Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Your wife is frustrated and upset about something and you're done dealing with this all the time. Why can't she see the simple solution...you've explained it to her before and when you do, she gets more irate with you. Men and women are equal - but not the same. Know this and it just might save your marriage. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love a...

Are you stuck in a sexless marriage or do you feel like you're never going to be met in this unhappy relationship? Do you know what to do next? Or are you waiting for something or someone else to change it? Do you know the difference between choices you make that move you forward and decisions you make that avoid difficulty? Want more sexless marriage advice for men? https://goodguys2greatmen.com/...

Do you Wife To Initiate Sex more often? Are you in a relationship or marriage with very little or no sex, affection and intimacy? Do you find yourself being the only one who ever initiates connection between you? In this episode I talk about the crucial energy shift that needs to happen in you FIRST if you want your wife to initiate sex & affection with you. In our coaching, we help men get a...

Is your wife moving away from your marriage? REJECTION!!!! Arghhh, the word that strikes fear into every married man's heart, especially if you've ever experienced a period in your relationship where sex and affection has slowed or dried up completely (and I know you have - me too brother). In this episode I talk about WHY how you respond to rejection is a key predictor of how the rest of your lif...

You know that we often talk about the similarities between horses and women in order to help you navigate your relationships and create a sense of connection, trust, safety and security. When you understand the different perspectives of women and horses it helps to comprehend why they may not see, touch, talk to, respect, or appreciate us as we expect. To gain a horse's trust and make them feel sa...

Does your wife get upset or cold with you when you try to create connection with her? You may be just around the corner from separation or divorce. In fact you may have already heard things like "You're needy" or "I need space" or "You're smothering me" or "Why do you want to spend so much time with me?" We see this ALL the time with the men in our community and we've made it our mission help them...

Are you desperately seeking advice on the internet to help you stop your marriage from falling apart? Most advice says "Show her you love her more" or "Talk to her about how you feel" but none of that crap works, it just creates more reliance on her and more pressure for her to make you feel better which she can't do right now - she's too wrapped up in her own struggles and challenges. In this epi...

Today's episode is about connection and intimacy, how we think about it and how we can be more deliberate in creating it. Connection is the foundation to intimacy, but most of us men have been taught to "make sure you don't make a mistake," to tread lightly around women and try to “make her happy.” We play smaller than we’re capable of and then get frustrated by the lack of passion and enthusiasm...

Are you feeling isolated, lonely, disconnected and rejected by your wife? Are you also struggling to get the support you need? I've been exactly where you're standing brother and I want you to know that you're not the only one...in fact it happens to pretty much EVERY man at some point or other in his life. What I want you to know is that this is exactly why I created Goodguys2Greatmen - for all u...

How do you know when your marriage is seriously under threat? In this episode I talk about the unknown clock that's ticking in every married woman's head when the relationship is cold and distant and there are arguments and frustration building, sex is lacking and neither of you feel happy, safe or confident with each other... In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers y...

In this episode I talk about truth and honesty...which seems obviously important and easy to understand, but when you're in an intimate relationship it's often much harder to be brutally honest with your thoughts an feelings. We're often trying to manage other people's reactions to us instead of just telling the truth. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to gi...

This episode explains why good, strong men can feel horrible in their marriage and feel unsafe to talk to anyone about it. While I know you want a better marriage, more affection and more intimacy, you have to start with telling your story. You need a safe space. You have start letting men who have walked in your shoes help you learn what works...and what clearly does NOT work. In our coaching, we...

Do you often find yourself complaining either in your head or verbally to others about your marriage or relationship? In this episode I talk about the common cause of a lot of marriage dissatisfaction and how to turn it around... In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. T...

Do you struggle to know how to deal with your angry wife? Want to know how to handle her anger with confidence and in a way that leaves you feeling more self respect? In this episode I talk about what to do when faced with a woman who is angry or stressed and in her tense emotions. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply becau...

Are you in a relationship where the intimacy and affection has been slowly dwindling for a period of time. It could be a few weeks, maybe a month or two. For some of us it even stretches to years. Don't worry brother, there's no shame, there are so many reasons that can cause the disconnection. In this episode I talk about one very simple perspective shift that seems way to simple, but we see all...

This episode gives you the secret to effectively handling an angry, raging teenager and get the outcome you really want with him. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're be...

Do you want a more affectionate marriage? Is your relationship feeling cold, disconnected and uncaring? Do you find yourself comparing your marriage with other people's relationships? In this episode I talk about 3 mistakes men make that cause the distance in your marriage and 3 attributes of a man that cause your wife to move closer and be more affectionate again. In our coaching, we help men get...

Does your wife want space? How do you know whether your marriage is going through a natural period of change or heading to complete breakdown??? How do you tell is she's just tired or if she's quietly plotting her departure from the relationship? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within...

Are you dealing with a sexless relationship? It's incredibly common - 10-15% of couples have sex no more than 10 times a year (the definition of a sexless relationship). So how do you handle finding yourself in this situation and more importantly, how can you get your mojo back and reignite the spark between you? That's what I discuss in today's episode with Silke from 2nd Act TV - relationships a...

We get asked this question ALL THE TIME!!! "When is my wife going to want sex again?" And what he's really asking is...when can I give her an ultimatum and then choose to leave or stay. What he really wants is certainty. And what he's giving off is a desperate, needy sense of urgency which is keeping her far away from ever wanting sex with him. So what's the solution? That's what I talk about in t...

Are you ready for a change in your marriage or long term romantic relationship? Are you feeling stuck and just keeping your head above water avoiding arguments but bored and wishing for more? In this episode I ask a question which can radically change your relationship yes, but more importantly it can radically change how you feel about yourself and your future too. In our coaching, we help men ge...

Many of the men I speak to say they want their wife to be more affectionate but things just seem to be getting worse rather than better...so what causes this? I get to hear a lot of stories about men and marriage counseling—most not very good. This is because a lot men of kind of suck at the counseling process. They are way too passive and simply follow the lead of the counselor and their wife. Th...

Are you in a long term relationship or marriage which has frequent arguments, long periods of disconnection and silence, awkwardness and many moments where you fight about things which really aren't important in the long term? Then you may be being emasculated. In this episode I talk about what causes this and how you can stop it from happening in the future. In our coaching, we help men get a pow...

One of the most common conversations we have with guys is around the question "Why my wife never touches me anymore" and what are the factors that caused this disconnection between two people that seemingly still care deeply about each other and have a good relationship on so many levels apart from the physical side of intimacy. In this episode I talk about 3 mistakes we men make that have a huge...

There's a common misconception about how to improve your marriage when it's struggling. It's the same misconception when trying to re-attract or increase attraction and intimacy in a relationship too. In this episode I talk about the real reason that confidence won't save your marriage, plus what you can do to become more confident in a way that will radically change everything in your life. In ou...