Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

If you're in a marriage or relationship which isn't where you want it to be, you may be feeling pretty unmanly, unconfident and lacking in manly mojo to change anything for the better. In this episode I talk about the common mistake all us men make far too regularly, and it drains all our confidence and self belief in seconds. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers y...

Have you heard your wife say she doesn't feel safe with you? Is your relationship lacking companionship, affection and sex? In this episode I talk about the reasons why sex and affection can dwindle and how safety plays a key part in how much fun, flirting and playing is happening between you both. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect...

As men we have our own struggles to deal with around sexuality, sexual attraction, sexual energy, sexual tension, sex drive etc. And if you have ever felt like your sexual energy was wrong, or bad or maybe you've had someone say that you're too focused on or needy around sex. In this episode I talk about how we can take that urgent, rush of desire and arousal that happens inside us, and learn how...

In this episode I explain how you can choose to change your mindset in a way that could change your relationship - maybe your whole life. What if you woke up tomorrow and simply chose to love? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and...

Are you in a marriage where your wife doesn't trust you? Maybe you're seeing her distance herself from you, less affection, more arguing, less spending time together, more spending time with other people...? In this episode I talk about a man I've been coaching and his experience of going through the same damn story that you're living now (and I did too by the way) and his journey to being called...

What does the choice of accepting responsibility to change the conditions in your marriage look like? STEP 1: It starts with a clear vision of WHAT YOU WANT in your romantic love and sex life over the next 30-40 years. This includes what you expect FOR yourself, what you expect FROM people you allow into your life and what you are NOT willing to tolerate. STEP 2: Next you must create a clear under...

Are you seeing worrying changes in your marriage at the moment? Maybe you're feeling like roommates or you're arguing and fighting more... In this episode I talk about the way you look at this moment in your life and how a different perspective can radically change what happens next.. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply be...

Learn How to Become a Calm, Confident Leader in Your Life and Relationship and Create the Connection and Intimacy You Really Want! Join master men's coaches Steve Horsmon and Tim Wade on a 4 day horse ranch adventure that will change your life. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yo...

This is the talk your father, uncle and grandfather never had with you. Do you want her, do you want more intimacy, affection, connection, approval, appreciation and sex with her? This episode is the cold, hard truth about becoming a man who gets those things. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doin...

I believe how well we push our sexual edge is a direct reflection of how well we are living our life. What’s a sexual edge? It’s that part of our sensual and sexual nature where we feel the most alive, driven and creative. We know we’re on the edge when we feel inspired – not anxious. We’re pulsing with intense desire and ambition. We feel focused and directed with no patience for distractions. A...

Are you feeling jealous of your wife's male friends? While you can't control your wife's choice of friends, you do get to have an opinion about those male companions that she hangs around with. You get to have your own values and standards for what you want from a partner in a committed, romantic partnership. In this episode I talk about jealousy and insecurity. I explain how we can play small, av...

If you're struggling to eat or sleep because you've just heard from your partner that she wants space, you're not alone - not at all - in fact this is incredibly common - so much so that almost all long term marriages and relationships hear this phrase "I want space" from one (or both) of the couple at some point. We support men through this difficult, emotionally exhausting period, so that they c...

Have you thought to yourself "My Wife Doesn’t Respect Me?" There's nothing quite like the pain of a wife pulling away from you to make you sit up, get clear about what you want and take action. But taking action isn't the only thing that changes the trajectory of a disconnected marriage...understanding the motivation behind your actions is KEY in creating more fun, more connection, more passion, m...

Are you confused about What Women Want? The quality of your relationship is directly related to how confident and strong your feel about yourself. I could just end this description there - you have all the information you need to get started now. In this episode I describe how women use this measure to choose whether to trust us, move closer to us and whether to connect and be intimate with us. In...

Do you find yourself struggling to handle drama in your life and relationship in a way that calms the tension, reassures the other person and leaves you feeling calm and confident in yourself? In this episode I talk about just one of the 50 traits of a drama free man (see more in my article below): https://goodguys2greatmen.com/why-acting-like-a-happily-divorced-man-can-save-your-relationship/ In...

Are you noticing that your wife or partner is cold or distant? Are you hearing things like "I need space" or "I don't know what I want?" In this episode which is a clip from a recent Roundtable Group Coaching call, Steve and I discuss how you can easily make a huge difference to how you're feeling and to leading your relationship somewhere happier and healthier. In our coaching, we help men get a...

It's hard living in a sexless marriage or a relationship where there's tension, frustration, resentment and a lack of trust and affection. When you've been constantly trying to make the other person happy, doing more around the house, taking on more and more responsibilities with the kids and yet you only get a cold cheek kiss for your efforts...it's time to learn a foundational aspect of masculin...

So, you want to save your marriage? Have more sex? Have more respect and affection in your relationship? To get more confidence, respect and swagger you may need to STOP gorging on Self Help crap. I LOVE self-help materials, but at some point you must stop reading and start DOING. Getting sharp and skillful requires you get into the game where you are challenged. Steel sharpens steel. Men need oth...

Are you struggling with a relationship that's sexless, cold, distant and boring? Or maybe your work environment creates stress for you every day. In this episode I talk about your ability to change your experience of what's happening around you in your life. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing...

What does it take to REALLY have a happy marriage, happy life and yes, a happy wife - and why most of us have this backwards... In this episode I talk about the most important thing that a man can learn about what to use his masculine energy FOR in his life and relationships. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you...

When your relationship is struggling or you're finding yourself feeling down, stressed, angry or frustrated a lot of the time and you're trying so hard to turn things around but they seem to just get worse, there's a secret that I want to share with you that can be the most powerful motivator and impetus for change in your life. This episode is about the importance of having access to other men wh...

Today I'm talking about two key elements in your ability to change the future of your life and relationships. Whether you're wanting more fun and enthusiasm in your relationship or you're trying to find the confidence in yourself that you once had and somehow lost, today's episode will help you if you implement the advice inside. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empower...

If this last year has been a tough year for you...know that you're not alone!! BUT...and this is important...what I want you to know is that making the next year a much better and even GREAT year is much simpler than you might think right now. In this episode I give you some simple tips to get started making this next year the opposite of the last one for you. In our coaching, we help men get a po...

Do you find yourself being triggered by your partner, getting pouty and frustrated almost every day in your marriage? Have you heard things like "Stop being defensive" "Grow up" "Stop being so touchy" "You're too sensitive" or "Be a man" or "Oh you're triggered are you" ? In this episode I talk about the transition from other people determining your mood to being in control of your emotional state...

Do you want a happier marriage? There's one thing we see time and time again in the men who successfully create a marriage that's happier, more relaxed, more fun and more passionate - they learned the secret to CREATING happiness for themselves in any situation. I know that sounds stupid when you think of ALL the many ways in which people can be unhappy in a marriage. In this episode I explain wha...