Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

When guys contact me I ask them what they need and whether you want to re-attract your wife. We go through an intense 6 month program where you learn how to become a confident man of direction, purpose and joy. And what often happens (sometimes it can take a long time) is that his wife notices...she doesn't trust it at first, but she definitely notices. And over time she starts to become curious a...

If you're faced with a marriage that is growing further and further apart, or a wife who has said she wants space, wants to separate or wants a divorce, then I know you're also lying there in the early hours of the morning, racking your brains for a solution to this mess!!! In this episode I want to give you a deep concept that will change how you feel in those moments by helping you change how yo...

Would you love to learn how to use dirty talk with your wife or long-term partner? Do you love it when someone talks dirty to you? In this episode I talk about why many of us men struggle with being able to talk dirty without feeling like a pervert or that we're coming across as creepy. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply...

Are you concerned that your wife may be involved in an Emotional Affair? When you're dealing with a possible infidelity or emotional disconnection in tyour marriage and you're concerned that there's a chance there could be an affair going on, having clarity and speaking the truth without needing to control or manipulate a specific outcome is THE most powerful (and attractive) you can ever be.. In...

How will you change your unhappy marriage? The quote I mention in this episode is by Brendon Burchard: “There are two things that change your life: either something new comes into your life, or something new comes out of you.” We all know the feeling of something new coming into your life - in terms of an unhappy marriage this usually looks like someone pulling away from us, being upset with us, o...

How to know what to buy your crazy, estanged, separated or runaway wife for the holidays. Do you want to know how to buy gifts for your wife when your relationship feels like it's fallen apart? It's a very common question we get all the time. The answer is a question. What gift would you buy your wife if you had ZERO expectations on the outcome? In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mind...

Are you finding yourself frustrated and at a loss for what to do in your relationship? Do you keep going around and around treading on eggshells, then getting annoyed by each other, then taking time away to reset....rinse and repeat? In this episdode I talk about the way we can trip ourselves up with assumptions about the other person's intention with their question, tone, insinuations etc etc and...

Are you constantly anxious and worrying about your relationship? In this episode I talk about a very common coaching tool we use to help men radically change the anxiety that's running their lives and ruining their relationships. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. T...

Waiting for your marriage to get better can feel like a never ending slow drawn out death. Almost everywhere you look you'll see examples of OUTCOMES that a confident man is expected to live up to. Always aiming for a bigger, stronger, harder, faster, deeper life experience. We love a goal to set out hearts and minds on, a direction to focus our attention on. It gives us the fire in our belly, the...

What is the cause of your sexless marriage? If you are dependent on your wife being happy - you can't be trusted to take care of her and slowly the polarity and attraction in your marriage will fade away. The cure to this cycle of despair is one incredibly important character trait…SELF-RELIANCE. Without self-reliance you will always be dependent on the feedback, permission, and approval of everyo...

In this episode I explain my meme "I don't think so cupcake!" and how you can use it step up, own your values and meet your own standards. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who...

Sometimes doing anything feels like pushing a 2 ton truck up a hill with your bare hands...why is that? And how do you deal with it? Whether you're struggling with debt, parenting issues, a challenging career, a crisis in your personal life, or just massive head colds like Dan and I have in this video, how do you break out of the negative spiral that has a hold of you? In this episode we discuss h...

Here's the link to the Goodguys2Greatmen Live Coaching Roundtable. It's a special group of men and we'd love to have you join us: http://goodguys2greatmen.com/goodguys2greatmen-live-coaching-roundtable/ We have live group coaching sessions with guys like you to answer questions and give each other some brotherly support. I ask that guys send questions in advance so Dan Dore and I can have some top...

Do you feel criticized in your relationship all the time? Are you being overly critical to her? In this video I discuss different types of criticism, what happens to the relationship when criticism is used and how you can handle it in a way that aligns with your values. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're fi...

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being. We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're younger. Skills and knowledge that make you feel confid...

Are you one of the many successful men who find themselves arguing with their wife about the same things over and over again? Are you ready for the cycle of hurt, blame, resentment and disconnection to stop?! We help men stop arguing and start creating fun, flirtation, relaxation and intimacy with their wife again. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give,...

Why does your wife get mad at you or frustrated or shut down when you open up to her and tell her your problems or fears? Aren't we supposed to be vulnerable..? I interviewed twin sisters at a pub recently and asked them about men and emotions. When does your vulnerability and sensitivity attract women, turn them on? When does it annoy them and turn them off? In our coaching, we help men get a pow...

Should men and marriage counselling mix? Is there a better way to resolve your relationship issues? Yes!! There’s a common pitfall many men plunge into when they go to marriage counseling. I see many of my clients making this mistake without even knowing it. And when counseling seems to fail them, they blame the counselor or their wife. My counselor friends tell me there’s not much they can do to...

What is the number one cause of problems in relationships? - Commitment. Either a broken commitment or the lack of asking for a commitment. In fact most of us have never learnt HOW to ask for a commitment. In this episode I explain more about commitment and what holds us back from creating the kind of intimacy and connected, committed relationship we really want. In our coaching, we help men get a...

Your wife doesn't want sex anymore and you're trying to work out why. One of the most common ways that a wife gets turned off wanting sex with you is through how we don't show up with confidence and belief in what we have to offer her or where we want to lead her. In this episode I talk about how men can exhibit the energy of feeling unloved, undesired, unattractive and unconfident in ourselves (b...

In my coaching programs I help men re-find their masculine strength, mojo and confidence. What I wanted to talk about today is the way in which you can use your confidence and manly mojo to "make shit happen" which works great in a work environment, but when we're talking about a relationship, especially one that has been struggling, the way you use your mojo matters... In our coaching, we help me...

Does your marriage feel like it's going downhill fast? Is your wife distant and needing space from you? This episode tells you how to handle yourself when you're faced with possible separation or divorce. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empath...

Are you feeling anything BUT a confident man? Does the start of this year feel just like the previous one? Or maybe it's worse? Have you already given up on things being any different? If you're stuck in a relationship that feels like "just good friends" like the spark has gone and any attempts you make to revive it are shut down, then it can feel hopeless to believe in anything different. In this...

In the face of a struggling marriage, looming divorce or with a woman who needs space,a man needs CLARITY. When you're hit with "I love you but I'm not IN LOVE with you"...you need clarity about what to think, what to say and what to do next. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within your...

This episode explains how to become more confident and feel better about yourself by making commitments to getting things done. In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're bein...