Effortless Being

El hecho de “ser” tiene que ver con sentir las emociones. Cuando dejas que existan sin justificarlas, sientes paz aún cuando hay dolor por qué no estás peleando contra ti. El pensar cuando sientes emociones no significa que estás sanando, solo déjate sentir las emociones y ten la experiencia humana que todos tenemos.

There must be a balance between your emotional and intellectual mind. This middle ground says, “I know the logic behind this feeling, yet I am still allowed to feel this way”. For instance, a person can know deep down that they are worthy, yet still feel insecure at times; this is okay, it’s part of the human experience. We often think, “I know I am worthy, therefore I should not feel insecure” an...

Muchos de nosotros no aprendimos como tener conversaciones difíciles/ necesarias en nuestras relaciones y como reparar la relación después de las conversaciones. Por esto, muchas relaciones terminan o las personas llevan años en una relación sin que sus necesidades sean satisfechas. En este episodio aprenderás las razones por las que no nos comunicamos en relación y cómo comunicarte de una manera...

Our inability to have difficult conversations with the people around us is sometimes the reason relationships end. If you grew up in a household where there was not repair after arguments, you may now avoid having difficult conversations. This includes saying how you feel, what you want/ need, and being honest when something in a relationship is not working so that you and the other individual cou...

Es muy facil el abrir redes sociales, la cerveza, el refri etc.. en momentos de dolor. En este episodio, te invito a sentarte con el dolor y aumentar tu capacidad de sentirlo. Al hacer esto, sentirás una urgencia de correr hacia los comportamientos mencionados arriba pero tú tienes la capacidad de sobrepasar to dolor de una forma más atenta. 

I believe that one of the reasons addiction (social media, video games, drugs, food) is so prevalent today is because of our inability to sit with and tolerate pain. Tolerance is built when we allow ourselves to sit with the “sting” of pain and ride the wave. This is done with compassion, empathy, and patience toward ourselves.

Bienvenidos al Effortless Being Podcast. Se que es differente, pero los cambios aveces son buenos. Espero y puedan seguir apoyando el podcast y creando la vida que quieren con despego. 

Welcome to the effortless being podcast, (formerly known as the "habit your way with Dean" podcast) where being and love are a default. I am grateful for your support in the Habit your way with Dean podcast and am excited to grow with you through the Effortless Being podcast.

Are you relying on motivation to do the thing you said you were going to do? The thing with motivation is that it leaves you a victim of life because it’s a feeling that comes and goes. Discipline on the other hand, takes accountability and creates the life they want. You’re not lazy! You are simply waiting for a new condition (feel happy, joy, inspired) to happen before you show up for yourself ....

You're always one decision away from the life you want. What does this mean? Wherever you are in life, whether that is where you want to be or not, you are there because of the decisions you have made in the past. In order to get to where you want to be, you have to make different decisions- you have to choose to show up for yourself. Life will always let you decide and the decision you choos...