Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Are you in a marriage where the passion has stalled? Would you like to learn how to build sexual tension with your wife? Would you like to become unashamedly confident in your ability to lead the intimate part of your relationship? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first....

Arguing in a relationship can be a misguided attempt to get attention, and a more secure approach is to openly express the need for connection rather than provoking conflict. Arguing can be a way to get attention, even if it's negative, rather than feeling disconnected and ignored. Acknowledging sabotaging behavior, even to your partner, is a crucial step towards authenticity and trust in a relati...

Why is it hard to have the connection and intimacy that you want in your relationship? Most of us are never taught how to understand creating intimate connections with other people. We often approach things with urgency or from a place of frustration and a desperate need to fix it NOW! In this episode I talk about the coaching we do with men using horses to teach them how to become masterful in re...

Do you want a better life and relationship? What about more respect appreciation confidence sex & money? What if I said I could guarantee that you will have those things in your future - would you be interested in learning more? In this episode I explain how the men we coach are guaranteed to create the future they really want through the process that we take them through. In our coaching, we...

Want to create more safety and attraction in your marriage? We teach men why women find strength both threatening, at the same time as being something that makes them feel safe and attracted to you. In this episode, I talk about the gift of masculine strength that is yours to give to other people in any situation as well as what it provides for them and for you going forward. In our coaching, we h...

Are you ever confused why your wife or partner says to you "You don't listen!"? Especially because you DO listen!!! So what does she mean when she says this? And what is she really needing from you? In this episode, I talk about one way I found to help me become a better listener by helping me become more present when I am listening. People can tell the difference when you're listening and being w...

Are you in a sexless marriage? Are you contemplating divorce? Are you looking for another option to try before you make the choice? In this episode, I explain why women (yes even married women) are attracted to the guy who is happily divorced and how you can bring that bad-boy energy into your life and give her something different to respond to. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mind...

Are you looking for advice that will help you become more sexually satisfied in your marriage or long-term relationship? It's thought by many people that the sex-filled initial honeymoon period of relationships always wears off...but that doesn't have to be true. In this episode, I explain the difference between a needy hummingbird man and a calm, confident, mountain lion man. Getting this is key...

Emotionally detach from your partner during separation by focusing on self-care and activities that "light you up" rather than obsessing over their thoughts and actions. Healing Separation Strategies Implement a "healing separation" with structured activities like scheduled talks, dates, therapy sessions, and learning opportunities to actively work on reconnecting. Ineffective Separation Practices...

Outcome dependence in relationships stems from immature and insecure behavior, driven by a burning desire for specific results or reactions, leading to controlling and sabotaging actions. Achieving outcome independence requires recognizing immature behavior and developing inner security, maturity, and self-reliance regarding personal happiness. Transitioning from outcome dependence to independence...

Want to know how to show love and affection without being needy? Maybe you've heard your wife ask for space or say she's feeling smothered and you're not sure how to give space while also continuing to lead the romance part of your marriage? In this episode, I talk about why this is so hard, how many men come at this problem with the wrong mindset and attitude and what you can do to move things fo...

You've heard us say it before - we believe that a passionate marriage needs a man to lead it. Now before you start with your "yeah but..."s what we're really talking about here is that to keep the passion and attraction alive in a long-term relationship or marriage, a man must find his way to growing into his full masculinity - he must become a whole, integrated, initiated man. In this episode, I...

You may have read or heard advice given to men saying "Don't try to fix her" or they will mess up their marriage! Are you a brilliant problem solver who is facing a problem that you don't seem to be able to fix in your relationship? In this episode I explain how our problem solving expertise can have us focused on the wrong things which then has us show up in a way that creates pressure and anxiet...

Has your wife asked for space? Are you wondering when and how it would be OK to initiate sex or some kind of intimacy again with her? Maybe you're currently walking on eggshells and feeling insecure and unsure of how you need to be around her and what this all means about the future of your relationship... In this episode, I talk about why this situation is difficult to understand and navigate as...

Want to know how to make your avoidant wife affectionate again? Does your wife spend all her time on her phone or with the kids or friends? Does it drive you mad, and when you address it she gets defensive? In this episode I explain some details about why she's avoidant and why the way you are reacting to her is making it worse - plus what needs to happen for you to confidently lead her back into...

Have you ever been called controlling? Want to know how to lead your marriage without being controlling? Maybe you've been told you never listen or that you always make things about you....these are signs that you could be leading things better. In this episode Steve and Dan discuss what they mean when they talk about learning how to lead a relationship with strong masculine energy and emotional s...

Do you want more passion in your relationship? Maybe you're missing the ease and fun of the early years and want to learn how to get it back again? Or maybe you've had some serious issues that knocked the wind out of your sails and you want to inflate them again... In this episode, I talk about why more passion in your life and relationship requires you to be courageous and take action on what you...

When I say stop trying to show your woman your meatloaf, I'm not talking about what you think I am talking about (though there's some validity to that thought too). In this episode I talk about why men doing work on themselves because of relationship crisis is an incredibly rewarding process...that you shouldn't share with your partner. Why??? Because until you've reached a certain level of securi...

Has your wife said she wants her independence? Maybe she has said she missed out on her youth or that she loves you but is no longer in love with you...? In this episode I talk about why this happens, what it means, what most of us men do in reaction to this situation, why that's the worst thing to do, and how to respond with strength and confidence. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new...

Have you thought to yourself "I can't relax around my wife"? Maybe you followed that thought up with another such as "Maybe we're not right for each other" or "I might be happier with another partner". Sound familiar? In this episode I talk about a common misconception that many men have about their role in marriage and how it stops them from being the emotional leader of the relationship (which a...

Do you wonder Why Your Confidence Disappears Around Your Wife? Are you successful and confident at work and around other people and other women? In this episode I talk about the reason why so many very successful men have unsuccessful marriages with a lack of connection, trust, respect and passion keep rearing its ugly head in a way to common cycle. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new...

Ever wanted to know what healthy mature masculinity looks like? Many of us men have not grown up around a male role model who modelled grounded, unrattled, mature masculine energy. In this episode I use a very well known story to explain what it looks like, what the immature, insecure, nervous, anxious, masculine looks and feels like and how to move towards being the version you want to live your...

Want to know how to stop the pain of your wife rejecting you? It's one of the most difficult to understand and deal with problems in marriage. I know it well from many years of personal experience in my 28 year marriage. In this episode I talk about why it hurts so much, how to stop the pain, and how to get back to feeling truly confident and happy in yourself again. In our coaching, we help men g...

Ouch..that title...the man your wife wants to have sex with is hard to read when sex is infrequent and you want more in your relationship or marriage. In this episode I talk about 3 basic traits a man must master in himself first before he can create the type of sexual chemistry and frequency that most of the men we coach really want. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that em...

Want to learn how to inspire your wife's sexual attraction to you again? Are you frustrated by the lack of affection and sexual desire in your marriage right now? In this episode I talk through 6 things men do thinking they will increase the sex and intimacy in their marriage and why those are completely the wrong ways to approach this problem and resolve it for good. In our coaching, we help men...