Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Do you wish you had a happier marriage? One where you return to the way you treated each other in the beginning again? In this episode I talk about a famous saying that points directly to the heart of what we do in our coaching with men to help them lead the marriage back to happiness and connection and intimacy by first leading you to be a happier, more open, more passionate and loving man. In ou...

Do you avoid initiating sex in your marriage? Would you like to learn how being confident initiating sex again with your wife is closer than you might think? In this episode I explain why your urgent need for sex is part of the weird reaction you get from your wife when initiating and how you can learn to remove the obstacles that get in the way of the easy, fun sexual connection you used to enjoy...

Are you suffering after marriage betrayal trauma? Do you wonder if you will ever be able to trust someone to be close to you again? Or maybe you wonder if you will ever regain your self confidence again? In this episode I talk about what happens when you've experienced being betrayed in marriage or a long term relationship and how to respond in a way that will start to change how you feel about yo...

Many of the men we coach in our community start by asking "How do I get my wife to want me again?" - it's a question I understand very well personally because I asked myself the same thing. In this episode I talk about why the way we think attraction in long term relationships "should" work is wrong and how to think and act differently in a way that does change the energy in the relationship again...

If you're struggling in an unhappy marriage wondering whether it's worth it to move on or to stay and work on it then this episode was created for you. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're conf...

Are you a man in a sexless marriage? Are you feeling frustrated and thinking she's holding back intimacy from you? Maybe you've tried to get her to go to marriage counselling to discuss it...? In this episode I talk about what we see in the men we coach that is essential to address before you try marriage counselling. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to giv...

Has your wife said she feels uncomfortable around you? Or maybe she said she feels awkward or can't relax when you're home? Ouch! In this episode I talk about why this is such a common issue that guys deal with in long term relationships and marriages and how you create it as well as how you can learn to lead the relationship back into closeness, affection and connection again. Here is the link to...

What is the best way to respond to a loveless marriage? We coach men to respond with confidence and creativity rather than fear and desperation (which never works) to start building the respect and attraction back again. In this episode I talk about a client who decided he no longer wanted to spend time walking on eggshells and feeling like crap around his unhappy and cold marriage and how he crea...

Has your wife said I need space? Right now your guts are probably all tight and in a knot, churning and filled with anxiety and questions. Would you like to know how to respond with confidence and clarity and leadership? In this episode I talk about the mistake nearly all men make when a woman says I need space or I feel smothered or you're too needy or insecure and how to think and respond differ...

Do you have an abusive wife? Are you constantly fearful of upsetting her and then having to deal with her temper and angry reactions? In this episode I talk about how to view her behavior differently, so that you don't feel attacked and treated badly anymore - it's also the path toward rebuilding trust, respect and attraction again with her. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset...

Noone wants to say it but facing conflict is how you become confident in yourself, learn to trust yourself, feel valuable as a man and replace worry and anxiety with calm, grounded masculine strength. In this episode I talk about what we do with the men we coach in our community to help them deal with conflict better and come out with more self respect, more self belief and a clear plan for their...

Want to know how to be more attractive to your wife? If you're in a marriage that is lacking trust, lacking respect, lacking affection, intimacy and sex, you may be scratching your head wondering what went wrong... In this episode I talk about one of the most common issues that I see in the men I coach and how to change it so that the passion, connection, fun and intimacy returns to your relations...

Have you heard the women in your life say that all men want is sex? Whatever you think about that statement and it's validity, there is an opposite, alternative question from a man's perspective and that is, if all men want is sex, what is it that women want? In this episode I talk about what men can learn to understand about the female sexual experience and how a certain type of masculinity affec...

Do you want more closeness and affection in your marriage? Do you want to understand how your wife smells your fear like poo on her shoe and she cannot move towards you when she smells it. In this episode I talk about what creates the fear, anxiety and insecurity in you, how it affects the relationship and use a metaphor to give you a path forward that will change the fearful emotion and energy in...

Do you want to know how to increase your attractiveness to your wife? Maybe she has said she's not attracted to you, or you just notice that intimacy, connection, flirtation, sex and affection are missing from the relationship you have now and you want to see if you can bring them back again. In this episode I talk about the common mistake men make when trying to re-attract their wives and how mod...

Are you pretending to be happy in your marriage? It's a common experience for the men we coach, they stay passive and trying to make her happy while all the while inside they are miserable. In this episode I talk about why this is a doomed approach if you want to ever feel confident and alive again, let alone feeling masculine and sexy and leading the attraction in your marriage. In our coaching,...

Want to know how to turn fighting into attraction in your marriage? Are you facing a lot of disrespect and disapproval from your wife of late? What about affection and intimacy? Are they in short supply too? In this episode I explain and provide a demonstration of the most important trait of a calm, secure, confident and sexially satisfied husband with a wife who trusts and respects him - plus it'...

Is your wife avoiding you? Would you like to learn how to respond in a way that draws her back towards you and brings her closer as well as helping her relax and become more affectionate again? In this episode I explain the one thing that nearly all women in this scenario need and how you can provide it to her so that she can be the loving wife you want again. In our coaching, we help men get a po...

Are you struggling with low or no intimacy in your marriage? Do you try to bring it up and end up in a cycle of arguing, silence, disconnection and then eventual reconciliation but still no affection? In this episode I talk about 3 prerequisites that we teach men to develop BEFORE they can lead the intimacy and connection in their marriage back to a place of passion, fun and flirtation. In our coa...

Are you feeling stuck hoping your marriage will change? Have you seen your wife become less interested, less affectionate, less sexual and less kind and loving with you recently? In this episode I talk about the problem with staying stuck in hoping for things to change, how it affects your confidence and what to think and do about it so that things start to improve. In our coaching, we help men ge...

Are you frustrated with the lack of intimacy, care, love and connection in your marriage? Would you like to know how to make your wife love you again? In this episode I talk about the truth behind the information you're looking for and how you need to work on the foundations of becoming a man you love before you can expect anyone else to love you too. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful ne...

Want to know how to create a more affectionate wife and marriage? Is your marriage flat, passionless, sexless, and lacking affection? In this episode I talk about why she is always so kind, loving and affectionate with other people - even the dog - but with you she's cold, matter of fact, and the loving, affectionate version of her is nowhere to be seen. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful...

Is your marriage lacking trust and connection? Do you feel like your partner doesn't trust you? Maybe you've heard them say that they don't feel safe with you or that they are feeling controlled or pressured by you? In this episode we talk about what trust is and how the belief that it must be earned will keep you stuck in an untrusting relationship, plus how to think about it differently so that...

Is your wife detaching from your marriage? Are you feeling overwhelmed with anxiety? Is it affecting you all day every day, stopping you focusing at work or sleeping at night? Is she avoiding relationship talks with you and saying she needs space or ignoring you? In this episode I talk about limboland - a place that we can find ourselves in marriage or long term relationships, especially around mi...

Want to have more trust respect and confidence in your relationship with your wife, your business colleagues, your clients, your friends and family? In this episode I talk about one simple but very powerful trait of a consistently calm, confident and mature man who gets what he wants from life and in his marriage, because he knows what is required to come out FROM him first before he can receive t...