Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Do you want to know how to calm down when you get triggered? Especially when the source of that trigger is something you just did!!! And in front of another person who's opinion you care about....!!! In this episode I talk about what happens when we get triggered and become angry and frustrated, what causes it, why it happens and how to think about it in a way that will take away all the fury and...

Are you struggling with feeling unhappy in your marriage? Do you find that you are ALWAYS thinking about your wife and the relationship and that it's affecting your ability to concentrate and be productive in other areas of your life? In this episode I explain how we help men in exactly your situation - which is what we do all day every day - and guide them to be more confident and intentional abo...

Want to know how to create more intimacy in your marriage? Are you feeling stuck and frustrated with the lack of closeness, connection, affection and sex in your relationship? In this episode I discuss an analogy I use with my male coaching clients regularly to help them understand how to connect with their wife's emotional state and then lead her to a more relaxed, more fun, more flirtatious and...

Anxious, frustrated, annoyed, afraid, panicking....sound familiar - all these feelings are running rife when you're worried your marriage is ending. Want to know why "saving your marriage" isn't really what you need right now, even though I know it FEELS like the ONLY thing you should be concentrating on. In this episode I talk about the counter-intuitive truth that we help men understand in our m...

Do you feel like you're living in a faulty marriage? Want to know whether it is fixable? Are you spending way too much time watching a reading relationship content on the internet and ending up more confused and frustrated than when you started - still not knowing what to do about it? In this episode I explain why we do this as guys and what action you can take - free of charge - to stop the inces...

In this episode I explain why your efforts to improve yourself and become a better man do not guarantee your wife's forgiveness, admiration, or respect, especially if your changes come after years of neglect or hurt have built up. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first....

Are you aware of the "manosphere" or "red pill"? Maybe you've heard of MGTOW (men going their own way) or "men's rights"? We constantly get asked about our take on these different men's groups so finally we decided to share our thoughts with you. In this episode, I talk about red pill in terms of men's personal development, what to be aware of, what to avoid, how to think about it all and what rea...

Hey brother, I'm going to teach you the simplest, most powerful and the most elusive coaching tip I've ever learned. It's SIMPLE because it requires no study, no reading, no exercise and no money. It's POWERFUL because it's the most effective way to quickly reduce anxiety and fear without using drugs. And it's ELUSIVE because when you watch this 10-minute video you may get a huge AH-HA!! And then...

Have you ever asked yourself why even though you're married you don't feel loved? It's such a common place for us to find ourselves, but how should you deal with those feelings of loneliness and lack? In this episode I talk about what's causing the low feelings and how you can help yourself by giving yourself what no-one else can sustainably provide for you. In our coaching, we help men get a powe...

Would you like a more fun, connected and sexual relationship? Would you like to understand how masculine strength creates sexual polarity with your wife or feminine partner? In this episode I talk about how men can learn to handle their partner's upset and difficult emotions in a way that helps her feel safe enough to let go of the emotions and even feel attracted to you and move towards you for m...

Would you like to have more intimacy in your marriage? Then it's time to learn how to create more emotional connection and enjoy more sex!!! In this episode I talk about two essential traits of a man who is leading his relationship into a deeper, more connected, more loving and passionate future. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect mo...

Want to learn how to lead the intimacy in your marriage? Are you frustrated by the lack of connection, passion, fun and sexuality in your relationship? In this episode I talk about the belief and confidence that we help men develop in themselves to be able to create and lead the emotional and physical connection with their wife or long-term partner any time they want. In our coaching, we help men...

Have you ever thought to yourself "I'm afraid my wife will never make me happy" and then considered some unwanted possible paths of action? In this episode I talk about the way we put our happiness onto other people's shoulders and then get sad, frustrated and resentful that they don't do everything in their power to make us happy - plus I talk about why that's the wrong approach and how to change...

Did your wife sleep with someone else? Are you left wondering what to do now she's told you? Even if you were separated at the time I know how confusing and upsetting this can be for a man especially if there's still a possibility of working things out between you. In this episode, I talk about why no-one else can tell you how you "should" respond to this situation, as well as the steps that you n...

Want to know how to stop arguing and fighting with your wife? Dr John Gottman says the common signs that mean your relationship is at high risk of ending are defensiveness, stonewalling, criticism or contempt. In this episode, I talk about the subtle ways in which both men and women shame each other when we're getting reactive and how to change this detrimental habit. In our coaching, we help men...

Want more trust, respect and intimacy in your marriage? Then you will need to learn why women trust & respect a man who stays calm more than a man who gets volatile and emotional, especially when she is feeling under pressure or upset and emotional. In this episode, I talk about the remarkable ability that we men have to be able to deal with difficult, pressurised situations and yet, still sta...

When dealing with a partner in crisis, prioritize your own internal well-being and happiness, avoiding being dragged into their negativity. Bring an energy of compassion and Mountain Lion energy when returning home, including empathy while maintaining your own stable emotional state. Avoid Tit for Tat arguments and slanging matches, instead focusing on compassionate communication even if your part...

Want to know the answer to how rejection can INCREASE your confidence in yourself? Usually rejection is not something any of us look forward to, but there may be more to rejection than you've been thinking there is. In this episode I talk about the way that we men view rejection from our intimate partners and how you can think about and use rejection in a positive way going forward in your life. I...

Want to know how to get the honey sexual attraction back in your marriage or long-term romantic relationship? Have you bought the lie that attraction and sex is guaranteed to fade when you've been with someone for a long period of time? It's BS. In this episode, I talk about how we find ourselves in this roommate situation with our chosen sexual partner and give you some actions to think about tha...

Are you married yet you get no affection from your wife? Does it piss you off and make you angry and agitated? Do you find yourself bored by the prospect of being in this relationship in the future? In this episode I talk about the most important factor in this kind of relationship dynamic and what action you can take to start changing it starting today. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful...

Do you wish your relationship was different? Do you think your marriage sucks? Do the easy, fun, happy days seem harder and harder to come by and more and more you feel unsure of whether she (or you) want to be in this relationship anymore? In this episode, I talk about the way that we men get stuck feeling unhappy, miserable, unloved and unattractive and how you can change that by being more deli...

Are you frustrated because your wife never initiates sex? Was your marriage fun, flirty, passionate and full of intimacy and now it's dull, boring and the only time you get passionate is when you're trying to prove to each other that you're right and they're wrong? In this episode I talk about how women tell us they HAVE been initiating sex, they just do it in different ways to the way men do - I...

If you've heard that your wife doesn't feel connected you may be racking your brains trying to answer the question how do I create intimacy with her again? In this episode I answer this question in a recent series of Q&A videos Dan and I made for questions our Men's Roundtable members posted in the group.  In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love...

It's the cold, painful truth that we don't want to hear - you trained your wife to treat you the way she does right now - so the question is...how do you like the way your wife treats you at the moment? In this episode I talk about this in more detail, again using horses (women are a lot like horses), which isn't a bad thing when it comes to both understanding them and relating with them better. I...

Has your wife said that you only want her for sex? What reaction do you have to that statement? Is it true? I know there's definitely some truth in it for most of us guys, but it's definitely not the whole truth. In this episode, I answer the question posed to us in one of our group coaching calls around this topic and how to navigate it and lead the marriage back to intimacy, passion and yes...se...