MJ Murray Vachon LCSW
Creating Midlife Calm: Coping Skills for Stress & Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships
Coping Skills for Midlife Stress and Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships Forget the midlife crisis—how about creating midlife calm ? The anxiety and stress of this life stage can drain your energy, fuel overthinking, and make it hard to enjoy what should be the best years of your life. This podcast offers practical coping skills to help you reduce anxiety, manage stress, and rediscover a calmer, more confident version of yourself. In Creating Midlife Calm , you’ll discover how to: Be happier, more present, and more effective at home and work. Transform stress and anxiety into powerful tool...
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MJ Murray Vachon LCSW
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Jul 10, 2026
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Ep. 208 — How To Brighten Your Mood This Fall Using Light Exposure, To Reduce Midlife Stress & Anxiety 03.11.2025 12:41
Feeling more tired, anxious and stressed as the days get shorter? You’re not alone—your body and mind are simply responding to less daylight and seasonal change. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why fall is the most psychologically powerful season to reset habits that decrease anxiety and stress. 2. How light therapy and full-spectrum lighting help restore your energy, mood, and calm. 3...
Ep. 207 Death as a Teacher: How Thinking About Mortality Strengthens Midlife Coping Skills for Stress & Anxiety 30.10.2025 19:11
What if thinking about death could actually teach you how to live with more peace, presence, and perspective? You don’t have to explore this alone. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why practicing small acts of letting go builds resilience for life’s biggest transitions. How the body “knows how to die” and what that means for reducing fear and blame. A simple yoga pose that can shift how you appro...
Ep. 206 Death Isn’t Creepy: How Reflecting on Mortality Calms Midlife Anxiety & Stress 27.10.2025 14:06
Why does reflecting on death feel so uncomfortable, yet hold surprising value for our mental wellness? You’re not alone if the thought makes you uneasy. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why most of us avoid thoughts of mortality—and the hidden costs of that avoidance. How reflecting on death, even briefly, can shift daily stress and anxiety. What hospice work and mindfulness practices reveal abou...
Ep. 205 Surprising Coping Skills You Can Learn From Toddlers To Dissolve Anxiety and Stress In Midlife 23.10.2025 12:50
What if the surprising key to dissolving midlife anxiety and stress comes from the way toddlers move through the world? You’re not alone if stress and anxiety in midlife make calm feel out of reach. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why eliminating outside stressors rarely creates lasting calm 2. How toddlers teach powerful lessons about coping with midlife anxiety and stress 3. Right-...
Ep. 204 Feeling Anxious and Stressed? Your Best Midlife Coping Skill Is Already Inside You 20.10.2025 9:14
What if your calm hasn’t disappeared — you’ve just stopped practicing how to return to it? Stress and anxiety in midlife don’t require more control — they require better connection with what’s already inside you. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How to reconnect with natural calm using everyday moments 2. Why giving anxiety too much attention increases suffering 3. Simple coping skill...
Ep. 203 — Why "Pushing Through" Midlife Anxiety Backfires and Coping Skills To Regain Energy & Calm 16.10.2025 13:58
Do you pride yourself on powering through—but secretly feel drained and resentful? Pushing through anxiety and stress feels like the only option in midlife, but the truth is it often backfires. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why pushing through actually keeps the stress cycle open and makes anxiety worse 2. The hidden costs of the “push-through mode” in midlife 3. How to use RESET...
Ep. 202 Top Coping Skills to Instantly Stop Bad Days in Their Tracks—And Reduce Midlife Anxiety & Stress 13.10.2025 12:37
Have you ever had one of those days where the tiniest thing sets you off—like your partner’s chewing suddenly drives you nuts? That’s the science of a bad day at work in your brain and body. You don’t have to let one bad moment spiral into a bad day, or worse, a bad week. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why midlife stress and anxiety are wired into your brain and body 2. How to use the...
Ep. 201 How Taylor Swift’s “Life of a Showgirl” Interview Can Help Midlife Listeners Cope with Holiday Stress, Anxiety & Chaos 09.10.2025 8:00
Can Taylor Swift’s approach to calm help you manage midlife stress and anxiety this holiday season? (OMG, is she really talking about holidays???) You’re not alone — even the most grounded people feel the pull of pressure and expectation this time of year. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How Taylor Swift’s choice to protect her peace can inspire your own midlife coping skills. 2. Why se...
Ep. 200 The Surprising Coping Skill Taylor Swift Reveals in Her “Life of a Showgirl” Interview To Ease Midlife Stress & Anxiety 06.10.2025 7:59
What if one of the world’s most famous women just shared the secret to reducing anxiety in midlife? You’re not alone if endless scrolling leaves you feeling drained, distracted, and anxious. In this episode, you’ll discover: The conscious choices Taylor Swift makes to protect her peace and reduce stress. How attention, not time, may be your most valuable coping skill in midlife. Why less scrolling...
Ep. 199 How to Banish Your Inner Critic in Midlife and Move From Anxiety and Stress to Calm and Self-Trust 02.10.2025 11:01
Why does your inner critic keep pushing you harder even when you already know how to get things done in midlife? Your inner critic often hides behind “truth,” “motivation,” or “standards.” In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why tracing the roots of your inner critic matter and how giving it a midlife update can free you to trust yourself and enjoy your life 2. How self-criticism wires your bo...
Ep. 198 The Surprising Science Backed Coping Skill That Will Silence Your Inner Critic, Ease Midlife Anxiety & Calm Stress 29.09.2025 11:01
Why do your efforts to silence your inner critic never seem to last? You’re not alone—midlife anxiety and stress often thrive when criticism becomes a daily habit. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why calming your outer critic is the real key to quieting your inner critic 2. How midlife stress, anxiety, and overthinking are fueled by cultural patterns of criticism 3. The surprising science...
Ep. 197 Mel Robbins Says It Takes 200 Hours—Here’s Why Fifteen Seconds Can Ease Midlife Loneliness, Calm Anxiety, and Reduce Stress 25.09.2025 10:17
Can fifteen brave seconds really be enough to move you out of loneliness in midlife? You’re not alone—many people feel stuck in midlife loneliness while also battling anxiety and stress. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why Mel Robbins’ 200-hour friendship rule doesn’t capture the reality of connection in midlife How self-knowledge and social intelligence can make friendship easier and quicker to...
Ep. 196 Essential Coping Skills for Midlife Loneliness: How to Ease Anxiety and Stress by Rebuilding Community. 22.09.2025 9:50
Does your busyness cover up midlife loneliness without truly easing your anxiety and stress? You’re not alone—belonging often fades when school, church, or work communities disappear, leaving a quiet ache. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why loneliness in midlife reminds us that busyness doesn’t equal belonging. 2. How belonging shifts once familiar communities disappear—and why creat...
Ep. 195 Science-Backed Coping Skills Using the Comfort of Fall to Reduce Midlife Stress and Anxiety 18.09.2025 13:57
Do you know how the natural comfort of Fall can be used as a science-backed way to calm anxiety? You’re not alone—many in midlife overlook how the season itself can offer coping skills that reduce stress and restore resilience. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How to add physical comfort in ways that calm your nervous system and reduce midlife stress 2. Simple but powerful psychospiritua...
Ep. 194 The Surprising Way You Can Turn the Comfort of Fall into Coping Skills to Reduce Midlife Stress and Anxiety 15.09.2025 10:37
Are you overlooking the comfort of fall that could become a powerful coping skill for midlife stress and anxiety? You’re not alone—many people miss how seasonal routines and autumn comforts can ease anxiety and strengthen resilience. In this episode, you’ll discover: How the comfort of fall can anchor you in calm and reduce stress and anxiety in midlife The surprising difference between soothing a...
Ep. 193 Break Free From Stress & Anxiety For GOOD Using This Science Backed Midlife Coping Skill 11.09.2025 13:28
What if science could show you a way to finally get free from anxiety in midlife? You’re not alone—so many believe anxiety is something they just have to manage, but research and real-life practice prove otherwise. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why your amygdala often misfires and fuels unnecessary anxiety How blame and avoidance quietly keep you stuck in midlife stress The one science-backed...
