Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

I'm turning 60 this week. And the last 10 years have been the best ever. This video is about how changing the way we THINK is the #1 predictor of happiness and all sort of really good stuff. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and c...

Are you an unhappy husband just existing in a Sexless Marriage? In this episode I talk about the cause of your unhappiness and what you can do to start making changes today. Here's the article I mentioned in the video: https://goodguys2greatmen.com/fed-up-being-an-unhappy-husband/ The fact is the one thing us guys have the MOST control over, but spend the LEAST amount of time working on is this......

Are you in a relationship or marriage where your partner or wife is cold and distant? Have you noticed she's spending more and more time with friends or working? When you ask for time with her does she get defensive and try and shut down the conversation or turn it back on you bringing up issues from years gone by? You may feel completely stuck, frustrated and miserable wondering when....just when...

Are you living in an unhappy, miserable, crappy marriage with no trust, no connection, no intimacy, and very little care and love? In this episode I explain why we coach men who want to save their marriage why they must LET GO first. Letting go of a crappy situation is the ONLY WAY you can begin reinventing something totally new. There is a better version of your marriage that's possible, but you...

This episode explains why men can't have a passionate sex life without first accepting responsibility for creating a passionate life. How do get "turned on" outside the bedroom? How does a man get "turned on" by his job, his kids, his friends and his PURPOSE. We can't expect a woman to be turned on by us if we fail to learn to turn ourselves on. Sex cannot be the pacifier for an unhappy man who ha...

I wrote an article about how to rebuild your wife's trust in you and I thought I would summarize the key points here in this episode. Here's the article if you want to read it: https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/john-saves-marriage-jane-not-buying-stvhn/ John and Jane just had a possible turning point in their marriage. After another nasty exchange, John decided to finally stand up for hi...

Ever feel like your sex life is determined by her? As if your wife holds the keys to your sexual power and whether you get to feel like a confident sexy man. In this episode I talk about the way you can learn to be in contact with your masculine sexuality, your sensual and sexual energy and be able to use it in a number of ways to create sexual connection, sexual tension, fun, playfulness, and pri...

In this episode I explain how you can begin to see yourself as the creator of your own reality. Despite negative and unpleasant circumstances, I explain how OWNING YOUR RESPONSE is the "key to the kingdom". Every man wants to feel sense of strength, self-control and calm confidence in his life and relationship. That's impossible if you're giving all your time and energy to those things outside of...

If you are trying to avoid divorce, save your marriage, fix your marriage (or even improve it slightly), you must change the way you're thinking about the situation. In nearly every single case of conflict, upset and disagreement the only thing you should pay attention to is how well you are connecting. This is a key area of the work we do with men here at Goodguys2Greatmen. Everyone wants to feel...

Your wife wants a divorce but you don't, you want to save your marriage but you're unsure what to do or how to respond. In this episode I explain the counter-intuitive response that guarantees that you will come through this feeling more confident, more relaxed, more fulfilled and on a mission to create your best decade ever starting now. Here's the happily divorced man article I wrote a few years...

Here's one of our top five questions we get every day. How do I know if it's too late...I mean, how do I know if I have a chance to save this marriage...I mean, how can I convince her she should stay...I mean HOW DO I KNOW WHEN SHE'S REALLY DONE? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within...

Do you feel like your wife is always criticising you? There's a very well researched reason for her reacting to you in this way and it's important to understand if you want to learn how to lead your marriage back to connection, passion, fun and intimacy. In this episode I talk about research carried out over the last 25 years by Alison Armstrong into the subconscious, instinctual conversations hap...

Most of us think our relationship would greatly improve if our sex life improved. But being a slave to your sex drive is EXACTLY how men sabotage their sex life. This video describes how to refocus your sexual energy to reduce sexual tension, get more sh*t done and actually improve your attractiveness with your wife. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give...

The first thing we talk about with men in our courses, retreats and personal coaching programs is VALUES. Call them values, operating principles, commandments, standards, declarations or non-negotiables. Every man needs to be clear on his most basic personal expectations he has OF HIMSELF...FOR HIMSELF...and OF THE PEOPLE HE ALLOWS IN HIS LIFE. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new minds...

"I'm married and am a good provider, listener, romantic, funny, attentive, lover, patient, good dad...etc. I’m a good catch. But my wife is distant, crabby and intimacy is infrequent at best. It really shouldn’t be this difficult should it?" In this episode I talk about the way men cause a woman to feel negative pressure, how it makes her feel and how it turns her off. Plus what you need to focus...

Do you ever feel disrespected or like you can't do anything right? Does your partner challenge your plans often? How do you react? Do you get defensive? Does it divulge into a bigger argument? In this episode I talk about why challenges are important for you and how they can be the path to a better relationship. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, lov...

You know that you're not happy in your marriage. You know that your wife isn't happy either. So why can't you just have those difficult conversations that will clean out your issues and allow you both to move forward together? In this episode I discuss how to change this and get what you want.. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more...

In this episode I introduce TWO WAYS WOMEN TEST MEN which you may experience and how to pass them with flying colors. Wives subconsciously test husbands when they need to feel better about him and their relationship. Do you know how to pass the "Alignment" and "Commitment" tests? If your wife says "she loves you but is not 'in love' with you, it could be a test. In our coaching, we help men get a...

If you want to re-energize your relationship and create more passion, connection, desire, fun, playfulness, and intimacy, it's a by product of becoming a more passionate, fun, enthusiastic, playful man. In this episode I use hummingbirds as an example of the kind of energy that you can tap into to radically change your life and relationship. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset...

A man's deepest fear is usually not being seen as "strong enough". It's a fear of being seen as a "pussy" or "weak" compared to other men. This fear can be exposed in many settings - work, with friends, dating and/or marriage. Most men can recall a time when they felt more confident and "cocksure". There was a times when you felt like you knew who you were and what made you a valuable person. Some...

Is your relationship or marriage feeling dull, boring or stuck? Do you feel like you're becoming room mates? Are you looking for practical advice to reignite the spark between you? In this episode I talk about the common mistake that I see men making in their relationships all the time. And invite you to join our upcoming program where you learn how to break out of the habits that have got you to...

I know you want Affection and Intimacy With Your Wife, this video challenges you to spend ONE WEEK operating from your HEART instead of your HEAD when it comes to your relationship. Affection, intimacy and closeness with you wife depends on you knowing how to create safety and attraction by DOING less and BEING more approachable and loveable! In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset...

This episode tells you how to become more secure and confident in the face of divorce or separation. We explain why you're THINKING is the key and how to change the fearful paralyzing thoughts that are making you anxious and saying and doing all the wrong things. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally d...

If you want to build attraction with your wife again, then there's an important area of men's development that you may need to pay attention to. In this episode I talk about the way that our uncontrolled anger and emotions that come from our own insecurity and immaturity can push our women away and damage the trust, respect and attraction they hold for us. In our coaching, we help men get a powerf...

Does Your Wife Always turn you down when you initiate?? Do you get frustrated and hurt by her lack of interest? In this episode I talk about the core issue and what needs to change to make those painful interactions become fuel for the connected passionate relationship you will have in your future. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect...