for the healthy hoes.

today's conversation was inspired by an article i read titled, are we losing ourselves in the pursuit of wellness by HURS official . this article got me thinking about how wellness (among other things) has shifted to this consumption first culture allowing us to lose sight of what it actually means to be well . it also doesn't help that the lives of others is so accessible to us. we're...

the fear of being seen has so many layers to it: 1) the fear of being seen by one's self, 2) the fear of being seen within (both romantic + platonic) relationships, 3) and the fear of being seen by society. this fear of being seen could exist for a multitude of reasons— from being hurt in the past when being vulnerable to caring way too much about the opinions of others. either way, when you t...

hiiii, my loves. it's that time again where we reflect on the highs, lows, + lessons of the year. not gonna lie, this year was one of the most challenging years that I've had in a very long time. but I came out wiser, softer, and overall just more of myself. more than anything, I am so grateful that I was able to share this year with you. I am forever in deep gratitude for all of the suppo...

change is inevitable regardless of all the negative energy that we as the human species place upon in. everything in nature changes. everything in nature evolves. this includes us. we were meant to evolve- mentally, spiritually, physically. change may feel uncomfortable and this can create resistance to our natural process of evolution. but when you consciously give yourself permission to allow ex...

energy is all around us. everything that we consume is energy. it's essential that we pay attention to how we feel after we participate in any type of energy exchange. how did this person or thing make me feel? do i feel energized or do i feel depleted? then move accordingly based on how you answered the previous questions. in this episode, we discussed energy givers + takers, why takers take,...

as i reflect on the past year and think about what i want to incorporate more of in this season of my life, choosing myself was a theme that kept reappearing. it's a phrase we hear a lot in the digital space without much explanation. choosing yourself is usually related to self-care. while self-care may represent a fraction of what it means to choose yourself, for me it's goes much much de...

Q&A's are our favorite. in this episode, we answered some of your questions about breakups, religion, advice for teens/young adults, running out of time, difficult lessons we've learned in our long-term relationship and so much more. as mentioned, there were A LOT of questions so we weren't able to answer all of them. we do plan to answer more of them on IG + Tiktok. so, please be...

typically, when we hear of someone being a master of something- it's usually in regards to a skill or something outside of one's self. to be a master of something (or someone) is to succeed in understanding it completely. or as Don Miguel Ruiz Jr., author of The Mastery of Self put it, "You become a master of self when you engage the Dream of the Planet and everyone in it without losi...

we can often spend so much time in the past or in the future and end up neglecting the being that we are in this moment—neglecting our physical needs, emotional needs, spiritual needs, etc. this episode is all about meeting yourself where you are right now . in order to move forward + transform into the being that we were meant to be, we must tend to self. we must tend to the needs of the being th...

welcome to our very first guided meditation. the best thing you can do for yourself is breathe. allow the power of your breathe + stillness to guide your soul. thank you for allowing me into your sacred space. IG: @ riturnerr + @ forthehealthyhoes

when you don’t know what to do, do nothing. GET STILL. get still until you do know because nobody knows but you.— the one + only, Oprah Winfrey. stillness in the mental sense, the spiritual sense is something i used to run from but now find myself craving- not only for answers but also to continue to get to know the ever-changing being that is me. only through stillness will we find the answers to...

don't take it personal. a common phrase we've all probably heard. we've been having this conversation all week on whether or not we should take it personal.. whatever "it" is. we thought it would be interesting and fun to continue this ongoing conversation on the podcast since the two of us basically stand at opposite ends of the "take it personal" spectrum. society...

perfectionism is something that i struggled with for a while. for the longest, i masked this truth with being super passionate or wanting only the best. and a whole lot of other things i would tell myself. while being the best version of myself is what i'll always strive for, aiming for "perfection" never really did serve me. i was so focused on perfection that it ignited so many neg...

we felt like it was time for another check-in. there has been a lot of talk about entering quarter four. while that does give me some level of anxiety, it forced me to stop and analyze what i've been putting my focus on- mind, body, + soul (of course.) we both have been having the urge for a very necessary reset- returning to a space where we can remain grounded and re-align with the intention...

before i began my podcast journey, YouTube was a huge creative outlet for me. somewhere along this journey, i decided to take a step back because of some things that was happening in my life and i truly just needed to. that was about six months ago. during this time, i lived, learned, rested, and got to know myself a little better without a camera in my face. i finally feel ready, inspired, and ex...

a casual conversation on relationships. <3 in this episode, we discuss the following: - our relationship. - the importance of communication. - commitment. - losing self in a relationship. - embracing individuality within relationships. - understanding that everything is a relationship. - nurturing the relationship with yourself . huge thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring + supporting this podcas...

i’m here to simply remind you that everything you want is already yours. i think sometimes we forget as we live life and are faced with challenges. it can be difficult to see the power you posses amidst the chaos. don't allow doubt to cloud your belief in the fact that what's for you is for you. it's already yours. you are energetically aligned with all of the things you desire. the universe doesn...

a warm + casual conversation about peace. <3 this episode is sponsored by Daily Harvest. Go to dailyharvest.com/FTHH to get up to $65 off your first box. this episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/FTHH to get 10% off your first month. follow ri: instagram— ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/riturnerr youtube— ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@riturner⁠⁠⁠ tiktok— ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@...

i've heard the phrase "escaping the matrix" when referring to social media over and over again. but after some thought, research and introspection— i realized that the concept of escaping the matrix is way more than just unplugging + spending less time on social media. escaping the matrix is to question everything. challenge societal norms. break free from the deeply ingrained societal norms, cult...

a cute lil Q&A answering some of your questions about confidence, how to keep your sense of self within your romantic relationship, removing people from your life and more. :) This episode is sponsored by Factor. Head to factormeals.com/fthh50 and use code fthh50 to get 50% off! here is a list of the equipment we use for our podcast! (: - rode podmic - Focusrite Scarlett 2i2 (3rd Gen) USB Audi...

i've had a pretty rough few days emotionally + really needed some words to lift me up. so although this was created for you, this is also for me. i hope these words found you exactly when you needed them. i love you. follow ri:instagram— ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/riturnerryoutube— ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@riturner⁠⁠⁠tiktok— ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@riturnerrr⁠⁠⁠ follow sunset tim:music— ⁠⁠⁠⁠...

unf*ckwithable. the mastery of true peace with self, life, + decisions that you've made. no negativity can harm you mentally, physically or spiritually. this is something that i've (unknowingly in a sense) been working on for quite a while now. while i am admittedly still on my own personal journey to master true unf*ckwithablility, i wanted to share some ways that i strengthen my unf*ckwithabilit...

we felt like it was time for a mid year check in. not so much a goal-oriented check in but more of a "are you good?" check in. "how's your heart?" check in. "are you keeping the promises you made to yourself?" check in. in this episode, we reflect on this year so far, work through what's not serving us, and discuss our spiritual lessons so far + things we are...

i had a conversation with a friend the other day and she brought up how amazing i was at showing up authentically online. it's really nice to hear things like this about yourself because we don't see ourselves the way others see us. and while showing up authentically is quite natural + normal for me, i realize that this may not be the case for everyone. so while this episode is about authenticity...

if you've been here for a while or know me personally, you have definitely heard me talk about the seven spiritual laws of success by deepak chopra. i read this book about four or five years ago when i needed it the most and it completely transformed my perspective on life. the seven spiritual laws taught me so much about myself and debunked so many of the myths i was conditioned to believe about...