how we men think...

Are you living in a miserable, unhappy marriage? Is your wife ignoring you, being mean, staying out all night drinking, sleeping in a different bedroom, and she won't allow you to touch her or even talk to her unless it's on her terms? In this episode I talk about the reason unhappy men tolerate and stay in marriages like this, what you need to learn about why it's happening and how to respond to...

Do you struggle to know how to handle your wife's criticism as a confident man who can stay calm, stay open and loving, stay strong in your sense of self confidence and self worth? In this episode I talk about the two different types of criticism that women use in relationships, how to tell the difference, why it's important and how to handle them in a way that build trust, connection and attracti...

Your masculine energy matters in a long-term, romantic, sexual, committed, monogamous marriage or relationship. If you don't know what your masculine energy is, think of it as being aware of whether you feel confident in yourself and your ability to create the kind of life and relationship you really want. In this episode I use the metaphor of the hummingbird vs the mountain lion to show you how y...

Have you recently thought to yourself that you're not attracted to your wife anymore? Maybe you've read that the way she behaves is wrong or unfair or inappropriate? In this episode I talk about the mistake most men make in the way they think about women, their wife and how we relate to each other.  In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect...

Your wife avoids sex with you? Are you the only one who initiates physical intimacy in your marriage? Does your wife make excuses like "maybe later" or "I'm so tired" or "I've got so much to do" or "I don't know"...? In this episode I talk about how to think about these excuses, what is driving them, how to deal with the feeling of rejection and how you can help her to feel more sexy with you agai...

Have you noticed that your wife is pulling away from your marriage? Are you hearing her say things like "I need space" or "I don't know what I want" or "I need to find myself" or "I don't think I'm in love with you anymore"...? In this episode I talk about what I learned when I was in your shoes and how to respond to this lonely, painful point in your life in a way that will create the best future...

Do you have a roommate wife and a cold, passionless and sexless marriage? Are you finding yourself complaining and whining, trying to get her attention and affection again? I know exactly how that feels and it SUCKS! In this episode I talk about the growth from an insecure, unconfident masculine energy that many men find themselves struggling with, to a strong, consistent, calm masculine energy of...

Are you in a marriage where your wife doesn't want sex anymore? She may have also said she still loves you and stressed that she's just no longer feeling those "in love" feelings she used to have for you. She may have asked for space or said you're too needy or creepy - ouch! I know how it feels brother. In this episode I talk about how we can suddenly spin out into anxiety, fear, frustration, des...

What are the attraction secrets of men who have fun, passionate and sexual marriages? Part of creating more intimacy and passion is learning how to be an unapologetically sexual man. In this episode I talk about how men lose their sexual edge in long term relationships and what you can do to change that. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and co...

Are you one of the many frustrated men we talk to every month who are confused about how to get the love they want? Are you dealing with a lack of companionship, trust, affection, intimacy and respect in your relationship? In this episode I talk about one of the most common ways in which us men have an insecure, immature understanding and approach to getting what we want in our relationships and m...

Are you in a marriage where you treat your wife as the leader? Do you try and make her happy and please her all the time, yet you're still unhappy and frustrated by the lack of passion and connection in your marriage? In this episode I talk about the change in perspective that men need to regain their self respect and confidence and women need us to find for them to respect us and be attracted to...

Have you ever been called an a-hole but at the time you felt like you were being a confident man? There's a key difference between a man who is calmly confident and self reliant in his self belief and a man who is trying to "show" people that he's confident in himself. In this episode I provide a simple way to know which guy you're being. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset tha...

Have you had the thought "My Wife Hates Me" especially when it comes to talking about my feelings and talking about our relationship. Does your wife seem so cold, dismissive, distant and disrespectful while you're all emotional and need to feel closer to her? In this episode I talk about why women struggle with male vulnerability in marriage and long-term relationships and your best options for ch...

Are you stuck in a marriage where your wife is cold & distant? Have you been pursuing her to address her behaviour but she shuts down, blows up or avoids the conversation entirely? In this episode I talk about the effects of negative pressure on women in marriage and long term relationships and how to stop doing the things that push her away so that she can relax and come in closer again. In o...

Are you in a marriage with an anxious wife? Do you sometimes feel attacked, feel your wife's disapproval or even disgust towards you? It might sound like: You're so weird...you're acting so strange You're so stupid...you're ugly too You're a pervert...get away from me I don't like you...and nobody really likes you You're such a baby You're gross...don't even look at me that way Don't touch me ever...