MJ Murray Vachon LCSW

Creating Midlife Calm: Coping Skills for Stress & Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships

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Coping Skills for Midlife Stress and Anxiety in Family, Work & Relationships Forget the midlife crisis—how about creating midlife calm ? The anxiety and stress of this life stage can drain your energy, fuel overthinking, and make it hard to enjoy what should be the best years of your life. This podcast offers practical coping skills to help you reduce anxiety, manage stress, and rediscover a calmer, more confident version of yourself. In Creating Midlife Calm , you’ll discover how to: Be happier, more present, and more effective at home and work. Transform stress and anxiety into powerful tool...

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MJ Murray Vachon LCSW

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mjmurrayvachon.com

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Jul 10, 2026

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Episodes

Ep. 233 The Surprising Way Disconnection From Yourself Causes Loneliness, Anxiety & Stress, in Midlife 29.01.2026

Why do anxiety and stress linger in midlife—even when you’re surrounded by people? You’re not broken—your nervous system may be responding to a quieter form of loneliness that often goes unrecognized. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.     Why anxiety and stress in midlife can stem from disconnection from yourself—not just from other people 2.     How coping skills rooted in self-alignment (not...

Ep. 232 Why Loneliness Increases Anxiety and Stress in Midlife and How Understanding This Brings Calm 26.01.2026

Why does loneliness in midlife so often show up as anxiety and stress instead of sadness? Nothing is wrong with you—your nervous system is responding exactly as humans are wired to respond. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.     Why loneliness acts as an amplifier for anxiety and stress in midlife 2.     How modern connection and emotional unsafety can quietly increase loneliness 3.     How copi...

Ep. 231 The Real Obstacles to Midlife Exercise—and Coping Skills to Calm Anxiety, Reduce Stress, and Keep You Moving 22.01.2026

Why does exercise feel harder in midlife—even when you know it matters? You’re not failing or falling behind; your body and stress load have genuinely changed. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    Why midlife anxiety, stress, and self-comparison quietly derail exercise 2.    How fatigue and shame create predictable obstacles that aren’t personal failures 3.    Doable coping skills to help you k...

Ep. 230 How Exercise Reduces Anxiety and Stress in Midlife—and the Mindset That Will Make Exercising Easier 19.01.2026

Why does exercise start to feel harder, more exhausting, or more discouraging in midlife? You’re not imagining it, and you’re not alone—your body and nervous system are responding to real changes. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    Why your  exercise mindset can increase anxiety and make movement feel harder in midlife 2.    How new science helps explain what’s changing in your body—and why i...

Ep. 229 Coping Skills to Overcome the Biggest Saboteurs of Midlife Weight Loss—and Decrease Anxiety & Stress 15.01.2026

Do you keep setting weight-loss goals in midlife only to feel derailed by self-criticism, slipups, or emotional eating? You’re not alone—these struggles are common in midlife and say nothing about your motivation or worth. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.     How common internal saboteurs quietly undermine midlife weight loss 2.     Why shifting from pressure and perfection to a more compassio...

Ep. 228 A Calmer Approach to Midlife Weight Loss Using Coping Skills That Reduce Anxiety & Stress While You Lose Weight 12.01.2026

Are you trying to lose weight in midlife without increasing anxiety, stress, or shame along the way? You’re not alone—many capable, motivated midlife adults feel discouraged by approaches that rely on pressure, urgency, and self-criticism. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    How shifting away from pressure, urgency, and self-judgment toward a calmer, more supportive approach creates sustainabl...

Ep. 227 Make Your Midlife Resolutions Stick with an Abundant Mindset and Coping Skills That Ease Anxiety and Stress 08.01.2026

What if your resolutions could feel doable instead of draining? You deserve goals that support you, not stress you out. In this episode, you’ll discover: How creating resolutions that align with your demanding life reduces midlife anxiety and creates meaningful motivation Why allowing discomfort — instead of resisting it — builds stronger coping skills for lasting change How to set resolutions tha...