Ep. 192 Why Your Brain Makes Midlife Anxiety Worse—and 3 Coping Skills to Calm Stress 08.09.2025 13:21
Have you ever acted on anxiety, only to find out later your brain got it wrong? You’re not alone — your brain’s alarm system can misinform, and knowing how to respond changes everything. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. What your amygdala is and why it can trigger anxiety even when you’re safe 2. Three science-backed coping skills to calm your amygdala 3. How to shift from anxious...
Ep. 191 Empty Nest Messy Middle — Coping Skills to Support Your Kids and Reduce Midlife Anxiety and Stress 04.09.2025 13:13
Do you feel like your nest is empty… but your kids still need you just as much? You’re not alone — this “in-between” stage is one of the most emotionally confusing seasons of midlife. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why the empty nest often feels more like a “messy middle” than a clean break. The Four D’s every parent needs to recognize — and how they shape your response. Practical coping skills...
Ep. 190: Why the Empty Nest Triggers Unexpected Anxiety and Stress in Midlife- and How to Move Through It With Ease 01.09.2025 10:21
Does your “empty nest” still feel full of emotions, memories, and a surprising amount of daily connection? You’re not alone if this shift feels more complicated than you imagined. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why the empty nest often brings unexpected waves of emotion in midlife 2. How savoring your home can be a powerful coping skill during times of transition 3. Practical way...
Ep. 189: How To Immediately Reduce Your Midlife Stress & Anxiety With These Easy & Fundamental Coping Skills 28.08.2025 10:36
Ever feel like your mind is spiraling but your body can’t catch up? You’re not alone—midlife anxiety and stress often demand more than just logic or positive thinking. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why your five senses are some of the fastest, most effective coping skills for anxiety and stress What to do when your usual calming strategies aren’t enough to reset your system How to build a pers...
EMERGENCY EPISODE: From Shock to Steady Ground — Coping Skills to Calm Anxiety & Stress After a School Shooting 27.08.2025 10:47
How do you begin to feel safe and steady again after experiencing a shooting? You don’t have to have all the answers, and you don’t have to go through this alone. In this episode, you’ll discover: The most important steps to protect your safety, body, and mind in the first days after a shooting How to gently reintroduce routine and emotional regulation in the following week Grounding practices and...
Ep. 188 2 Proven Coping Skills to Interrupt Midlife Anxiety Before It Spirals 25.08.2025 11:33
Is your anxiety hijacking your mind before you even notice it? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to stay stuck in the cycle. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. How to identify your unique anxiety signals before they take over 2. Why grounding your body in the present interrupts anxiety faster than thinking 3. A 90-second coping skill you can use daily to stay calm, focused, and pre...
Ep. 187 How This Simple 60-Second Coping Skill Eased One Listener’s Midlife Stress & How It'll Reduce Yours Too 21.08.2025 15:34
Can imagining success actually reduce stress in midlife—or is that just wishful thinking? You’re not the only one who doubts simple coping skills when stress feels overwhelming. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. A real-life listener’s story of using the “mental movie” coping skill to calm stress before a job interview 2. How running the mental movie three times helps ease resistance and...
Ep. 186: Turn Stress Into Action & Get More Done Using This Secret Hack For Midlife Anxiety 18.08.2025 10:05
Is midlife stress making even simple tasks feel overwhelming? There’s a powerful, brain-based coping skill that can help you stop avoiding and start doing—with more calm and clarity. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why your brain resists certain tasks—and how to gently override it 2. A simple science backed coping skill that transforms stress and boosts motivation 3. A real-life e...
Ep. 184 EMERGENCY EPISODE: From Shock to Steady Ground — Coping Skills to Calm Anxiety & Stress After a Shooting 12.08.2025 11:36
How do you begin to feel safe and steady again after experiencing a shooting? You don’t have to have all the answers, and you don’t have to go through this alone. In this episode, you’ll discover: The most important steps to protect your safety, body, and mind in the first days after a shooting How to gently reintroduce routine and emotional regulation in the following week Grounding practices and...
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