Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Are you going to marriage counselling with your wife? Many men we coach find that their marriage counselling sessions are unproductive and seem to make things worse rather than better. In this episode I explain the most important thing before you go to counselling is to be super clear on three fundamental questions about what you want, who you are and where you're heading - unapologetically clear....

Are you living in a sexless marriage? Does it make you uncomfortable? Do you feel frustrated and like there's more to life than this? A great man knows when he's holding back and playing small in his life and he knows that his frustration is really mostly about him not living to his true potential. Are you a great man? Do you want to be? In this episode I talk about the way that as men we can hold...

Have you noticed that your wife doesn't like compliments from you anymore? How are you supposed to create more connection, passion and intimacy when you can't even give her a compliment which makes her feel good? In this episode I talk about the difference between a compliment that is coming from a genuine appreciation of who she is versus a compliment about what she can do for you - why us men ar...

I speak to a lot of men in struggling marriages who want to learn how to make their wife feel attracted to them again. In this episode I explain how I use horses and horse training to teach men how the way they communicate is much more powerful in creating the happy, passionate marriage they want than they might have understood before. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that e...

How do I get my wife to have sex with me? I was looking for that answer for many, many years in my 28 year marriage. What I found out during the breakdown of the attraction, affection, trust and respect in my marriage was that we men often try tools and tactics that do the very opposite of creating desire and attraction in our wives and then we get frustrated by her unwillingness and unreasonablen...

Do you have a frustrating sex life? Are you in a sexless or low sex marriage or relationship? Do you have a higher sex drive than your partner and end up feeling horny and frustrated at the lack of intimacy and sex in your life? In this episode I describe the counter-intuitive truth behind why your sex life is a constant, frustrating game of cat and mouse chase and what needs to happen to make eve...

Are you an unhappy man in an unhappy marriage? Most advice to create a happier life and relationship focuses on trying to control the circumstances and manipulate your wife to get her to change her behaviour. In this episode I explain why your perspective and focus should be on who you are as a man, what you want and where you're headed because that's all the control you have over anything. The re...

There are many websites that will tell you the secret to attraction with your wife is don't apologise. Do you notice yourself apologising to your wife often and wishing she would apologise for her stuff too? In this episode I explain the difference between being overly apologetic and being unapologetic and how they both have an effect on the attraction in your relationship. In our coaching, we hel...

Are you stuck in an unaffectionate marriage? Is your wife cold, distant and closed off to you? Does she sit on her phone all the time or keep going out with friends rather than spend time with you? In this episode I talk about a different perspective that we teach men with our coaching programs. If you are willing to accept the seven day challenge I'd love to hear how it goes for you. What have yo...

Are you in a relationship where your Wife Doesn't Like To Be Touched? OR maybe she said she doesn't want to be touched by you? Ouch!! We speak to guys all over the world about this and various similar forms of marriage connection and affection issues all day every day. In this episode I talk about what causes a woman to make this kind of statement and how you should think about it as well as how t...

Are you experiencing a marriage with no affection? Is your wife cold and unaffectionate toward you? Has she asked for space or said you're suffocating her? Perhaps you've heard her say "you always make it about you" and that confuses the hell out of you. Do you find yourself feeling criticised or defensive often? In this episode I talk about the way we can be followers of her emotions and energy (...

Are you feeling stuck in an unhappy marriage where you're trying everything you can to address the problems but all that keeps happening is your wife finds new problems to complain about? Are you at a loss and exhausted from butting your head against her brick wall? In this episode I give you an assignment to help you identify areas that you can stop wasting energy and start gaining back energy ag...

Have you lost your sexy self confidence around your wife or long-term partner? You used to be able to connect with each other so easily, fun, laughter, sex and intimacy were natural and you didn't spend time analysing what you need to do or say to get the connection, affection and closeness you want. Over the past 10 years we have developed a unique program to help men become so clear about who th...

There's a difference between "acting" like a man you might see on TV. And then there's BEING a man...no matter what is going on around you. No matter what external stress or triggers he may be facing. In this episode I give you FOUR KEY THINGS to focus on to stay in your lane and to be the man YOU want to be. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love a...

Are you living in an unhappy marriage? Have you been studying red pill vs blue pill terminology? What about being an "alpha" vs a "beta" man? What actually works when you want to turn around your marriage vs just control her or exit to find another "more compatible" mate? In this episode I talk about the fundamentals that a man must learn before he can lead the marriage back to good health, connec...

What is masculine strength? What does that even mean? And why is it so important in regards to attraction, trust and respect in a long term marriage or relationship? In this episode I dive into how we describe a man who'd masculinity is alive and strong. It's a man who has a sense of freedom in whatever he says or does... In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to...

After years of collecting data on WHY a wife wants to leave your marriage I've seen that actually the most important response is WHAT do I want to create in my life that is inspired by this incredibly hard moment in my life. In this episode I tell a story that inspired this video and also inspired my own growth as a man and as a coach and mentor for other men. In our coaching, we help men get a po...

Why does she always bring up the past - we're getting on great and having fun together then suddenly - wham - everything changes and all the progress we've made recently goes out the window! It's so frustrating! In this episode I talk about why this happens, what you can do, and how it can be a great opportunity for you to bring your masculine calmness and lead the relationship somewhere deeper......

In a great conversation I had with a man this week he asked, "What is the difference between a man who successfully reignites the passion in his relationship and one who fails?" There are three key qualities that a man who is successful has that the unsuccessful man doesn't. In this episode I explain the MOST important quality that men who successfully ignite more passion from their partners HAVE...

Are you feeling exhausted and overwhelmed by your unhappy marriage? Do you find yourself constantly analysing, researching and THINKING about how to fix it? In this episode I talk about the simple truth of what this obsession does to you, and the underlying truth that if you take the time to understand, can both revolutionise your emotional exhaustion AND increase connection, trust, respect and at...

This episode describes the bad habit men have of comparing themselves to others. This habit kills confidence and your sense of personal power and value. This habits kills intimacy and your sex life because you feel insecure and uncertain about your future and how to get what you want. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply be...

This episode tells you the reason women move away from men and pressure. Why do women want space from us? Why do they sometimes want to get close only to then move away? How do you build trust and attraction? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows em...

This episode tells you the reason women move away from men and pressure. Why do women want space from us? Why do they sometimes want to get close only to then move away? How do you build trust and attraction? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows em...

Are you dealing with an angry wife more often than not lately? Do you end up avoiding her or getting into long drawn out arguments about nothing important? Is it making you question whether you want to stay married? There is another, better way to deal with your wife and her anger which I want to share with you in this episode. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers...

In a world of instant gratification it's easy to want your needs met "right now" which is all well and good, but when we're talking about connection and intimacy and relationships, there's a different pace that seems to work much better to create a deeper, more long lasting belonging and love. In this episode I use the example of gift that you send out without any expectations of receiving anythin...