Ep. 226 Why Trying Harder Won’t Make New Year’s Resolutions Stick in Midlife—and the Coping Skill That Lowers Anxiety & Stress While Helping You Succeed 05.01.2026

Why do midlife resolutions feel so stressful—and why don’t they seem to stick, no matter how hard you try? You’re not alone if January brings pressure instead of calm, let’s change this! In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.     Why “trying harder” increases midlife anxiety and stress instead of easing them 2.     The easy and natural  mindset shift  that supports real change in midlife.  3.     Th...

Ep. 225 6 Minutes to a More Abundant New Year: Transform Resolutions to Ease Midlife Anxiety & Stress 01.01.2026

Does the pressure to “get it right” in 2026 already have your anxiety rising? If you’re in midlife, January often brings more stress than calm—and it’s time for a different way forward. 1.    Learn why typical resolutions often fail and fuel anxiety, especially in midlife 2.    Understand the difference between the “good life” and the “abundant life”—and why it matters now 3.    Discover how to ro...

Ep. 224 Before 2025 Ends: A 8 Minute Festive Way To Banish Midlife Anxiety and Stress—No Coping Skill Needed! 29.12.2025

Are you craving a gentler and fun way to close out 2025?  Why not reflect on 2025 with calm, abundance and connection? In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    A simple and festive five-minute practice to calm midlife anxiety and stress as you bring 2025 to a close. 2.    A simple and fun way  to identify your Moments of Abundance from 2025 3.    A gentle end-of-year practice that helps you reconne...

Ep. 223 The Incredible 2-Minute Christmas Gift That Will Ease Your Anxiety, Stress, and Midlife Loneliness 25.12.2025

What if Christmas didn’t have to feel like something happening to you create and enjoy? You’re not alone if this holiday brings complicated feelings, stress, or midlife anxiety. In this episode, you’ll discover: How  a single word can bring you back into agency and calm on a day that often feels overwhelming Why a mental “movie” helps anchor your body and nervous system to reduce stress and make y...

Ep. 222 A Surprising Coping Skill to Ease Holiday Anxiety, Stress, and Midlife Lonelines 22.12.2025

Have the holidays ever made your loneliness feel heavier?  You’re not alone—midlife anxiety and stress often peak the week before Christmas. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.     Why loneliness intensifies during the holidays, especially in midlife 2.     How understanding the biology of loneliness softens your judgement helping you reduce loneliness.  3.     A gentle coping skill that helps yo...

Ep. 221 What to Do When Holiday Overload Increases Your Midlife Anxiety and Stress & Easy Coping Skills That Work 18.12.2025

Does the holiday season ever feel like a part-time job you’re paying to work? If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.     How to recognize when holiday expectations push your midlife brain into overwhelm 2.     The three  quick and free reset strategies that calm anxiety and stress quickly 3.     A simple way to reclaim your capacity without doing more...

Ep. 220 Why Understanding Stress, Anxiety, and Overwhelm in Midlife Brings More Calm To Your Holidays 15.12.2025

Do the holidays feel heavier because you’re carrying stress, anxiety, and overwhelm you barely had room for in the first place? You’re not alone if this season amplifies everything your midlife brain is already managing. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    The real difference between stress, anxiety, and overwhelm—and why holiday pressure intensifies all three 2.    What happens in your midlif...

Ep. 219 — Stop People-Pleasing: Coping Skills for Midlife Anxiety & Stress to Help You Set Boundaries and Stand in Your Authentic Self 11.12.2025

Do you ever feel like you’re stuck saying yes when every part of you wants to say no? People-pleasing may look helpful on the outside, but it fuels midlife anxiety and stress while leaving you disconnected from what you really want. In this episode, you’ll discover: How to notice the wave of feelings that trigger people-pleasing. Why anchoring in your breath helps break the fawning cycle. How the...

Ep. 218 How "People-Pleasing" Fuels Midlife Anxiety, Stress, and Anger—And Silences What You Really Want 08.12.2025

Do you ever wonder why you say yes when you want to say no—only to feel anxious, resentful, or even angry afterward? You’re not alone—people-pleasing is one of the most common hidden drivers of midlife anxiety and stress. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.     What people-pleasing (or fawning) really is, and why it’s more than just “being nice.” 2.     Why it silently fuels midlife anxiety, stre...

Ep. 217 3 Midlife Coping Skills to Instantly Calm Anxiety, Ease Stress, and Find Balance Fast This Holiday Season 04.12.2025

Do you ever feel like you’re either doing everything—or nothing at all—because stress and anxiety keep hijacking your balance? Midlife often pulls you between over-functioning and under-functioning, but your nervous system holds the key to calm. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    How to engage your vagus nerve—your body’s built-in calm system—to regulate anxiety and stress. 2.    Three easy-t...

Ep. 216 Why Midlife Stress and Anxiety Push You to Over-Function or Shut Down 01.12.2025

Are you constantly doing too much—or pulling back because you feel too drained to care? These midlife stress patterns are your body’s natural way of managing anxiety, not personal flaws. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    What it truly means to over-function or under-function when anxiety and stress take over. 2.    Why these patterns are nervous-system responses—not fixed personality traits....

Ep. 215 How to Disappointment-Proof Your Holiday in 6 Minutes Using This Unexpected Midlife Coping Skill for Stress and Anxiety 27.11.2025

What if the secret to a peaceful Thanksgiving isn’t in what you plan—but in what you accept? You’re not alone if the holidays bring a mix of love, pressure, and unrealistic expectations. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    Why disappointment hits harder in midlife—and how to soften it with self-awareness. 2.    The one ingredient that transforms stress into calm (no gratitude list required). 3...

Ep. 214 Forget Gratitude Lists - This 1 Midlife Coping Skill Will Instantly Add Connection & Zap Holiday Stress and Anxiety 23.11.2025

What if the secret to a calmer, happier holiday isn't what you add —but what you leave out ? You’re not alone if holiday gatherings bring stress, distraction, and midlife anxiety instead of the peace you crave. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    The one “ingredient” that quietly steals connection at the holiday table 2.    Why small boundaries create huge relief for midlife stress and an...

Ep. 213 — When Midlife Disappointment Turns to Anger or Self-Pity: Coping Skills for Stress and Anxiety 20.11.2025

Have you ever felt that mix of anger and self-pity when life—or family—doesn’t go the way you hoped? You’re not alone. Those emotions you try to hide aren’t weakness—they’re signals that something inside you needs care. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    Why anger and self-pity are your nervous system’s natural way of asking for protection and calm. 2.    How to recognize when these emotions...

Ep. 212 — How to Cope with the Midlife Holiday Ache of Missing Loved Ones: Simple Coping Skills for Stress, Anxiety, and Longing 17.11.2025

Have you ever looked at the holiday table and felt the quiet ache of someone missing? You’re not alone — and it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means your love is remembering. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.   The science of why your brain links memory, belonging, and emotion so powerfully this time of year. 2.   Why noticing your “missing” is the key to transforming midlife anxiety into calm...

Ep. 211 Triggered? The 1 Powerful Coping Skill That Can Calm Midlife Stress and Anxiety Before It Takes Over 13.11.2025

What if your biggest triggers are actually your best teachers? You’re not broken—you’re human, and your nervous system is simply trying to protect you. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    How to use a simple coping skill  to move through triggers in real time 2.    Why tending to your inner world (not controlling the outer one) is the real path to calm 3.    How using this science-backed copin...

Ep. 210 This Is What Science Says Really Happens To Your Brain When You're Triggered By Stress & Anxiety In Midlife 10.11.2025

Have you ever wondered why you suddenly feel triggered by something small? You’re not broken—your brain is simply reacting faster than your awareness can catch up. In this episode, you’ll discover: What’s really happening in your brain and body when you’re triggered. The science behind why a small moment in the present can activate big feelings from the past. Three ways to recognize when stress an...

Ep. 209 — The Science of Small Shifts: Easy Midlife Coping Skills That Take No Time But Calm Stress and Anxiety Before The Holidays 06.11.2025

Are you taking care of everyone else and forgetting yourself? You’re not alone — midlife often turns self-care into an afterthought, In this episode, you’ll discover: 1.    Why micro self-care shifts work better than big resolutions for midlife stress and anxiety. 2.    Four simple, science-backed coping skills that take no extra time and cost nothing. 3.    How to notice when caring for others st...

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